How soon is too soon to ask for a date. (47)
Topcat1972: How long should someone wait and chat before asking someone on a date.
Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.
Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.
If youre feeling it....ask!!!
Crystal29: If youre feeling it....ask!!!
Yep, what she said.
Topcat1972: How long should someone wait and chat before asking someone on a date.
Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.
Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.
Depends really i suppose. If you are chatting about trivial stuff like the weather the time isn't right yet but if the conversation is about the deeper things in life i think the time is right...How long is a piece of string?
did i ask 2 soon 
Topcat1972: How long should someone wait and chat before asking someone on a date.
Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.
All depends on the situation. But if you really like her then ask away.Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.
foxyhobnob: did i ask 2 soon
No hun. Thanks. 
I just set up a poll. It might work better.
Keeneland: Depends really i suppose. If you are chatting about trivial stuff like the weather the time isn't right yet but if the conversation is about the deeper things in life i think the time is right...How long is a piece of string?
nah i think if yor feeling it ask....you'll get to know someone way better in person than on here...so i say go for it...wouldnt call it a date date doh more like meeting for a coffee, that way then you can leave soon after if its not working out
at the end of the day all she can say is no
having said that am pretty shy asking out myself usually i never know whether they just like me or fancy me
having said that am pretty shy asking out myself usually i never know whether they just like me or fancy me
Topcat1972: How long should someone wait and chat before asking someone on a date.
Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.
Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.
sooner the better no time like the present
Take your time and if it is the online dating,i would give it 2 weeks as you will get to know each other,though message.Ask for a date when you get to the stage the messaging has got to the next stage a date.Never rush it as i think it is good for the women to chase the man.Guys instinct is to rush in to fast.Be a challenge take your time,get to know each other.
TheRocker: Take your time and if it is the online dating,i would give it 2 weeks as you will get to know each other,though message.Ask for a date when you get to the stage the messaging has got to the next stage a date.Never rush it as i think it is good for the women to chase the man.Guys instinct is to rush in to fast.Be a challenge take your time,get to know each other.
Maybe that's where I am going wrong, all these years I thought it was the other way round, lol.
In response to: How long should someone wait and chat before asking someone on a date.
Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.
Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.
if you feel a connection go for it...as soon as....
go on...go on..go on.....
sooner the better is my opinion!
and you don't have to use the "D" word, make it casual and ask to meet for coffee or lunch
good luck, does this mean we will be losing you soon?
and you don't have to use the "D" word, make it casual and ask to meet for coffee or lunch
good luck, does this mean we will be losing you soon?
TheRocker: Take your time and if it is the online dating,i would give it 2 weeks as you will get to know each other,though message.Ask for a date when you get to the stage the messaging has got to the next stage a date.Never rush it as i think it is good for the women to chase the man.Guys instinct is to rush in to fast.Be a challenge take your time,get to know each other.
I seriously hope that was a misprint or you will be waiting and wondering a long time! most women I know would not chase a bus don't mind a man
starattax: I totally agree. id always wait to be asked. my god i would never in a million years chase a man
hmmm and some women wonder why they are single..
starattax: well u could always give the idea u wouldnt say no. but im afraid i was reared the old fashioned way
lol... well so was i, and i have a lot of old fashioned values, but im always a believer that if you want something, get up and get it, it wont come to you if you sit there waiting just looking all pretty..
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Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.