How soon is too soon to ask for a date. (47)

Oct 21, 2009 3:52 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
Topcat1972
Topcat1972Topcat1972Portarlington, Leix Ireland9 Threads 1 Polls 403 Posts
How long should someone wait and chat before asking someone on a date.

Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.dunno
Oct 21, 2009 3:53 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
Crystal29
Crystal29Crystal29Glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK35 Threads 8,448 Posts
Topcat1972: How long should someone wait and chat before asking someone on a date.

Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.


If youre feeling it....ask!!! wave
Oct 21, 2009 3:55 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
Crystal29: If youre feeling it....ask!!!


thumbs up Yep, what she said.
Oct 21, 2009 3:55 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
Keeneland
KeenelandKeenelandDublin, Ireland19 Threads 3 Polls 1,993 Posts
Topcat1972: How long should someone wait and chat before asking someone on a date.

Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.



Depends really i suppose. If you are chatting about trivial stuff like the weather the time isn't right yet but if the conversation is about the deeper things in life i think the time is right...How long is a piece of string?laugh
Oct 21, 2009 3:55 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
foxyhobnob
foxyhobnobfoxyhobnobcork, Cork Ireland22 Threads 3 Polls 522 Posts
did i ask 2 soon rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 21, 2009 3:58 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
FriendlyFeline
FriendlyFelineFriendlyFelineMayo, Ireland18 Threads 2,908 Posts
Topcat1972: How long should someone wait and chat before asking someone on a date.

Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.
All depends on the situation. But if you really like her then ask away.
Oct 21, 2009 3:58 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
Topcat1972
Topcat1972Topcat1972Portarlington, Leix Ireland9 Threads 1 Polls 403 Posts
foxyhobnob: did i ask 2 soon
No hun. Thanks. grin

I just set up a poll. It might work better.
Oct 21, 2009 4:01 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
navbabe
navbabenavbabenavan, Meath Ireland41 Threads 2 Polls 2,800 Posts
Keeneland: Depends really i suppose. If you are chatting about trivial stuff like the weather the time isn't right yet but if the conversation is about the deeper things in life i think the time is right...How long is a piece of string?
nah i think if yor feeling it ask....you'll get to know someone way better in person than on here...so i say go for it...wouldnt call it a date date doh more like meeting for a coffee, that way then you can leave soon after if its not working out
Oct 21, 2009 4:03 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
at the end of the day all she can say is no
having said that am pretty shy asking out myself usually i never know whether they just like me or fancy me
Oct 21, 2009 4:49 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
Topcat1972: How long should someone wait and chat before asking someone on a date.

Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.


sooner the better no time like the presenthandshake
Oct 21, 2009 4:57 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
Papa_Georgio
Papa_GeorgioPapa_GeorgioCork, Ireland2 Threads 290 Posts
it can happen after 5 seconds or 5 weeks who knows
Oct 21, 2009 5:00 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
TheRocker
TheRockerTheRockerDublin, Ireland3 Threads 95 Posts
Take your time and if it is the online dating,i would give it 2 weeks as you will get to know each other,though message.Ask for a date when you get to the stage the messaging has got to the next stage a date.Never rush it as i think it is good for the women to chase the man.Guys instinct is to rush in to fast.Be a challenge take your time,get to know each other.grin
Oct 21, 2009 5:03 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
FriendlyFeline
FriendlyFelineFriendlyFelineMayo, Ireland18 Threads 2,908 Posts
TheRocker: Take your time and if it is the online dating,i would give it 2 weeks as you will get to know each other,though message.Ask for a date when you get to the stage the messaging has got to the next stage a date.Never rush it as i think it is good for the women to chase the man.Guys instinct is to rush in to fast.Be a challenge take your time,get to know each other.
Maybe that's where I am going wrong, all these years I thought it was the other way round, lol.
Oct 21, 2009 5:23 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
sharina
sharinasharinadublin, Dublin Ireland38 Threads 2 Polls 3,166 Posts
In response to: How long should someone wait and chat before asking someone on a date.

Id be interested in peoples view on this. I think the sooner the better. What do you think.


if you feel a connection go for it...as soon as....
conversing
go on...go on..go on.....wave
Oct 21, 2009 5:36 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
sooner the better is my opinion!
and you don't have to use the "D" word, make it casual and ask to meet for coffee or lunch grin
good luck, does this mean we will be losing you soon? blues crying
Oct 21, 2009 5:37 PM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
TheRocker: Take your time and if it is the online dating,i would give it 2 weeks as you will get to know each other,though message.Ask for a date when you get to the stage the messaging has got to the next stage a date.Never rush it as i think it is good for the women to chase the man.Guys instinct is to rush in to fast.Be a challenge take your time,get to know each other.


I seriously hope that was a misprint or you will be waiting and wondering a long time! most women I know would not chase a bus don't mind a man rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 22, 2009 9:33 AM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
TheRocker
TheRockerTheRockerDublin, Ireland3 Threads 95 Posts
This is the best advice i have heard that was give by a wise man.
"A man should never chase a woman,or a bus because there is always 3 buses that arrive in a row!"

The thrill is in the chase girls!professor
Oct 22, 2009 9:40 AM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
gimpygump
gimpygumpgimpygumpcarlow, Carlow Ireland121 Posts
starattax: I totally agree. id always wait to be asked. my god i would never in a million years chase a man


hmmm and some women wonder why they are single..confused rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 22, 2009 9:43 AM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
starattax
starattaxstarattaxcarlow, Carlow Ireland6 Threads 181 Posts
gimpygump: hmmm and some women wonder why they are single..


well u could always give the idea u wouldnt say no. but im afraid i was reared the old fashioned wayblushing
Oct 22, 2009 9:45 AM CST How soon is too soon to ask for a date.
gimpygump
gimpygumpgimpygumpcarlow, Carlow Ireland121 Posts
starattax: well u could always give the idea u wouldnt say no. but im afraid i was reared the old fashioned way


lol... well so was i, and i have a lot of old fashioned values, but im always a believer that if you want something, get up and get it, it wont come to you if you sit there waiting just looking all pretty..blushing
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