why do we feel we are not beautiful? ( Archived) (44)

Oct 24, 2009 12:04 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
hello2you
hello2youhello2youbellefontaine, Ohio USA8 Threads 4 Polls 36 Posts
why do we are not beautiful i meani change my hair color,cuts,style in clothes i mean what is it that makes us feel this way i mean we all had a reason to come here and feel that way like we are not wanted. i want to hear feed back on this
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Oct 24, 2009 12:07 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
hello2you: why do we are not beautiful i meani change my hair color,cuts,style in clothes i mean what is it that makes us feel this way i mean we all had a reason to come here and feel that way like we are not wanted. i want to hear feed back on this


i am not beautiful because i kinda like being uglygrin
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Oct 24, 2009 12:35 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
hello2you
hello2youhello2youbellefontaine, Ohio USA8 Threads 4 Polls 36 Posts
that is sad
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Oct 24, 2009 1:38 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
hello2you: that is sad


not really...nowhere it is written that one has to feel beautiful to feel good or happydunno
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Oct 24, 2009 1:44 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
LovelySerene
LovelySereneLovelySereneKansas City, Kansas USA15 Threads 1 Polls 286 Posts
I think it's cause the people in the world created their Idea of beauty
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Oct 24, 2009 4:03 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
Folks that have low self esteem issues cannot feel or see the beauty in themselves,these issues can be worked on if the person is willing to dispel negative thoughts about themselves,real beauty comes from within and when you learn to love yourself it shows outwardly,its a wonderful sight to see someone with real confidence and self love..bouquet
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Oct 24, 2009 7:04 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
goodfriend: Folks that have low self esteem issues cannot feel or see the beauty in themselves,these issues can be worked on if the person is willing to dispel negative thoughts about themselves,real beauty comes from within and when you learn to love yourself it shows outwardly,its a wonderful sight to see someone with real confidence and self love..
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Oct 24, 2009 7:09 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
hello2you: why do we are not beautiful i meani change my hair color,cuts,style in clothes i mean what is it that makes us feel this way i mean we all had a reason to come here and feel that way like we are not wanted. i want to hear feed back on this


I find a woman more attractive when she is who she is, without any pretence...... even without makeup or well dressed.... its the personality that counts.

The beauty you speak of is only a figment of the imagination of marketing men, trying to sell more product.... ignore it

JMHO
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Oct 24, 2009 9:35 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
hello2you
hello2youhello2youbellefontaine, Ohio USA8 Threads 4 Polls 36 Posts
i use to feel like that. like i didnt need makeup but my work and without doing my hairpeople would look at you different and i would so get fired if i never did.
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Oct 27, 2009 6:31 PM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
cmc123
cmc123cmc123Lisboa, Lisbon Portugal1 Threads 1 Polls 58 Posts
Some beauty comes from our genes, but really, most comes from self confidence and esteem, and being natural in the way we live life.
Many people have beliefs that limit the way they live life or feel about themselves. The trick is to find and then shine a light on these beliefs, then they usually begin to disappear.
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Oct 27, 2009 7:03 PM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
CoolCeol
CoolCeolCoolCeolPittsburgh, Pennsylvania USA9 Posts
hello2you: why do we are not beautiful i meani change my hair color,cuts,style in clothes i mean what is it that makes us feel this way i mean we all had a reason to come here and feel that way like we are not wanted. i want to hear feed back on this



The Bible tells us who we are. We are God's and that's all that matters. The Bible says:

God made all of creation. We were fearfully and wonderfully made. We are His handiwork (art). He knows the number of hairs on our heads. He knew us before we were in our mother's wombs. My worth is not found in this world. I am my Father's masterpiece.

There are some mean, shallow people here on CS. We must ignore the criticism of men and see our beauty through God's eyes.
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Oct 27, 2009 11:24 PM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
wildkitty
wildkittywildkittymt.view, Oklahoma USA34 Threads 1 Polls 1,308 Posts
i think going through life experiences and daily changes causes us to feel like we are not beautiful anymore, comes with age i think. dunno
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Oct 27, 2009 11:30 PM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
reni43
reni43reni43colorado springs, Colorado USA3 Threads 1 Polls 71 Posts
I don't know. What do we define as beautiful. I might be a hot mama to one and the average woman to the next. It all comes down to when I myself look in the mirror and are happy. I used to think I was ugly when I was 20 now I feel good about myself and for some reason I don't worry about that.shimmy super frog
hello2you: why do we are not beautiful i meani change my hair color,cuts,style in clothes i mean what is it that makes us feel this way i mean we all had a reason to come here and feel that way like we are not wanted. i want to hear feed back on this
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Oct 27, 2009 11:33 PM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
I think it's in our nature to be highly critical of our selves. I do not like myself in pictures, nor do I like to listen to my voice on tape. I can see 100 things wrong with me, while others see those wrongs as only character and uniqueness. And it's funny because that's how I see others...but not myself!! dunno confused grin cool
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Oct 27, 2009 11:36 PM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
rubendario
rubendariorubendarioHartford, Connecticut USA8 Threads 1 Polls 3,278 Posts
reni43: What do we define as beautiful. I might be a hot mama to one and the average woman to the next.

Good point, everyone sees something different and beauty is really in the eyes of the beholder!! Hence, to the right person, you are beautiful as you are!! grin cool
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Oct 28, 2009 12:31 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
hello2you: why do we are not beautiful i meani change my hair color,cuts,style in clothes i mean what is it that makes us feel this way i mean we all had a reason to come here and feel that way like we are not wanted. i want to hear feed back on this


I was listening to a radio talk-show and apparently there was a survey done wherein less than 5% of women considered themselves beautiful.

I believe it was a survey done in North America so I'm unsure of how other countries would respond to a similar survey taking into consideration the various influences of television, media, advertising etc. There are so many different things that can influence our perceptions of ourselves. Perhaps as well, if others made an effort to notice people, they would take more pride in their appearance. If someone looks great in purple, give them a genuine compliment - its so easy yet how many people take the time to make another feel good?

Inner beauty will shine, and when we describe our friends or people that we love to another - how often do we mention their "outer beauty"?? Its the inner qualities that we describe .... so take a look into a person to truly see the real them and you might be surprised at how truly beautiful they are.
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Oct 28, 2009 12:32 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
hello2you: why do we are not beautiful i meani change my hair color,cuts,style in clothes i mean what is it that makes us feel this way i mean we all had a reason to come here and feel that way like we are not wanted. i want to hear feed back on this


You suck your thumb.

This is indicative of very deep psychological malfunction.

You need to see a shrink.

You need to suck something else - find somebody who can help you find a substitute! hug
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Oct 28, 2009 12:33 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Englishman55: I find a woman more attractive when she is who she is, without any pretence...... even without makeup or well dressed.... its the personality that counts.

The beauty you speak of is only a figment of the imagination of marketing men, trying to sell more product.... ignore it

JMHO


From a man with a big smile and little use for hair beauty products! thumbs up
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Oct 28, 2009 3:25 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
onshorewinds
onshorewindsonshorewindssilkeborg, Central Jutland Denmark9 Threads 1 Polls 73 Posts
hello2you: why do we are not beautiful i meani change my hair color,cuts,style in clothes i mean what is it that makes us feel this way i mean we all had a reason to come here and feel that way like we are not wanted. i want to hear feed back on this
Maybe because we don't get laid enough..grin grin All the so-called beautiful people do..all the time,or so we are led to believe...professor
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Oct 28, 2009 3:34 AM CST why do we feel we are not beautiful?
temporary
temporarytemporary., Central Serbia Serbia5 Threads 216 Posts
onshorewinds: Maybe because we don't get laid enough.. All the so-called beautiful people do..all the time,or so we are led to believe...


simply put

simply true



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