Help!! (24)

Oct 27, 2009 4:30 AM CST Help!!
Minieme
MiniemeMiniemeDublin, Ireland35 Threads 6 Polls 1,738 Posts
Hay All!

Just came across someones dating profile and they are currently in a relationship.... uh oh

Do I tell the other party??

Its not an old profile... It was recently active??

Help dunno
Oct 27, 2009 4:31 AM CST Help!!
Minieme
MiniemeMiniemeDublin, Ireland35 Threads 6 Polls 1,738 Posts
Minieme: Hay All!

Just came across someones dating profile and they are currently in a relationship....

Do I tell the other party??

Its not an old profile... It was recently active??

Help


Its not on CS BTW!
Oct 27, 2009 4:33 AM CST Help!!
irish1978eyes
irish1978eyesirish1978eyesDublin, Meath Ireland60 Threads 7,318 Posts
Minieme: Hay All!

Just came across someones dating profile and they are currently in a relationship....

Do I tell the other party??

Its not an old profile... It was recently active??

Help


How do you mean?? a couple you know? One of them is on a dating site>>>>?????confused Well if so...Id say nothing, if one of them is not to be trusted, the other will find out soon enough...they will smell the rat themselves Minieme...I never get involved in couples...you be the worst in the world if they make up....JMOteddybear
Oct 27, 2009 4:37 AM CST Help!!
Minieme
MiniemeMiniemeDublin, Ireland35 Threads 6 Polls 1,738 Posts
irish1978eyes: How do you mean?? a couple you know? One of them is on a dating site>>>>????? Well if so...Id say nothing, if one of them is not to be trusted, the other will find out soon enough...they will smell the rat themselves Minieme...I never get involved in couples...you be the worst in the world if they make up....JMO


Yeah... Im thinking the same myself... Prob best not to open my mouth!!

God! MEN!!!

frustrated
Oct 27, 2009 4:40 AM CST Help!!
irish1978eyes
irish1978eyesirish1978eyesDublin, Meath Ireland60 Threads 7,318 Posts
Minieme: Yeah... Im thinking the same myself... Prob best not to open my mouth!!

God! MEN!!!


You could always approach him and say it...and make him tell her but yeah worse to get involved I reckon...Not only Men do it though...women Im sure are at that craic too...if your friend is smart though she will catch him out in no time...and hope she does!!teddybear
Oct 27, 2009 4:46 AM CST Help!!
Minieme
MiniemeMiniemeDublin, Ireland35 Threads 6 Polls 1,738 Posts
irish1978eyes: You could always approach him and say it...and make him tell her but yeah worse to get involved I reckon...Not only Men do it though...women Im sure are at that craic too...if your friend is smart though she will catch him out in no time...and hope she does!!


The chances are she wont cause she wouldnt use the net at all really ye know.. But sure ill leave it be or maybe join that site in the hope that he will see me n delete it maybe???

doh
Oct 27, 2009 4:51 AM CST Help!!
irish1978eyes
irish1978eyesirish1978eyesDublin, Meath Ireland60 Threads 7,318 Posts
Minieme: The chances are she wont cause she wouldnt use the net at all really ye know.. But sure ill leave it be or maybe join that site in the hope that he will see me n delete it maybe???


Go with your gut instinct ans leave it be, she will soon find out herself if he not a trusting guy, you would only be worst in the world girl...sigh
Oct 27, 2009 4:52 AM CST Help!!
dont get involved min not our business to become a third party
Oct 27, 2009 4:54 AM CST Help!!
Minieme
MiniemeMiniemeDublin, Ireland35 Threads 6 Polls 1,738 Posts
irish1978eyes: Go with your gut instinct ans leave it be, she will soon find out herself if he not a trusting guy, you would only be worst in the world girl...


Yep! Best off!

Ta pet :D
Oct 27, 2009 4:56 AM CST Help!!
boredguy
boredguyboredguydublin, Kildare Ireland33 Threads 1 Polls 1,788 Posts
I'd message him saying hi ..and what a surprise to see him in here like....and that you didn't know him and your pal had broke up ....ask him what happen ..see what his response would be..dancing
Oct 27, 2009 5:00 AM CST Help!!
Minieme
MiniemeMiniemeDublin, Ireland35 Threads 6 Polls 1,738 Posts
boredguy: I'd message him saying hi ..and what a surprise to see him in here like....and that you didn't know him and your pal had broke up ....ask him what happen ..see what his response would be..


Its kinda evident they are still together cause i seen em yesterday! Am gona stay well away from this one!

Thanks all for your help here!

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Oct 27, 2009 5:01 AM CST Help!!
Minieme
MiniemeMiniemeDublin, Ireland35 Threads 6 Polls 1,738 Posts
boredguy: I'd message him saying hi ..and what a surprise to see him in here like....and that you didn't know him and your pal had broke up ....ask him what happen ..see what his response would be..


Its kinda evident they are still together cause i seen em yesterday! Am gona stay well away from this one!

Thanks all for your help here!

M handshake
Oct 27, 2009 5:01 AM CST Help!!
robpacciani
robpaccianirobpaccianiGalway, Ireland211 Threads 3 Polls 5,134 Posts
Minieme: Hay All!

Just came across someones dating profile and they are currently in a relationship....

Do I tell the other party??

Its not an old profile... It was recently active??

Help


no, not your concern, if i were you, just leave it be, theese things work themselves out
Oct 27, 2009 5:13 AM CST Help!!
catsaway
catsawaycatsawayKilkenny, Ireland23 Threads 1 Polls 604 Posts
TELL HER!! I know for one i'd like to know what do you risk being unliked for a while or having your friend being heart broken if it goes on to him meeting somebody else or even worse seeing somebody else behind her back while she thinks everything is going great. . I know if it was me and I found out somebody knew what he was at and didn't tell me it would be the worse thing a so called friend would do. . Wouldn't you like to know if it was you TELL THE POOR GIRL. .
Oct 27, 2009 5:19 AM CST Help!!
Keeneland
KeenelandKeenelandDublin, Ireland19 Threads 3 Polls 1,993 Posts
Minieme: Hay All!

Just came across someones dating profile and they are currently in a relationship....

Do I tell the other party??

Its not an old profile... It was recently active??

Help



Best off minding your own business i reckon.
Oct 27, 2009 5:30 AM CST Help!!
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
Minieme: Hay All!

Just came across someones dating profile and they are currently in a relationship....

Do I tell the other party??

Its not an old profile... It was recently active??

Help


Could just be an oversight. Forgotten to change status on their profile, or didn't know how to.
Oct 27, 2009 5:32 AM CST Help!!
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
catsaway: TELL HER!! I know for one i'd like to know what do you risk being unliked for a while or having your friend being heart broken if it goes on to him meeting somebody else or even worse seeing somebody else behind her back while she thinks everything is going great. . I know if it was me and I found out somebody knew what he was at and didn't tell me it would be the worse thing a so called friend would do. . Wouldn't you like to know if it was you TELL THE POOR GIRL. .


If you are her friend you should tell her, its rhe right thing to do.
Oct 27, 2009 7:17 AM CST Help!!
JustLittleMe
JustLittleMeJustLittleMeDublin, Wicklow Ireland115 Threads 7 Polls 2,280 Posts
Same thing happend to me, but It was just someone I knew about the town, a neighbour of a friend, I stayed out of it, but I put an awful lot of thought into it. If it had of been a close friend of mine I think I would have gotten involved, as really I would expect my close friends to tell me if the shoe was on the other foot. Speaking from experience, I was cheated on before and the fact that a friend of mine had known about it and didnt tell me, ruined our friendship.
Oct 27, 2009 7:26 AM CST Help!!
kev147
kev147kev147Dublin, Ireland12 Threads 5 Polls 373 Posts
id mind your own business to be honest !
Just pretend you never saw it
Oct 27, 2009 7:37 AM CST Help!!
pussygalore1
pussygalore1pussygalore1dublin, Dublin Ireland4 Posts
Minieme: Hay All!

Just came across someones dating profile and they are currently in a relationship....

Do I tell the other party??

Its not an old profile... It was recently active??

Help






I would make sure its definatly him before I'd say anything to anyone, the net is a dangerous place and it quite possible someone could be using his 'pic' without him knowing, the best thing to do is mail him and sound out if its him for sure. Just to be sure! If you confirm it is him, I would have to tell his girlfriend it would be a double wammy to find out your friend knew and never said anything. Good Luck.
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