have any of you (37)

Oct 28, 2009 4:03 AM CST have any of you
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
ever been the other man or woman i have just discovered that the last girl i went out with was in fact married. Im shocked at my stupidity i would consider myself a good judge but not anymore
Oct 28, 2009 4:12 AM CST have any of you
paphos
paphospaphosWexford and, Dublin Ireland673 Posts
You mean you were in a relationship with her and didn't know, or just went on a date or two.....conversing
Oct 28, 2009 4:14 AM CST have any of you
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
jimbo79: ever been the other man or woman i have just discovered that the last girl i went out with was in fact married. Im shocked at my stupidity i would consider myself a good judge but not anymore


It happened to me once, seeing the girl for a couple of months and then she told me her husband suspected she was cheating on him,, first thing I had heard about a husband and I wasnt too pleased and told her I didnt want to continue the relationship.
its not a nice feeling that you are some blokes wife.
Oct 28, 2009 4:16 AM CST have any of you
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
stanley8m: It happened to me once, seeing the girl for a couple of months and then she told me her husband suspected she was cheating on him,, first thing I had heard about a husband and I wasnt too pleased and told her I didnt want to continue the relationship.
its not a nice feeling that you are some blokes wife.


typo, that should read seeing some blokes wife
Oct 28, 2009 4:20 AM CST have any of you
paphos
paphospaphosWexford and, Dublin Ireland673 Posts
stanley8m: typo, that should read seeing some blokes wife


Spoil sport..... that typo cheered me up no end!! dancing
Oct 28, 2009 4:29 AM CST have any of you
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
paphos: You mean you were in a relationship with her and didn't know, or just went on a date or two.....
it was a relationship kinda long distance
Oct 28, 2009 4:37 AM CST have any of you
paphos
paphospaphosWexford and, Dublin Ireland673 Posts
jimbo79: it was a relationship kinda long distance


Right, I get you. Easy to hide a husband then at a distance.... hope you didn't get to wounded. I have been talking to someone on msn that I originally met on here and I am convinced he is married and wont meet him because of it. He is still in denial... Did you get any red lights and blind yourself to them in retrospect?
Oct 28, 2009 4:40 AM CST have any of you
robpacciani
robpaccianirobpaccianiGalway, Ireland211 Threads 3 Polls 5,134 Posts
paphos: Right, I get you. Easy to hide a husband then at a distance.... hope you didn't get to wounded. I have been talking to someone on msn that I originally met on here and I am convinced he is married and wont meet him because of it. He is still in denial... Did you get any red lights and blind yourself to them in retrospect?


forgot to say onion aswell paphos sorry doh
Oct 28, 2009 4:48 AM CST have any of you
paphos
paphospaphosWexford and, Dublin Ireland673 Posts
robpacciani: forgot to say onion aswell paphos sorry


oh thanks.... rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 28, 2009 4:53 AM CST have any of you
robpacciani
robpaccianirobpaccianiGalway, Ireland211 Threads 3 Polls 5,134 Posts
paphos: oh thanks....


would be quite bland without that lol.. your up early
Oct 28, 2009 4:53 AM CST have any of you
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
paphos: Right, I get you. Easy to hide a husband then at a distance.... hope you didn't get to wounded. I have been talking to someone on msn that I originally met on here and I am convinced he is married and wont meet him because of it. He is still in denial... Did you get any red lights and blind yourself to them in retrospect?
oh red lights is all im seeing now the signs were there. We introduced kids hers been a baby so he couldnt talk but my little lad still asks for her on the up side im seeing a nice girl now but it definately thought me a lesson
Oct 28, 2009 4:58 AM CST have any of you
paphos
paphospaphosWexford and, Dublin Ireland673 Posts
robpacciani: would be quite bland without that lol.. your up early


Who said I was up?! Im in bed..... my dinner guests didn't leave until 3 30 am!! Feeling a bit shook.cool
Oct 28, 2009 5:00 AM CST have any of you
robpacciani
robpaccianirobpaccianiGalway, Ireland211 Threads 3 Polls 5,134 Posts
paphos: Who said I was up?! Im in bed..... my dinner guests didn't leave until 3 30 am!! Feeling a bit shook.


ah i see, same as me, im also in bed. so how did the dinner party go? all to plan?? tell me about it applause
Oct 28, 2009 5:00 AM CST have any of you
little_miss
little_misslittle_missOffaly, Ireland81 Threads 1,701 Posts
jimbo79: oh red lights is all im seeing now the signs were there. We introduced kids hers been a baby so he couldnt talk but my little lad still asks for her on the up side im seeing a nice girl now but it definately thought me a lesson


oh my god, thats kind of sad on her part that she's married, has a baby and is meeting people off a site, lots of unhappy married people here ... wonder is it that they dont know how or when to be happy /giving up too easily or that they got married for wrong reasons ...?
Oct 28, 2009 5:00 AM CST have any of you
paphos
paphospaphosWexford and, Dublin Ireland673 Posts
jimbo79: oh red lights is all im seeing now the signs were there. We introduced kids hers been a baby so he couldnt talk but my little lad still asks for her on the up side im seeing a nice girl now but it definately thought me a lesson


Just another example of how we have to be so careful online! People can be whoever they want really....sigh
Oct 28, 2009 5:04 AM CST have any of you
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
little_miss: oh my god, thats kind of sad on her part that she's married, has a baby and is meeting people off a site, lots of unhappy married people here ... wonder is it that they dont know how or when to be happy /giving up too easily or that they got married for wrong reasons ...?
from what ive gathered the baby is not her husbands and she does this the whole time but it would make you wonder whats in peoples minds
Oct 28, 2009 5:07 AM CST have any of you
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
paphos: Just another example of how we have to be so careful online! People can be whoever they want really....
very true you can be who you want online
Oct 28, 2009 5:08 AM CST have any of you
little_miss
little_misslittle_missOffaly, Ireland81 Threads 1,701 Posts
jimbo79: from what ive gathered the baby is not her husbands and she does this the whole time but it would make you wonder whats in peoples minds


ah god, sounds even worse, i hope she gets her head sorted

yeah it would make u wonder alright, but i think id have some inkling, i think dunno
Oct 28, 2009 5:15 AM CST have any of you
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
little_miss: ah god, sounds even worse, i hope she gets her head sorted

yeah it would make u wonder alright, but i think id have some inkling, i think
ye i had an inkling at times but then it would go i think it was a time of personal weakness for me been not long out of a marraige myself
Oct 28, 2009 5:18 AM CST have any of you
crotalus_p
crotalus_pcrotalus_pRush, Dublin Ireland43 Threads 6 Polls 2,789 Posts
jimbo79: from what ive gathered the baby is not her husbands and she does this the whole time but it would make you wonder whats in peoples minds
I remember reading a statistic form the uk that said 1 in 7 men are raising a child under the false belief it is their’s
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