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crotalus_p: I remember reading a statistic form the uk that said 1 in 7 men are raising a child under the false belief it is their’s
yes ive seen that stat myself makes you wonder what motivates people like that. I heard one case where the couple had 3 kids and she got him to have the snip it was only after he found out the 3 kids were not his
crotalus_p: I remember reading a statistic form the uk that said 1 in 7 men are raising a child under the false belief it is their’s
yeah I heard that too , I knew one bloke from newcastle who was looking forward to the birth of his first child, he was at the bedside and when the child was delivered he discovered straight away that he wasnt the father as the baby was black,
jimbo79: yes ive seen that stat myself makes you wonder what motivates people like that.
People are not naturally monogamous , (it’s to do with varying the dna mix no that the dna has a greater chance of survival)little_miss: oh dear, if men were to give birth instead, i wonder what the statistic would be??
Well I tell you thing there wouldn’t be all this maternity leave , if a bloke was having a baby it would be a case of go in in the morning have it , 2 panadol and back to work in the after noon 
jimbo79: ever been the other man or woman i have just discovered that the last girl i went out with was in fact married. Im shocked at my stupidity i would consider myself a good judge but not anymore
Strangly enough i have heard of this happening but mainly to men,it prob does happen to women too but i think most women are more doubtful or wary of meeting a new man and would suss him out pretty quickly as to whither something wasnt quiet right..
Communication between two people is very important but in a case like this a lot of lies must have been told on her part..
Sorry it happened to you but put it down to a learning experience.
missspecial: Strangly enough i have heard of this happening but mainly to men,it prob does happen to women too but i think most women are more doubtful or wary of meeting a new man and would suss him out pretty quickly as to whither something wasnt quiet right..
Communication between two people is very important but in a case like this a lot of lies must have been told on her part..
Sorry it happened to you but put it down to a learning experience.
very true ah well it was a lesson well learned and out of it indirectly it lead me to the girl im seeing now so im seeing it as a good thingCommunication between two people is very important but in a case like this a lot of lies must have been told on her part..
Sorry it happened to you but put it down to a learning experience.
jimbo79: very true ah well it was a lesson well learned and out of it indirectly it lead me to the girl im seeing now so im seeing it as a good thing
Well thats good
and best of luck and happiness with your new girl.
missspecial: Well thats good
and best of luck and happiness with your new girl.
thanks and you tooand best of luck and happiness with your new girl.
jimbo79: ever been the other man or woman i have just discovered that the last girl i went out with was in fact married. Im shocked at my stupidity i would consider myself a good judge but not anymore
im sorry thats happened to you 
but onwards and upwards and leave it behind you ok 
was it Jordan? a.k.a. Katie Price?
jimbo79: from what ive gathered the baby is not her husbands and she does this the whole time but it would make you wonder whats in peoples minds
By the sounds of it she has a few screws loose upstairs
I`d run a mile from the likes of her
Trevtherev: By the sounds of it she has a few screws loose upstairs
I`d run a mile from the likes of her
I`d run a mile from the likes of her
I think some people are just in bad marriages they can't get easily out of, so they create another life to survive emotionally... sad but not mad.
Yes, I'm afraid to say I have been the other woman, Its really not something Im proud of, but as I was 17 when it happened the first time I put it down to one of lifes little lessons, I was niavie, I thought I was in love and he swore he would leave her, but suprise suprise he didnt.......hard lesson to learn. The second time I was completly unaware that he had a girlfriend in America, I was discusted when I found out, and it was over that very second.
I only have one regret in my life, and its the fact that I was the other woman, and Its the only thing Ive ever been ashamed of.
I only have one regret in my life, and its the fact that I was the other woman, and Its the only thing Ive ever been ashamed of.
JustLittleMe: Yes, I'm afraid to say I have been the other woman, Its really not something Im proud of, but as I was 17 when it happened the first time I put it down to one of lifes little lessons, I was niavie, I thought I was in love and he swore he would leave her, but suprise suprise he didnt.......hard lesson to learn. The second time I was completly unaware that he had a girlfriend in America, I was discusted when I found out, and it was over that very second.
I only have one regret in my life, and its the fact that I was the other woman, and Its the only thing Ive ever been ashamed of.
I only have one regret in my life, and its the fact that I was the other woman, and Its the only thing Ive ever been ashamed of.
You were young and he took advantage of that!! He should be ashamed not you!!
paphos: I think some people are just in bad marriages they can't get easily out of, so they create another life to survive emotionally... sad but not mad.
Theres no excuse for staying in a bad marriage these days even if you have 10 children together its no reason to stay together if your life is a living hell with that person
Trevtherev: Theres no excuse for staying in a bad marriage these days even if you have 10 children together its no reason to stay together if your life is a living hell with that person
Well I din't stay in mine, but I wouldn't judge anyone else who had a more complicated exit....
irish1978eyes: You were young and he took advantage of that!! He should be ashamed not you!!
Ah I know that now, older and wiser but I still wish it never happened. Thanks for the kind words
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oh dear, if men were to give birth instead, i wonder what the statistic would be??