TRUE LOVE LOST? (17)
Jeez ragskuttle thats real baffling,why did he say he was in love with you and then back out of a relationship with you,first thing that comes to my mind is he must be married and freaked out at the realisation of declaring his love for you,in my mind if you love someone then the last thing you want to do is hurt them..ever..its time to take control of you and rise above what you may never find out from the guy,you can be happy with new guy if you really want to, you say he is nice then dont hurt him as you will if you continue to dwell over what you cant have..good luck to you lass..
Thanks for the reply. The guy was not married as the weekend was in his place. The ex had taken him for every penny and stripped the house of all the furniture too. I think it really killed him inside. The new guy is very nice and we get on really well and I am relaxed in his company but he does not light up my soul..........I guess I should finish it with him and continue my search....
goodfriend: first thing that comes to my mind is he must be married and freaked out at the realisation of declaring his love for you,
Or a bloody good actor to fool you into thinking he felt for you the same way as you feel for him.
ragskuttle: Thanks for the reply. The guy was not married as the weekend was in his place. The ex had taken him for every penny and stripped the house of all the furniture too. I think it really killed him inside. The new guy is very nice and we get on really well and I am relaxed in his company but he does not light up my soul..........I guess I should finish it with him and continue my search....
Definately you should as the opposite is going to happen & you are going to hurt him. I am also sorry for what happened with the first guy . I just feel that he was scared by the thought of falling in love. I have been single forever almost & i sometimes feel the same way. Seriously good luck whatever you decide to do
LusciousLibra: Or a bloody good actor to fool you into thinking he felt for you the same way as you feel for him.
My thoughts too... Some people on here are so good at acting, they deserve their own oscar
Zellarrone1: My thoughts too...
Some people on here are so good at acting, they deserve their own oscar
Some people on here are so good at acting, they deserve their own oscar
Totally agree with you Zelljojo69: Totally agree with you Zell
At this rate we'll soon be holding the CS version of "The Oscars" 
I can't wait to see the list of nominees Zellarrone1: At this rate we'll soon be holding the CS version of "The Oscars" I can't wait to see the list of nominees
We could even have a thread named "A to Z of CS Oscar nominees" ...
Hmm, think I'd better go to 
Just one last question to Ragskuttle.. What did you both sleep on if the house was stripped bare?? Hopefully, not the floorboards, must have been one heck of a rough ride if you did
ragskuttle:
What should I do???
What should I do???
He's not ready, nothing you can do .....
ragskuttle: Thanks for the thoughts. I do like the idea of holding a CS Oscar ceremony!!!! hey ho onwards and upwards..........
That's the spirit ... as for the CS Oscars.. at least I know I'll be last on the list with my Z 
jojo69: Totally agree with you Zell
Hi Jo
Ouch
Zellarrone1: We could even have a thread named "A to Z of CS Oscar nominees" ... Hmm, think I'd better go to
Just one last question to Ragskuttle.. What did you both sleep on if the house was stripped bare?? Hopefully, not the floorboards, must have been one heck of a rough ride if you did
Just one last question to Ragskuttle.. What did you both sleep on if the house was stripped bare?? Hopefully, not the floorboards, must have been one heck of a rough ride if you did
Hi Helga
the broom would be rougher
gussi: Hi Helga
the broom would be rougher
Nah, smoother... but with more splinters the broom would be rougher
Zellarrone1: Nah, smoother... but with more splinters
ragskuttle: I met a man some months ago. Spent the most wonderful weekend together and between the pair of us and what we said to each other it was love at first site on both our parts. We both admitted getting teary and in a state of shock that it could finally happen at our age. He is 60 and I am 50. But since the meeting he told me he could not see me again as it terrified him, the thought of such an in depth relationship (something neither him nor I have ever really experienced) and was scared he would get very very badly hurt.
I think of him every day. He broke my heart by parting us even before giving us a chance. I am seeing a nice man at the moment but I cannot stop thinking about my lost love.
What should I do???
I think of him every day. He broke my heart by parting us even before giving us a chance. I am seeing a nice man at the moment but I cannot stop thinking about my lost love.
What should I do???
Assuming you have had some time apart why not write a short love letter /poem (only 1) how you feel and post it now that would be lovely not that people do such things these days, but may get him thinking (if he is sincere). Good luck
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I think of him every day. He broke my heart by parting us even before giving us a chance. I am seeing a nice man at the moment but I cannot stop thinking about my lost love.
What should I do???