Does what women want from men change with time? (11)
happyskiffMobile, Alabama USA3 Threads 28 PostsHey ladies, be honest here. Has, what once was a desire for security in a man, changed to wanting more of a playmate? Basically, once the basics of heirarchy of needs have been met, ie; security, honesty, maturity, adoration and love. Do you find yourself bored as you mature in life and find yourself needing excitement and youthfulness? I'm wondering what the risks are that women reaching mid 40s will hit a mid life crisis to become "cougars". 
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YUP! A ninety year old man with a jug of prune juice draws old women like flies!
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Naaaah!I had a "playmate" when I was younger but
now that I'm of a mature age,I want it all;
I'm through with just the physical desires
,
I'm hoping to find someone who's grounded and
someone who also knows what he wants and what
he's capable of,commitment.
Hey,I like that "cougar" bit;strange,I get hit
on more now by younger guys than when I too
was so called,younger.I'm more attracted to the
maturer (is that a word?) guy.
Guess I ain't no cougar.
now that I'm of a mature age,I want it all;
I'm through with just the physical desires
,I'm hoping to find someone who's grounded and
someone who also knows what he wants and what
he's capable of,commitment.
Hey,I like that "cougar" bit;strange,I get hit
on more now by younger guys than when I too
was so called,younger.I'm more attracted to the
maturer (is that a word?) guy.
Guess I ain't no cougar.
In response to: Hey ladies, be honest here. Has, what once was a desire for security in a man, changed to wanting more of a playmate? Basically, once the basics of heirarchy of needs have been met, ie; security, honesty, maturity, adoration and love. Do you find yourself bored as you mature in life and find yourself needing excitement and youthfulness? I'm wondering what the risks are that women reaching mid 40s will hit a mid life crisis to become "cougars".
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RillyNiceGuy: YUP! A ninety year old man with a jug of prune juice draws old women like flies!
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happyskiff: Hey ladies, be honest here. Has, what once was a desire for security in a man, changed to wanting more of a playmate? Basically, once the basics of heirarchy of needs have been met, ie; security, honesty, maturity, adoration and love. Do you find yourself bored as you mature in life and find yourself needing excitement and youthfulness? I'm wondering what the risks are that women reaching mid 40s will hit a mid life crisis to become "cougars".
Going by your outlined criterion,
none... no risks...
Basics such as security, honesty, maturity, adoration and love are not mutually exclusive with being a playmate.
Everyone needs excitement in their lives, no questions about it. But "youthfulness"{as you call it} is not automatically equates to excitement. I've known much younger men who were so jaw-breaking boring, I also have known men my age and older who are very exciting to be with,
hence
it's more down to the individual, than just the age.
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Very good point and well put. 
642jess: Errrr.....no, for me personally, a companion, an equal, is sufficient.
As to why some women prefer the company of men younger than them..'cougars'...I feel it's simply they have met someone they enjoy, feel compatible with, and age is not an issue.
Why have men, when hitting their mid life crisis, always dated women young enough to be their daughters?
it goes both ways, perhaps if you answer my question, you may have found one of the millions of reasons why women do the same.
As to why some women prefer the company of men younger than them..'cougars'...I feel it's simply they have met someone they enjoy, feel compatible with, and age is not an issue.
Why have men, when hitting their mid life crisis, always dated women young enough to be their daughters?
it goes both ways, perhaps if you answer my question, you may have found one of the millions of reasons why women do the same.
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Polarbutterfly: Naaaah!I had a "playmate" when I was younger but
now that I'm of a mature age,I want it all;
I'm through with just the physical desires ,
I'm hoping to find someone who's grounded and
someone who also knows what he wants and what
he's capable of,commitment.
Hey,I like that "cougar" bit;strange,I get hit
on more now by younger guys than when I too
was so called,younger.I'm more attracted to the
maturer (is that a word?) guy.
Guess I ain't no cougar.
now that I'm of a mature age,I want it all;
I'm through with just the physical desires ,
I'm hoping to find someone who's grounded and
someone who also knows what he wants and what
he's capable of,commitment.
Hey,I like that "cougar" bit;strange,I get hit
on more now by younger guys than when I too
was so called,younger.I'm more attracted to the
maturer (is that a word?) guy.
Guess I ain't no cougar.
I just like your style PB. Thanks
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happyskiff: Hey ladies, be honest here. Has, what once was a desire for security in a man, changed to wanting more of a playmate? Basically, once the basics of heirarchy of needs have been met, ie; security, honesty, maturity, adoration and love. Do you find yourself bored as you mature in life and find yourself needing excitement and youthfulness? I'm wondering what the risks are that women reaching mid 40s will hit a mid life crisis to become "cougars".
Go talk to my ex-wife... she knows all about that subject !!
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Laura25: Going by your outlined criterion,
none... no risks...
Basics such as security, honesty, maturity, adoration and love are not mutually exclusive with being a playmate.
Everyone needs excitement in their lives, no questions about it. But "youthfulness"{as you call it} is not automatically equates to excitement. I've known much younger men who were so jaw-breaking boring, I also have known men my age and older who are very exciting to be with,
hence
it's more down to the individual, than just the age.
none... no risks...
Basics such as security, honesty, maturity, adoration and love are not mutually exclusive with being a playmate.
Everyone needs excitement in their lives, no questions about it. But "youthfulness"{as you call it} is not automatically equates to excitement. I've known much younger men who were so jaw-breaking boring, I also have known men my age and older who are very exciting to be with,
hence
it's more down to the individual, than just the age.
Thank you Laura.
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happyskiff: Hey ladies, be honest here. Has, what once was a desire for security in a man, changed to wanting more of a playmate? Basically, once the basics of heirarchy of needs have been met, ie; security, honesty, maturity, adoration and love. Do you find yourself bored as you mature in life and find yourself needing excitement and youthfulness? I'm wondering what the risks are that women reaching mid 40s will hit a mid life crisis to become "cougars".
Everything changes with time and maturity or lack ofit, and relationships are just a refelction of that. It is no different to changing what we want from ourselves over time.
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gingerb: Everything changes with time and maturity or lack ofit, and relationships are just a refelction of that. It is no different to changing what we want from ourselves over time.
Yes Matuity Level become mor of a fact as we get some age and wisdom,, When we were young, We just thought we Knew it all, Now we Know we do!
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