Would you date a hoarder or packrat? (22)
sexydiva70orlando, Florida USA8 Threads 1 Polls 139 PostsI met someone a few months ago. He seemed really clean and neat in public. One day he invited me over to his house. He had items stacked to the roof of his bedroom. I questioned him about it and he didn't think it was abnormal. My image of him pretty much changed after that date. Would you date someone who was a hoarder or extreme packrat?
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date them..??
yes..
live with em..??
Not unless we had seperate homes..
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yes..
live with em..??
Not unless we had seperate homes..
---SoldierByte---
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In response to: I met someone a few months ago. He seemed really clean and neat in public. One day he invited me over to his house. He had items stacked to the roof of his bedroom. I questioned him about it and he didn't think it was abnormal. My image of him pretty much changed after that date. Would you date someone who was a hoarder or extreme packrat?
NO WAY!!!!
i am way too OCD for that
i have to have neat organized and clean
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SoldierByte: date them..??
yes..
live with em..??
Not unless we had seperate homes..
---SoldierByte---
yes..
live with em..??
Not unless we had seperate homes..
---SoldierByte---
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friends4now: NO WAY!!!!
i am way too OCD for thati have to have neat organized and clean
i am way too OCD for thati have to have neat organized and clean
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which is worse??? someone who is so OCD or a hoarder???? To me they are both 
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If its dating why not 
its not living with him.
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In response to: I met someone a few months ago. He seemed really clean and neat in public. One day he invited me over to his house. He had items stacked to the roof of his bedroom. I questioned him about it and he didn't think it was abnormal. My image of him pretty much changed after that date. Would you date someone who was a hoarder or extreme packrat?
This sounds like nothing. If his only storage space is his room, that's not that bad. I would date someone who has lots of great stuff, but not someone who compulsively hoarded weird crap. Like, for example, I know a guy who is a model making figurine collecting dude. He has all kinds of models and action figures. His wife has a lit of nick nacks too. But their house looks fine.
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what about an organized packrat? 
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morgan5: If its dating why not its not living with him.
yes, i think that's not a big deal he's honest and faithful, if you don't feel conformable and you can tell him later because something that you can work on with that.
well, if i tell the truth, i like neat as well... have to be fresh and neat
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911gypsy: which is worse??? someone who is so OCD or a hoarder???? To me they are both
Hoarding is a form of OCD
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In response to: I met someone a few months ago. He seemed really clean and neat in public. One day he invited me over to his house. He had items stacked to the roof of his bedroom. I questioned him about it and he didn't think it was abnormal. My image of him pretty much changed after that date. Would you date someone who was a hoarder or extreme packrat?
my ex was a terrible hoarder..would throw nothing away one day he had a cupboard which had seen better days after much tears an tantrums (from him) he said he would throw it out..when i came back from work he had taken the doors of and put then on a shelf unit in his daughters room..totally mismatched wood and you couldnt open them...
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scousedon: Hoarding is a form of OCD
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OCD 
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obsessive compulsive disorder...
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bettyboop63: obsessive compulsive disorder...
That's what I want to be next ! 
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bettyboop63: my ex was a terrible hoarder..would throw nothing away one day he had a cupboard which had seen better days after much tears an tantrums (from him) he said he would throw it out..when i came back from work he had taken the doors of and put then on a shelf unit in his daughters room..totally mismatched wood and you couldnt open them...
sounds like an unhadyman to me ! 
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rebelluvr: sounds like an unhadyman to me !
his home was a deathtrap....
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No, I would'nt. And I also detest untidy and dirty living environments. if I'm coming to visit, and you can't be bothered to tidy up, what does that say about you?
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Odysseus101: No, I would'nt. And I also detest untidy and dirty living environments. if I'm coming to visit, and you can't be bothered to tidy up, what does that say about you?
I say bring a broom and a mop if you like super tidy ! 
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