Did you ignore the warning signs and got married? (12)
itsallme112Surrey, British Columbia Canada78 Threads 11 Polls 441 PostsThinking about my marriage there were little things that I ignored while dating. For example, screaming and telling me to f--- off when attempting to touch on our wedding night, and always preoccupied with missing her parents who lived out of town. Married for 7 years but in some ways it was good, at the same time I was thinking about the signals I ignored before marriage. I guess that makes us wiser next time around.
Lonely1: Man you are hitting the nail on the head....
I have come to learn, however, that women can say one thing and do another.
I have come to learn, however, that women can say one thing and do another.
I hope you are not saying JUST WOMEN say and do one thing then do another. BOTH men and women do that.
Most people do become blind to things or don't want to see the warning signs.
my first ex wife was a realy good houskeeper ,yup she kept it
Lonely1: OMG!
I thought BB was in the picture because he was superman and would save the name of all us good-for-nothing men.
Now I am really depressed. I found out that I am not the man women were looking for (ever since I got married ). I have even heard that the best man for the job is a woman.
I thought BB was in the picture because he was superman and would save the name of all us good-for-nothing men.
Now I am really depressed. I found out that I am not the man women were looking for (ever since I got married ). I have even heard that the best man for the job is a woman.
compromise compromise compromise ... jut not to the point you loose yourself.
Nothing is 50-50. Too many unrealistic expectations when people are in a relationship. It's not always fun and it's not always very pretty either. It takes work and if you want to keep it healthy, do what it takes to keep it that way.
Giving up, or taking things fore granted. Relationships change with time, as do the people involved. There are going to be rough times ... are you both willing to be there through it all?
Your profile is very honest Lonely. If people can't see that then they are not being realistic. You are very honest about your life and where/how you live.
I am not the man women were looking for (ever since I got married ). What ever set that idea in your head? You have people on here that see you for who you are. If a person can not see you for who you are, it's their loss.
Too many people are looking for a fantasy instead of what is really in front of them.
As unhappy as you might be that you are single, there are a few of us just as happy you are still here. We hoped things were going well for you, but missed you just the same.
compromise compromise compromise ... jut not to the point you loose yourself.
Nothing is 50-50. Too many unrealistic expectations when people are in a relationship. It's not always fun and it's not always very pretty either. It takes work and if you want to keep it healthy, do what it takes to keep it that way.
Giving up, or taking things fore granted. Relationships change with time, as do the people involved. There are going to be rough times ... are you both willing to be there through it all?
I am not the man women were looking for (ever since I got married ). What ever set that idea in your head? If a person can not see you for who you are, the both of you are not meant to be.
Too many people are looking for a fantasy instead of what is really in front of them.
It's not always up to us to decide what is wrong with a person, but if you have issues or things that need to be fixed, it is up to you to do them. Relationships won't fix you or make them better.
Nothing is 50-50. Too many unrealistic expectations when people are in a relationship. It's not always fun and it's not always very pretty either. It takes work and if you want to keep it healthy, do what it takes to keep it that way.
Giving up, or taking things fore granted. Relationships change with time, as do the people involved. There are going to be rough times ... are you both willing to be there through it all?
I am not the man women were looking for (ever since I got married ). What ever set that idea in your head? If a person can not see you for who you are, the both of you are not meant to be.
Too many people are looking for a fantasy instead of what is really in front of them.
It's not always up to us to decide what is wrong with a person, but if you have issues or things that need to be fixed, it is up to you to do them. Relationships won't fix you or make them better.
KHD100: compromise compromise compromise ... jut not to the point you loose yourself.
Nothing is 50-50. Too many unrealistic expectations when people are in a relationship. It's not always fun and it's not always very pretty either. It takes work and if you want to keep it healthy, do what it takes to keep it that way.
Giving up, or taking things fore granted. Relationships change with time, as do the people involved. There are going to be rough times ... are you both willing to be there through it all?
Your profile is very honest Lonely. If people can't see that then they are not being realistic. You are very honest about your life and where/how you live.
I am not the man women were looking for (ever since I got married ). What ever set that idea in your head? You have people on here that see you for who you are. If a person can not see you for who you are, it's their loss.
Too many people are looking for a fantasy instead of what is really in front of them.
As unhappy as you might be that you are single, there are a few of us just as happy you are still here. We hoped things were going well for you, but missed you just the same.
Nothing is 50-50. Too many unrealistic expectations when people are in a relationship. It's not always fun and it's not always very pretty either. It takes work and if you want to keep it healthy, do what it takes to keep it that way.
Giving up, or taking things fore granted. Relationships change with time, as do the people involved. There are going to be rough times ... are you both willing to be there through it all?
Your profile is very honest Lonely. If people can't see that then they are not being realistic. You are very honest about your life and where/how you live.
I am not the man women were looking for (ever since I got married ). What ever set that idea in your head? You have people on here that see you for who you are. If a person can not see you for who you are, it's their loss.
Too many people are looking for a fantasy instead of what is really in front of them.
As unhappy as you might be that you are single, there are a few of us just as happy you are still here. We hoped things were going well for you, but missed you just the same.
Sorry got posted while being edited. Please Ignore.
I thought it was anything for a quiet and peaceful life: you stay in your corner and I stay in mine. 
Sometimes I wonder though:
Do we pine over the mistakes that we made in our past affairs, messing up the current ones?
Do we pine over lost love?
Should we grin and bear it, till death do us part?
Or are some of us silently mad?
One of these days I am going to sue someone for breaking the vows made at the altar: " to love and to cherish till death do us part".
Sometimes I wonder though:
Do we pine over the mistakes that we made in our past affairs, messing up the current ones?
Do we pine over lost love?
Should we grin and bear it, till death do us part?
Or are some of us silently mad?
One of these days I am going to sue someone for breaking the vows made at the altar: " to love and to cherish till death do us part".
Two brooms were hanging in the closet and after a while they got to know each other so well, they decided to get married.
One broom was, of course, the bride broom, the other the groom broom.
The bride broom looked very beautiful in her white dress. The groom broom was handsome and suave in his tuxedo. The wedding was lovely.
After the wedding, at the wedding dinner, the bride-broom leaned over and said to the groom-broom, 'I think I am going to have a little whisk broom!'
'IMPOSSIBLE !' said the groom broom.
Are you ready for this?
Brace yourself; this is going to hurt! ! ! !! !
'WE HAVEN'T EVEN SWEPT TOGETHER!'
One broom was, of course, the bride broom, the other the groom broom.
The bride broom looked very beautiful in her white dress. The groom broom was handsome and suave in his tuxedo. The wedding was lovely.
After the wedding, at the wedding dinner, the bride-broom leaned over and said to the groom-broom, 'I think I am going to have a little whisk broom!'
'IMPOSSIBLE !' said the groom broom.
Are you ready for this?
Brace yourself; this is going to hurt! ! ! !! !
'WE HAVEN'T EVEN SWEPT TOGETHER!'
KHD100: Roses??? since when did I ever get roses????
Laundry... if they can't pick up their clothes off the floor ... who do you think did the laundry??? (definatly not the invisible maid)
Laundry... if they can't pick up their clothes off the floor ... who do you think did the laundry??? (definatly not the invisible maid)
You mean to tell me there is not invisible maid?
I suppose your going to tell me there is no Santa Claus, or Easter Bunny...or tooth fairy. Jeez Kim, you can really wreck a guys day.
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itsallme112: Thinking about my marriage there were little things that I ignored while dating. For example, screaming and telling me to f--- off when attempting to touch on our wedding night, and always preoccupied with missing her parents who lived out of town. Married for 7 years but in some ways it was good, at the same time I was thinking about the signals I ignored before marriage. I guess that makes us wiser next time around.
Signals? I totally ignored a category 5 hurricane!
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itsallme112: Thinking about my marriage there were little things that I ignored while dating. For example, screaming and telling me to f--- off when attempting to touch on our wedding night, and always preoccupied with missing her parents who lived out of town. Married for 7 years but in some ways it was good, at the same time I was thinking about the signals I ignored before marriage. I guess that makes us wiser next time around.
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');Let me help you along with this one. On the day I was getting married my camera broke, the snow fell, the pastor supposedly was very upset because we didn't arrive yet, I didn't have any flowers, someone stop by to get me some, and they were purple...groom refuse to ride with me after the wedding. I would shake your hand for staying 7 years , but ours ended the very night I discovered he wasn't who he was....He was a darn good con artist, that I will tell you.
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