has my love ended? (44)
LostrebelHeuvelton, New York USA9 Threads 661 PostsEmilyan: when you start to have bad feelings for someone, or even hate them and they are getting to you whenever you see them... does it mean your love to them has finished?
I think that would be a good clue that your onto something...
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This is what i was just going to post. "There is a fine line between love and hate". When you no longer feel anything it is over and would be very hard to revive. It's true some think they "hate" people they aren't in love with, so use this key: if you alternate between love and hate - yes, you still love him.
langleygirl: There is a fine love it seems between love/hate. I think when you get to the point that you are neutral ..... then it will means its truly over.
If you step back .... is it your perspective that needs to be changed? More than likely this person is still pretty much the same person you fell in love with, but its the little things or big things that you didn't notice before that are getting to you. So you need to ask yourself - are the heartaches/disappoints that will enviably come worth it? No relationship is perfect, but its about making the choice everyday to be there and make it the best that you can.
If you step back .... is it your perspective that needs to be changed? More than likely this person is still pretty much the same person you fell in love with, but its the little things or big things that you didn't notice before that are getting to you. So you need to ask yourself - are the heartaches/disappoints that will enviably come worth it? No relationship is perfect, but its about making the choice everyday to be there and make it the best that you can.
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calmheartseeks: This is what i was just going to post. "There is a fine line between love and hate". When you no longer feel anything it is over and would be very hard to revive. It's true some think they "hate" people they aren't in love with, so use this key: if you alternate between love and hate - yes, you still love him.
thank you! this is a real golden remark!
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Ahhh...Ya, it is finished....but, you are better then that anyway!
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