has my love ended? (44)
EmilyanHulunbuir Big Stock Farm, Guangdong China7 Threads 89 Postswhen you start to have bad feelings for someone, or even hate them and they are getting to you whenever you see them... does it mean your love to them has finished?
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and what would you do if you want to quit hating or fighting with someone but you can't control your emotions?
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Means you never loved them 
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Emilyan: when you start to have bad feelings for someone, or even hate them and they are getting to you whenever you see them... does it mean your love to them has finished?
Probably. How do you feel when you are holding a very sharp kitchen knife?
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but I am very frustrated... I feel not good without talking with him, but when I talk to him, I start the fire again... how to get rid of my bad feelings for a person?
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Emilyan: but I am very frustrated... I feel not good without talking with him, but when I talk to him, I start the fire again... how to get rid of my bad feelings for a person?
Kill him.
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Emilyan: and what would you do if you want to quit hating or fighting with someone but you can't control your emotions?
Use that guitar... and strike away
may the force be with you grasshopper
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Emilyan: when you start to have bad feelings for someone, or even hate them and they are getting to you whenever you see them... does it mean your love to them has finished?
Sounds like it doesn't it?
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ohh guys... don't be kidding me.... 
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Your love is over.....but you can renew the love again! People tend to want all things in thier interest and even down to tiny things. You can pick a person to pieces and destroy any good feelings about them. You can also stop and then focus on all the good about them and build a love again. in life nothing is perfect.....you must live with some things less than ideal (your ideal). Most of the time a person would not even pass their own ideals. Stop looking for things to dislike and find the good.....over and over. This will take time, because you are progammed to see only bad. You must fill yourself with good feelings about them until you are able to wash out the old subconious thoughts and replace them with the new ones.
Read "Phycho-Cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz
If you can not control this.....most likely you will not be able to find anyone who fills your ideals. This is the problem with most people today. This is why many on this site will not find someone.....either they are too choosy or don't like a person who is too choosy knowing life together will ever work.
Read "Phycho-Cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz
If you can not control this.....most likely you will not be able to find anyone who fills your ideals. This is the problem with most people today. This is why many on this site will not find someone.....either they are too choosy or don't like a person who is too choosy knowing life together will ever work.
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Emilyan: when you start to have bad feelings for someone, or even hate them and they are getting to you whenever you see them... does it mean your love to them has finished?
Simply put.
Yes, your love for him has definitely ended.
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RillyNiceGuy: Your love is over.....but you can renew the love again! People tend to want all things in thier interest and even down to tiny things. You can pick a person to pieces and destroy any good feelings about them. You can also stop and then focus on all the good about them and build a love again. in life nothing is perfect.....you must live with some things less than ideal (your ideal). Most of the time a person would not even pass their own ideals. Stop looking for things to dislike and find the good.....over and over. This will take time, because you are progammed to see only bad. You must fill yourself with good feelings about them until you are able to wash out the old subconious thoughts and replace them with the new ones.
Read "Phycho-Cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz
If you can not control this.....most likely you will not be able to find anyone who fills your ideals. This is the problem with most people today. This is why many on this site will not find someone.....either they are too choosy or don't like a person who is too choosy knowing life together will ever work.
Read "Phycho-Cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz
If you can not control this.....most likely you will not be able to find anyone who fills your ideals. This is the problem with most people today. This is why many on this site will not find someone.....either they are too choosy or don't like a person who is too choosy knowing life together will ever work.
hey I'm really grateful about your significant reply!!! but I'm also doubtful sometimes, I don't really think it's all over.. I think only when I feel nothing about that person then it really means over.. but I hate him, if I don't love him at all then I wouldn't hate him? I even think about compromise, maybe we both SHOULD give way a little. maybe this way will help regain our love? I'm not sure, that's why I posted here... cause I'm kind of a childish and spoiled person sometimes.
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when we saw something bad with someone ,we dissappoint and our feelings become cold,then love slowly gone.
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krisha: when we saw something bad with someone ,we dissappoint and our feelings become cold,then love slowly gone.
The summer arrives and our love it hot again!
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LoveableOne: The summer arrives and our love it hot again!
i hate summer
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Emilyan: when you start to have bad feelings for someone, or even hate them and they are getting to you whenever you see them... does it mean your love to them has finished?
At least get in one good grudge-f__k before letting him go ..
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Emilyan: hey I'm really grateful about your significant reply!!! but I'm also doubtful sometimes, I don't really think it's all over.. I think only when I feel nothing about that person then it really means over.. but I hate him, if I don't love him at all then I wouldn't hate him? I even think about compromise, maybe we both SHOULD give way a little. maybe this way will help regain our love? I'm not sure, that's why I posted here... cause I'm kind of a childish and spoiled person sometimes.
What a wise youndg Lady!
My boyfriend and myself say "I hate you" at least twice a day.
Sometimes he says "I hate to love you". Sometimes I say to him the same. And then after ... we will say to each other "I hate you very much ... but I do love you more then I hate you". Sounds complicated No? At least we tell the truth about how we feel about each other. At least we have something to talk about
Maybe it is normal
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krisha: i hate summer
here its mental. Wednesday so hot, then thursday rain and cold, and yes its summer here! 
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Emilyan: but I am very frustrated... I feel not good without talking with him, but when I talk to him, I start the fire again... how to get rid of my bad feelings for a person?
why do you start the fire while talking to him??feel insecure you might be dumped?or what?------ This thread is Archived ------
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