Looks or Personality (57)
galwayguy34galway, Galway Ireland9 Threads 143 PostsDo men go more for looks in a future partner and wemon more for personality and a caring guy and see looks as not as important?
galwayguy34: Do men go more for looks in a future partner and wemon more for personality and a caring guy and see looks as not as important?
Well for me personality would be a lil more important between the two, but both would be great!
Its all about taste anyways, cause if someone i found attractive or taught had a great personality, the next person could think differently!galwayguy34: Do men go more for looks in a future partner and wemon more for personality and a caring guy and see looks as not as important?
Hey I'm not fussy.........either would do me.
For me it's 80% personality 20% looks... not that anyone can put a number on it...
vinny1967: Hey I'm not fussy.........either would do me.
Me too 
i personally prefer personality... and i think guys say the same but but really i think they go for looks 1st and then personality
Yeah but i think there has to be some spark of attraction there as well. Maybe guys do go for looks more though. But i assume girls like a good lookin fella as well
nvosiris: Me too
Now heres a Lady with Looks personality and intelligence.........
How you doin'
vinny1967: Now heres a Lady with Looks personality and intelligence.........
How you doin'
How you doin'
And flattery
will get you everywhere I am grand and your good self?
ok yea a spark has to be their i agree!!looks dont worry me its just a nice personality and someone who has respect for someone and who is sound
galwayguy34: Yeah but i think there has to be some spark of attraction there as well. Maybe guys do go for looks more though. But i assume girls like a good lookin fella as well
galwayguy34: Well thats a good point all right. No point looking great if somone got no manners or is mean to others or they cant be trusted. Looks dont last forever anyway.
The first time I met the big love of my life I felt no attraction to him physically, none at all. Definitely not my type....
Then after spending 2 hours chatting to him I thought he was the most attractive man alive. He became totally handsome to me.
Head and heart do funny things to us.
maybe im old fashioned but who cares you could have the most good looking man and he could treat you like a piece of dirt..JMO
galwayguy34: Well thats a good point all right. No point looking great if somone got no manners or is mean to others or they cant be trusted. Looks dont last forever anyway.
I go for personality but the need some looks too.
Like I wouldnt go with some 1 im not attracted to.
You need attraction.
Like I wouldnt go with some 1 im not attracted to.
You need attraction.
But then again when i first met my bf of 6 years.
He asked me for my number i laughed at him. mean of me
Then when i actually got talking to him i started to like him.
Weird how things happen.
He asked me for my number i laughed at him. mean of me
Then when i actually got talking to him i started to like him.
Weird how things happen.
I think anyone who pretends looks don't matter to them are being dishonest to both themselves and others.
It's like a car, you can look at a car and say I wouldn't mind that, then you take it for a test drive and might discover it doesn't suit you, but you won't instinctively go for the car you think is a banger.
Personality is by far more important, but let's just be honest, we would all like to go for someone who is attractive to us physically. I think woman are as 'guilty' of this as men.
It's like a car, you can look at a car and say I wouldn't mind that, then you take it for a test drive and might discover it doesn't suit you, but you won't instinctively go for the car you think is a banger.
Personality is by far more important, but let's just be honest, we would all like to go for someone who is attractive to us physically. I think woman are as 'guilty' of this as men.
Both looks and personality for me. But how I feel in the end ultimately wins out and because I know this about me and feel it is unfair I tend to give everyone a chance.
But an intelligent mind gets me everytime!
But an intelligent mind gets me everytime!
scriobhneoir: I think anyone who pretends looks don't matter to them are being dishonest to both themselves and others.
It's like a car, you can look at a car and say I wouldn't mind that, then you take it for a test drive and might discover it doesn't suit you, but you won't instinctively go for the car you think is a banger.
Personality is by far more important, but let's just be honest, we would all like to go for someone who is attractive to us physically. I think woman are as 'guilty' of this as men.
It's like a car, you can look at a car and say I wouldn't mind that, then you take it for a test drive and might discover it doesn't suit you, but you won't instinctively go for the car you think is a banger.
Personality is by far more important, but let's just be honest, we would all like to go for someone who is attractive to us physically. I think woman are as 'guilty' of this as men.
I agree..
If there is no physical spark, then it dont matter if the guy or gal is the most caring, loving and wonderfully personalited person in the world..
Yep, looks fade; of course they do..but INITIALLY its rare for a relationship to work without that physical attaction..
ogdensburgbabe: I agree..
If there is no physical spark, then it dont matter if the guy or gal is the most caring, loving and wonderfully personalited person in the world..
Yep, looks fade; of course they do..but INITIALLY its rare for a relationship to work without that physical attaction..
If there is no physical spark, then it dont matter if the guy or gal is the most caring, loving and wonderfully personalited person in the world..
Yep, looks fade; of course they do..but INITIALLY its rare for a relationship to work without that physical attaction..
Well, if it's looks, then I'm screwed! Or rather I'm not. Just as well the blind girls need to be loved too!
Godsgift: Well, if it's looks, then I'm screwed! Or rather I'm not. Just as well the blind girls need to be loved too!
Awwwww, youre just cutsie, Gods..
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