I am a single mom (now) I have four teenagers. I joined this site to see what the whole dating thing is like because I've never done it before.
I am not looking for or do I remotely want anyone to be a father figure to my children. Truth be told I'd prefer to keep the two parts of my life seperate as I am not looking for a long term relationship or marriage either.
I suspect it's just guys who wanna crash at the woman's house that have issue with children. Otherwise I don't get what part they have issue with..It's not as if they'd be asked to babysit!!
Indeed. I agree..but we haven't educated, taught or raised girls that way. We are raised to accept being looked at as objects...speaking up as a girl...used to get us in trouble.
If you get a younger girl you will see the difference...they will tell you exactly what they want usually...Everything! lol!
Women are what they are ...you want something to change you change the only thing you can...you.
All the women I know want different things. It is your question that is flawed.
But one complaint I KNOW all women have about men is that they don't listen. So try talking to the women you like and really HEAR what they are saying...If you don't understand or just don't get it TELL them. Don't pretend you know...it will cause trouble later.
Both looks and personality for me. But how I feel in the end ultimately wins out and because I know this about me and feel it is unfair I tend to give everyone a chance.
Flowers are so simple and cutsie which I am not BUT they always make me smile and be warmer to the person who sent them. So yes for flowers real or otherwise!
One thing I have learned in my years (40) is that you never get what you are looking for if you are looking too hard. I know it sounds all woolly n stuff but I know it to be true and not from my experience but from years of my single (not any more they're not!) friends "trying".
Stop trying so hard..you will be too focussed on your version of "the one" and you might miss the real one.
Relax...choose a more relaxed picture of you..maybe put up a selection...you doing various things.
Put a little more info about you in your profile...
(think of your profile the way you would think about a CV...it's ok to be a little creative you know )
Why don't u try doing something you always wanted to do but never had the guts..bet u will meet some new and interesting people that way..I did.
DMouse Forum Posts (17)
RE: What age is acceptible....
After 21, I think what's acceptable to you and the other person is acceptable. You can't worry about anyone else. M