My ex-boyfriend still hates me. (96)
Englishman55: Lesson learnt then..... Never mix business with pleasure !
Guess I better find a mediator.
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lushguy4you: hang on this could also happen to men
ive also been in the same boat as Navygirl
ive also been in the same boat as Navygirl
Which one of the boats was that....
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stefonline: It's hard to figure out guys at time, a guy was dating me from here one time a long time ago....always on his terms, nothing I ever wanted seemed to suit him, so I did'nt bother with him anymore, after that he kept sending me the odd email here and saying he would like to meet up, and I asked what for, you had your chance and you blew it, anyhow yada yada yada and the would still go in a view my profile from time to time and I was wondering why would he bother...he knows who I am.....so I blocked him from contacting me on here, could'nt be bothered with time wasters.
Navy girl you have done the right thing.....move on and leave him behind to stew....
Navy girl you have done the right thing.....move on and leave him behind to stew....
Agreed. I just need to find a way to conduct our business without further ruffling his feathes so to speak.
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navygirl1: Guess I better find a mediator.
Iv got a radiator ....
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navygirl1: Yeah, I must agree with that. Can't figure why he hates me though when he was the one that dumped me.
What do you care....let him hate all he likes....he lost you didn't he....so he's probably hating himself right now....but reflecting the hurt and hating towards you....
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lushguy4you: hang on this could also happen to men
ive also been in the same boat as Navygirl
ive also been in the same boat as Navygirl
Oh, were you in business with an ex? Really that is all that matters to me. I could care less about him personally but my business is very important to me.
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stefonline: What do you care....let him hate all he likes....he lost you didn't he....so he's probably hating himself right now....but reflecting the hurt and hating towards you....
Interesting theory. Thanks for the insight. I have always been friends with my ex boyfriends as life is too short to go on being angry but this one is a mystery. Just makes business dealings a little more difficult, but will get it sorted out.
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maine_coon: he hates you because he loves you
You must be the expert on this.....
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navygirl1: Absolutely. I am well over him but still need to contact him about business matters.
Business is business, you know what you should do, he does too probably but lay the gauntlet down and follow through. Sounding like I should follow my own advice, once you start don't back down- best of luck. The easiest thing is give advice but deep down you know what's right------ DO THE RIGHT THING BY YOU
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navygirl1: Guess I better find a mediator.
If he were any sort of businessman he would keep the two (business and pleasure) seperate, even though you had been in a relationship with you.
Good businessmen will not use, or destroy a business to get back at someone.
If he is trying to get at you through the business, then seriously look at getting him out of it..... buy-out, maybe.
Best of luck with it though
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sideshowbob: Business is business, you know what you should do, he does too probably but lay the gauntlet down and follow through. Sounding like I should follow my own advice, once you start don't back down- best of luck. The easiest thing is give advice but deep down you know what's right------ DO THE RIGHT THING BY YOU
Yes, I certainly will. Thanks for the words of wisdom. Well, speaking of business, gotta run as I have to get to work. Take care.
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navygirl1: Agreed. I just need to find a way to conduct our business without further ruffling his feathes so to speak.
Finish the business with him....end of....
Break all ties and you never have to think about him again...
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I agree with "WITCHAWOMAN"..I'm glad you had enough strength in not buying his sudden change in attitude, as he could have mistaken that with "interest" in him still. But either way he doesn't sound to mentally stable, if he can change and become abusive like that and u r NOT with him, imagine wat could of been install for u if had a long lasting relationship with him.
Breaking off ur relationship in the first place, after he has told u that he loves u shows to me that he's also the type of guy who enjoys mind games, it's like he looks for satisfaction to feel powerful, he's questioning his skills of manipulation and isn't as good as he thought he was, so in a moment of anger with himself and then seeing could be where the "I HATE YOU" came from.
He obviously must feel something for you if he's checking ur profile, but I would be very careful if I were u, as u don't really him know him or all sides of him and he could have ulterior motives that could be dangerous, or he could be realizing that he did make a mistake and misses you, and is pining for you and knows he overstepped the boundaries and there is no way of getting you back.
I also think he's checking ur profile, to see if you really are happy without him. He broke it off, so you have the freedom to do what ever u please and thank god u don't have to answer to him.
Breaking off ur relationship in the first place, after he has told u that he loves u shows to me that he's also the type of guy who enjoys mind games, it's like he looks for satisfaction to feel powerful, he's questioning his skills of manipulation and isn't as good as he thought he was, so in a moment of anger with himself and then seeing could be where the "I HATE YOU" came from.
He obviously must feel something for you if he's checking ur profile, but I would be very careful if I were u, as u don't really him know him or all sides of him and he could have ulterior motives that could be dangerous, or he could be realizing that he did make a mistake and misses you, and is pining for you and knows he overstepped the boundaries and there is no way of getting you back.
I also think he's checking ur profile, to see if you really are happy without him. He broke it off, so you have the freedom to do what ever u please and thank god u don't have to answer to him.
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Englishman55: If he were any sort of businessman he would keep the two (business and pleasure) seperate, even though you had been in a relationship with you.
Good businessmen will not use, or destroy a business to get back at someone.
If he is trying to get at you through the business, then seriously look at getting him out of it..... buy-out, maybe.
Best of luck with it though
Good businessmen will not use, or destroy a business to get back at someone.
If he is trying to get at you through the business, then seriously look at getting him out of it..... buy-out, maybe.
Best of luck with it though
Thanks for the words of wisdom.
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kyliew963: I agree with "WITCHAWOMAN"..I'm glad you had enough strength in not buying his sudden change in attitude, as he could have mistaken that with "interest" in him still. But either way he doesn't sound to mentally stable, if he can change and become abusive like that and u r NOT with him, imagine wat could of been install for u if had a long lasting relationship with him.
Breaking off ur relationship in the first place, after he has told u that he loves u shows to me that he's also the type of guy who enjoys mind games, it's like he looks for satisfaction to feel powerful, he's questioning his skills of manipulation and isn't as good as he thought he was, so in a moment of anger with himself and then seeing could be where the "I HATE YOU" came from.
He obviously must feel something for you if he's checking ur profile, but I would be very careful if I were u, as u don't really him know him or all sides of him and he could have ulterior motives that could be dangerous, or he could be realizing that he did make a mistake and misses you, and is pining for you and knows he overstepped the boundaries and there is no way of getting you back.
I also think he's checking ur profile, to see if you really are happy without him. He broke it off, so you have the freedom to do what ever u please and thank god u don't have to answer to him.
Breaking off ur relationship in the first place, after he has told u that he loves u shows to me that he's also the type of guy who enjoys mind games, it's like he looks for satisfaction to feel powerful, he's questioning his skills of manipulation and isn't as good as he thought he was, so in a moment of anger with himself and then seeing could be where the "I HATE YOU" came from.
He obviously must feel something for you if he's checking ur profile, but I would be very careful if I were u, as u don't really him know him or all sides of him and he could have ulterior motives that could be dangerous, or he could be realizing that he did make a mistake and misses you, and is pining for you and knows he overstepped the boundaries and there is no way of getting you back.
I also think he's checking ur profile, to see if you really are happy without him. He broke it off, so you have the freedom to do what ever u please and thank god u don't have to answer to him.
Thanks for your post. Your comments are very helpful and quite insightful. I agree with you he is playing mind games and I personally don't have time for it. I found a loop hole to get myself a new business partner so soon, I won't have to deal with him at all and this is the most wonderful news I have heard. I will be very happy to break off ties with him permanently. Life is too short to settle for someone like that.
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It's hard to figure out guys at time, a guy was dating me from here one time a long time ago....always on his terms, nothing I ever wanted seemed to suit him, so I did'nt bother with him anymore, after that he kept sending me the odd email here and saying he would like to meet up, and I asked what for, you had your chance and you blew it, anyhow yada yada yada and the would still go in a view my profile from time to time and I was wondering why would he bother...he knows who I am.....so I blocked him from contacting me on here, could'nt be bothered with time wasters.
Navy girl you have done the right thing.....move on and leave him behind to stew....