Have you ever???? (21)
liyah20fairfield, Illinois USA5 Threads 26 PostsHave you ever had a bf/gf who stalked you all the time and it has been over a year since youve seperated????
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no such luck here
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Not quite that long!!! A few months though, you must be a real keeper!! Or he is really creepy!!
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my ex has her friends tell on me!
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Nope!
Only time I have been stalked is when my momma cat was little. She could hide behind a blade of grass (so she thought) then dive bomb your feet and run for the hills. Dumb cat!
Only time I have been stalked is when my momma cat was little. She could hide behind a blade of grass (so she thought) then dive bomb your feet and run for the hills. Dumb cat!
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Yes I have in fact he moved in acrossed the road from me and stalked me for a year! At the time I was going through a bunch of other crap so I had no time to deal with laying charges against him etc.
What I did was to show him that he didn't scare me and I never gave him any kind of reaction, because that is what he was looking for! It did scare me a bit when I found out from others that he had been following me some places without me knowing about it, but others saw him!
I could deal with seeing him come into places where I could see him, but when I found out about the times I didn't know he was there, it kind of freaked me a bit! I never let on to that I was scared at anytime though! He followed me, called my house constantly, blocking his # so I couldn't prove it was him, stuck things in my mail box, had a dog delivered by cab to my home and had the cab driver lie about it, called my family members constantly and then asked them not to sat anything to me, so I was not aware of this for a long time, manipulated my mother into giving him information about me under the guise of being her FRIEND...to the point I had to quit speaking to her so he would not know my every move and much much more!
This went on for a year until I started seeing a new guy! His personality type is very likely to stalk: controlling, manupulative, abusive and liar!
Hope this helps you in some way!
What I did was to show him that he didn't scare me and I never gave him any kind of reaction, because that is what he was looking for! It did scare me a bit when I found out from others that he had been following me some places without me knowing about it, but others saw him!
I could deal with seeing him come into places where I could see him, but when I found out about the times I didn't know he was there, it kind of freaked me a bit! I never let on to that I was scared at anytime though! He followed me, called my house constantly, blocking his # so I couldn't prove it was him, stuck things in my mail box, had a dog delivered by cab to my home and had the cab driver lie about it, called my family members constantly and then asked them not to sat anything to me, so I was not aware of this for a long time, manipulated my mother into giving him information about me under the guise of being her FRIEND...to the point I had to quit speaking to her so he would not know my every move and much much more!
This went on for a year until I started seeing a new guy! His personality type is very likely to stalk: controlling, manupulative, abusive and liar!
Hope this helps you in some way!
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He was never the jealouse type or any thing. He never struck me as the type who would stalk you!!! I just think he has issues and im just now realizing it!!! 
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Oh my gosh!! I hope it dont get to that point. You must have been misurable. Native i wish you the best of luck next time
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Thought about doing it once but it lasted about a day.
1 I sobered up
2 Found out its way too much effort
3. Relized she was not worth it.
5. Met this really cool chick the next day
1 I sobered up
2 Found out its way too much effort
3. Relized she was not worth it.
5. Met this really cool chick the next day
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Yup.
She tried to interfere with my next relationship...
and now about 19 yrs since the break-up, as far as I know she's still friends with my sister (which just seems weird to me, I could never be friends or in touch with someone who was an 'ex' of a member of my family)
Ever seen "Fatal Attraction"...? I think that movie was pretty much based on this gal in my life....
She tried to interfere with my next relationship...
and now about 19 yrs since the break-up, as far as I know she's still friends with my sister (which just seems weird to me, I could never be friends or in touch with someone who was an 'ex' of a member of my family)
Ever seen "Fatal Attraction"...? I think that movie was pretty much based on this gal in my life....
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Well that was about 5 or 6 years ago and I didn't realize he had so many issues either until we broke up....then his true personality came out!
I think when you are with someone sometimes it's hard to see the forrest for the trees!
Good Luck with your stalker!
I have learned alot from this experience and trust me I won't be making that mistake again!
I think when you are with someone sometimes it's hard to see the forrest for the trees!
Good Luck with your stalker!
I have learned alot from this experience and trust me I won't be making that mistake again!
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really? my family brings people in...we accept them...we love them...and if the relationship fades, generally we keep them anyway.
in fact, my brother's ex-wife lives with my sister.
in fact, my brother's ex-wife lives with my sister.
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Had several psychos...
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hAha ...no sorry i have never been stalked, i was followed home once and i got really scared, but the guy just wanted to tell me that he had run over my cat and he didnt know how to tell me. ha. so thats about it.
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Depends on what you mean by stalking. I have one that is married and still keeps close tabs on me....go figure?
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hello there liyah20,
No but- I have had mountain mama's in the west viginaia mountains who keep emailing me thinking I am interested in them - when I am not at all.
trident1958
No but- I have had mountain mama's in the west viginaia mountains who keep emailing me thinking I am interested in them - when I am not at all.
trident1958
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its good someone liked you!
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