itsallme112OPSurrey, British Columbia Canada441 posts
Once I met a beautiful young lady with a figure that could kill, and being stupid as I am, I talked her into moving in with me. Things were good although I felt a little uneasy with her. For instance, every time I went to work (I was a ticket agent for a major bus company)she would spend the day sitting and watching me and eying every young woman who would purchase a ticket from me.Every man who entered the building would try to pick her up. After work we would go to the pub. Every time I went to the toilet upon my return 2 or 3 guys would be sitting with her. No matter where we went guys would be watching her. She claimed she loved me and everything else but I couldn't handle being together with her and having such emotional distress. She was the most gorgeous woman I ever met but I had to kick her out of my life, her physical attraction that attracted other men was not worth the misery. I'm sure all the attention turned her on while I was being turned off.
wow.... something real after a long time. Very natural, but if the partner gives you enough feelers for you to be secure in the relationship then i dont think you should be turned off.
itsallme112: Once I met a beautiful young lady with a figure that could kill, and being stupid as I am, I talked her into moving in with me. Things were good although I felt a little uneasy with her. For instance, every time I went to work (I was a ticket agent for a major bus company)she would spend the day sitting and watching me and eying every young woman who would purchase a ticket from me.Every man who entered the building would try to pick her up. After work we would go to the pub. Every time I went to the toilet upon my return 2 or 3 guys would be sitting with her. No matter where we went guys would be watching her. She claimed she loved me and everything else but I couldn't handle being together with her and having such emotional distress. She was the most gorgeous woman I ever met but I had to kick her out of my life, her physical attraction that attracted other men was not worth the misery. I'm sure all the attention turned her on while I was being turned off.
Is there a reason why she was at work with you? Sounds to me like someone had a trust issue.
itsallme112: Once I met a beautiful young lady with a figure that could kill, and being stupid as I am, I talked her into moving in with me. Things were good although I felt a little uneasy with her. For instance, every time I went to work (I was a ticket agent for a major bus company)she would spend the day sitting and watching me and eying every young woman who would purchase a ticket from me.Every man who entered the building would try to pick her up. After work we would go to the pub. Every time I went to the toilet upon my return 2 or 3 guys would be sitting with her. No matter where we went guys would be watching her. She claimed she loved me and everything else but I couldn't handle being together with her and having such emotional distress. She was the most gorgeous woman I ever met but I had to kick her out of my life, her physical attraction that attracted other men was not worth the misery. I'm sure all the attention turned her on while I was being turned off.
That's youth for you.
I'm flattered these days that when I'm with a beautiful woman other men find her attractive - I am confident in the knowledge that she is 'mine all mine' and equally she knows that I belong to her.
Confidence is something you either have or you haven't.......... and lack of confidence breeds distrust and heartache.
OutofafricaPerth, Western Australia Australia1,296 posts
itsallme112: Once I met a beautiful young lady with a figure that could kill, and being stupid as I am, I talked her into moving in with me. Things were good although I felt a little uneasy with her. For instance, every time I went to work (I was a ticket agent for a major bus company)she would spend the day sitting and watching me and eying every young woman who would purchase a ticket from me.Every man who entered the building would try to pick her up. After work we would go to the pub. Every time I went to the toilet upon my return 2 or 3 guys would be sitting with her. No matter where we went guys would be watching her. She claimed she loved me and everything else but I couldn't handle being together with her and having such emotional distress. She was the most gorgeous woman I ever met but I had to kick her out of my life, her physical attraction that attracted other men was not worth the misery. I'm sure all the attention turned her on while I was being turned off.
That sounds real creepy that she should be at your place of work and watching u for a start. You seem such a well balanced person, listening to those inner feelings is a good idea.
itsallme112: Once I met a beautiful young lady with a figure that could kill, and being stupid as I am, I talked her into moving in with me. Things were good although I felt a little uneasy with her. For instance, every time I went to work (I was a ticket agent for a major bus company)she would spend the day sitting and watching me and eying every young woman who would purchase a ticket from me.Every man who entered the building would try to pick her up. After work we would go to the pub. Every time I went to the toilet upon my return 2 or 3 guys would be sitting with her. No matter where we went guys would be watching her. She claimed she loved me and everything else but I couldn't handle being together with her and having such emotional distress. She was the most gorgeous woman I ever met but I had to kick her out of my life, her physical attraction that attracted other men was not worth the misery. I'm sure all the attention turned her on while I was being turned off.
I'm flattered these days that when I'm with a beautiful woman other men find her attractive - I am confident in the knowledge that she is 'mine all mine' and equally she knows that I belong to her.
Confidence is something you either have or you haven't.......... and lack of confidence breeds distrust and heartache.
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
itsallme112: Once I met a beautiful young lady with a figure that could kill, and being stupid as I am, I talked her into moving in with me. Things were good although I felt a little uneasy with her. For instance, every time I went to work (I was a ticket agent for a major bus company)she would spend the day sitting and watching me and eying every young woman who would purchase a ticket from me.Every man who entered the building would try to pick her up. After work we would go to the pub. Every time I went to the toilet upon my return 2 or 3 guys would be sitting with her. No matter where we went guys would be watching her. She claimed she loved me and everything else but I couldn't handle being together with her and having such emotional distress. She was the most gorgeous woman I ever met but I had to kick her out of my life, her physical attraction that attracted other men was not worth the misery. I'm sure all the attention turned her on while I was being turned off.
Sounds like you passed up a wonderful opportunity as a result of your own insecurities perhaps?
I have just read your other thread re. expecting a fairly quick(ish) result from having been on the site a few weeks....
There are often those who have issues that really should be addressed BEFORE embarking upon the dating scene. Do you think perhaps that your view of how you think things should work is clouding your thought processes and, therefore, judgement/decision-making?
roseofsharon: Sounds like you passed up a wonderful opportunity as a result of your own insecurities perhaps?
I have just read your other thread re. expecting a fairly quick(ish) result from having been on the site a few weeks....
There are often those who have issues that really should be addressed BEFORE embarking upon the dating scene. Do you think perhaps that your view of how you think things should work is clouding your thought processes and, therefore, judgement/decision-making?
weeboomboom: and a wise thought it is too...cheers ..S...
Listen to me, young lady............. I'd be proud and flattered and hold my head up high if men were 'buzzing' round you when I took you out............ in the KNOWLEDGE that were going home with ME at the end of the night!
RobertC2: Listen to me, young lady............. I'd be proud and flattered and hold my head up high if men were 'buzzing' round you when I took you out............ in the KNOWLEDGE that were going home with ME at the end of the night!
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