Being a true English gentleman is not, of course, simply a matter of behaviour. Anyone can learn how to pick the right colour of handkerchief or the correct way to address a bishop. To be worthy of the title of “gentleman”, you need to have been in training since birth.
Born to upper or middle-class parents, brought up by the right kind of nanny, attending one of a small selection of schools, you next need to negotiate the minefield of Oxbridge colleges, private clubs and foreign travel.
Your choice of hobby, choice of tipple, choice of dog, horse and wife (in that order) will all speak volumes about your suitability for the role.
You need to cultivate impeccable manners, an implacable expression and a strong sense of fair play.
You’ll have money but not mention it, be patriotic but not shout about it, and always be perfectly turned out but not vain about it.
The English gentleman is noted for his reserve, his natural courtesy and also for his kindness and helpfulness to strangers.
He will have a rapier-like wit, that is neither denegrating or insulting.
He will have the ability to be a representative of all peoples, from the lowest of the working classes to the upper echelons of royalty.
It used to be. But then the lower classes were allowed an education and then all could aspire to become a Gentleman. In the 1700s it was only the Upper Class. In the early 1800s it was extended to the Middle Class as well, as a lot of Middle class made a lot of money from trading, and the Upper class could not keep them out! By the late 1800s education was for all and the most gifted boys would be given bursaries to the "Top" schools, Harrow, Eton, Gordonstoun. Then if you did well there a place at a couple of the Ox-Bridge College would let you in.
Well trust me, when you have seen 12,500 pissed Scotsmen heading in your direction after beating the f'kcers at rugby, the last thing you want to call them is cheerleaders!
She should be behind the scenes running the country vicariously through her husband. He would be off huntin', shootin' and fishin' while the ladies would be discussing matters of state.!! Being after the tipple, dog and the horse does have its advantages!
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Born to upper or middle-class parents, brought up by the right kind of nanny, attending one of a small selection of schools, you next need to negotiate the minefield of Oxbridge colleges, private clubs and foreign travel.
Your choice of hobby, choice of tipple, choice of dog, horse and wife (in that order) will all speak volumes about your suitability for the role.
You need to cultivate impeccable manners, an implacable expression and a strong sense of fair play.
You’ll have money but not mention it, be patriotic but not shout about it, and always be perfectly turned out but not vain about it.
The English gentleman is noted for his reserve, his natural courtesy and also for his kindness and helpfulness to strangers.
He will have a rapier-like wit, that is neither denegrating or insulting.
He will have the ability to be a representative of all peoples, from the lowest of the working classes to the upper echelons of royalty.
In short he has to be all things to everyone.