maciejka: Once upon a time I found my virtual love .... we had never lived happily ever after:
This dream is what I dream and hope for. I agree I am limited by my morals, past experiences, and my conscience. You call me cruel because I cant live a fake cyber love, and I can not have a relationship with a married woman. I want something real, lasting, and a woman that is free to love me back. A woman that only wants me for who I am and doesn't want anyone else. I have limits that I have set to protect me and the innocent and to keep my core beliefs solid. You can love my dream forever, but I am not available to married women that say they are available. I am not so needy that just any pretty lady is going to make me stop and beg for love. I love myself enough to know I dont need something that cant work. I am also here mostly to express myself, make people laugh, make friends, connect with old friends, get feed back. You have only known me from a few emails and I am not cruel. If anyone feels cruelty from what I write, it is their own imagination creating a cruel image. Not me being cruel. I doubt that this venue can give me the woman in the dream because it is what it is. Although, if I did meet someone here that seemed viable, met my core beliefs, and I felt love, I would not discount that. I would explore it fully. You cant be that woman because of your need for your "universe". Which is fine - do what makes you happy. Move on and find someone else to fall in love with, please. Maybe they will except the fact that you're married and listing yourself as available. Be happy.
I get what you are saying and in what context you are using Berry. Patience is a virtue.
It's good to express your experience and take a stand, do so as you anticipate the responses you await and hope to find that gem that resonates and synchronizes with you in the sense of looking at things in a new light.
In any case, it's good to see that you disallow others to define you. Dream your dream and may it bring only harmony to yourself and others.
StressFree: I get what you are saying and in what context you are using Berry. Patience is a virtue.
It's good to express your experience and take a stand, do so as you anticipate the responses you await and hope to find that gem that resonates and synchronizes with you in the sense of looking at things in a new light.
In any case, it's good to see that you disallow others to define you. Dream your dream and may it bring only harmony to yourself and others.
Seriously..perhaps it's the blonde hair and legs that got you!!
nanners2863: Seriously..perhaps it's the blonde hair and legs that got you!!
Nah, I'm not that shallow hahaha. Besides, she's hiding her face and eyes.
In any case, it appears she was approached by somebody and said no---then was called cruel.
Then after my post, I realized that she is in a relationship?!!!! So then she is looking for somebody not in a relationship while she can stay in hers??? I don't know, it was hard to break down the way her OP was structured. I do know she is looking for a woman.
lol..no dear..I'll briefly explain it again..she is an unhappy marriage and uses the internet to have a cyber affair. When he called it off because the man apparently has ethics(go figure), she said he was cruel cause she was in love with him.Phew..need anothe nap!!
OMG..look what this forum has done! Englishman is heart broken, Stree is confused, I'm drunk and Rob is rubbing himself in Russian vodka!!!!!!!!!!..Best forum yet!!
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