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Mar 22, 2010 2:06 PM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
denmcintyre
denmcintyredenmcintyrewest melbourne, Florida USA10 Threads 1,106 Posts
Okay, my problem is that I seem to attract mostly younger women. In fact, my last 3 relationships have been with girls in their 20's. The problem seems to be that I want to look at the future and they don't seem to be at that point in their lives yet. Maybe I just answered my own question lol.. Anyone have any thoughts?dunno
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Mar 22, 2010 2:08 PM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
denmcintyre: Okay, my problem is that I seem to attract mostly younger women. In fact, my last 3 relationships have been with girls in their 20's. The problem seems to be that I want to look at the future and they don't seem to be at that point in their lives yet. Maybe I just answered my own question lol.. Anyone have any thoughts?

I am usually attracted to older guys. But I would definitely think more than twice when considering dating someone much older after my CS experience grin
As for your last 3 relationships, you have answered your own question. They were too young for a lifetime commitement. wink
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Mar 22, 2010 2:10 PM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
denmcintyre
denmcintyredenmcintyrewest melbourne, Florida USA10 Threads 1,106 Posts
Liebe2: I am usually attracted to older guys. But I would definitely think more than twice when considering dating someone much older after my CS experience
As for your last 3 relationships, you have answered your own question. They were too young for a lifetime commitement.
Thanks L, seems like I can always count on you for the truth lol...It's not my fault, I'm cursed lol...doh
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Mar 22, 2010 6:40 PM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
adamisk
adamiskadamiskraleigh, Mississippi USA34 Threads 4 Polls 1,325 Posts
honestly younger women scare the hell out of me .
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Mar 22, 2010 6:46 PM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
denmcintyre: Okay, my problem is that I seem to attract mostly younger women. In fact, my last 3 relationships have been with girls in their 20's. The problem seems to be that I want to look at the future and they don't seem to be at that point in their lives yet. Maybe I just answered my own question lol.. Anyone have any thoughts?
I was on cloud nine for about a week, then my own insecurity began to creep in. I think i got to be a pain in her but, having to be constantly reassured I wasn't to old. Whole thing sort of imploded. Hard for me to be secure enough for a younger women. Do you have trouble with that?dunno
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Mar 22, 2010 6:47 PM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
bob1959: I was on cloud nine for about a week, then my own insecurity began to creep in. I think i got to be a pain in her but, having to be constantly reassured I wasn't to old. Whole thing sort of imploded. Hard for me to be secure enough for a younger women. Do you have trouble with that?
doh doh butt
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Mar 22, 2010 7:04 PM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
At my age almost everyone I would date has to be younger.
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Mar 22, 2010 7:11 PM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
leejones
leejonesleejonescastlebar, Mayo Ireland1 Threads 48 Posts
denmcintyre: Okay, my problem is that I seem to attract mostly younger women. In fact, my last 3 relationships have been with girls in their 20's. The problem seems to be that I want to look at the future and they don't seem to be at that point in their lives yet. Maybe I just answered my own question lol.. Anyone have any thoughts?
ya been der for 5yrs weve finished in da past year she 23 now but doesnt know wat she wants yet ill have to accept dat an try to move on,as you said you have answered your own question an prob mine good luck,slaintecheers
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Mar 22, 2010 7:16 PM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
denmcintyre: Okay, my problem is that I seem to attract mostly younger women. In fact, my last 3 relationships have been with girls in their 20's. The problem seems to be that I want to look at the future and they don't seem to be at that point in their lives yet. Maybe I just answered my own question lol.. Anyone have any thoughts?


Maybe you should focus on the present and stop living in the future.

Or, you can date women your age, younger, or older who share your visions for the future...
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Mar 22, 2010 11:50 PM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
gymrrat916
gymrrat916gymrrat916NOR CAL, California USA1 Posts
As a young female, I have a little insight that might help.

Most girls my age (20's) aren't looking for older guys cause they are still experiencing new things and want to stay on that track for a while.

However, there ARE young girls who would LOVE to have an older guy in their lives. Girls like that (myself included) are looking for a couple things: security, adoration, and a little mystery.

It's funny because in a sense, being with a (significanly) older guy would probably be a new experience in and of itself.

So here's my best advice: if you are lucky enough to hook a younger girl and she's into you, spoil her, protect her, adore her, and show her things and do things for her that the young pups don't know how to do ;)

Best of luck!
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Mar 23, 2010 12:04 AM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
tstone61
tstone61tstone61brayton, Iowa USA5 Threads 651 Posts
gymrrat916: As a young female, I have a little insight that might help.

Most girls my age (20's) aren't looking for older guys cause they are still experiencing new things and want to stay on that track for a while.

However, there ARE young girls who would LOVE to have an older guy in their lives. Girls like that (myself included) are looking for a couple things: security, adoration, and a little mystery.

It's funny because in a sense, being with a (significanly) older guy would probably be a new experience in and of itself.

So here's my best advice: if you are lucky enough to hook a younger girl and she's into you, spoil her, protect her, adore her, and show her things and do things for her that the young pups don't know how to do ;)

Best of luck!
thumbs up cheers peace my thought exactly .I would love to be a teacher .rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing cheers
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Mar 23, 2010 12:07 AM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
lrrh77
lrrh77lrrh77college station, Texas USA5 Threads 1,451 Posts
adamisk: honestly younger women scare the hell out of me .


taco deficiency?? rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 23, 2010 12:23 AM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
denmcintyre
denmcintyredenmcintyrewest melbourne, Florida USA10 Threads 1,106 Posts
adamisk: honestly younger women scare the hell out of me .
lol... me too now Adam... they are fun to be with for a while but dammit, i can't be in the club every nite lol... i need my sleepsleep
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Mar 23, 2010 12:26 AM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
denmcintyre
denmcintyredenmcintyrewest melbourne, Florida USA10 Threads 1,106 Posts
bob1959: I was on cloud nine for about a week, then my own insecurity began to creep in. I think i got to be a pain in her but, having to be constantly reassured I wasn't to old. Whole thing sort of imploded. Hard for me to be secure enough for a younger women. Do you have trouble with that?
OMG YES!!!! lol... Bob that is exactly what caused this past relationship to break up... I know that for the most part I have more in common with them than I do with women my age, but there is always that little voice in the back of my head that screams, ARE YOU INSANE!!!! lol
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Mar 23, 2010 12:26 AM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
denmcintyre
denmcintyredenmcintyrewest melbourne, Florida USA10 Threads 1,106 Posts
Big_John: At my age almost everyone I would date has to be younger.
LOL John
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Mar 23, 2010 12:28 AM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
denmcintyre
denmcintyredenmcintyrewest melbourne, Florida USA10 Threads 1,106 Posts
leejones: ya been der for 5yrs weve finished in da past year she 23 now but doesnt know wat she wants yet ill have to accept dat an try to move on,as you said you have answered your own question an prob mine good luck,slainte
Thanks Lee and good luck to you too.. somewhere out there I am sure there is that happy medium.. just gotta find it lol..cheers
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Mar 23, 2010 12:30 AM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
denmcintyre
denmcintyredenmcintyrewest melbourne, Florida USA10 Threads 1,106 Posts
StressFree: Maybe you should focus on the present and stop living in the future.

Or, you can date women your age, younger, or older who share your visions for the future...
Can i choose what's behind door number 1 lol... good advice though Stress.. thanks buddy!!!cheers
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Mar 23, 2010 12:34 AM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
denmcintyre
denmcintyredenmcintyrewest melbourne, Florida USA10 Threads 1,106 Posts
gymrrat916: As a young female, I have a little insight that might help.

Most girls my age (20's) aren't looking for older guys cause they are still experiencing new things and want to stay on that track for a while.

However, there ARE young girls who would LOVE to have an older guy in their lives. Girls like that (myself included) are looking for a couple things: security, adoration, and a little mystery.

It's funny because in a sense, being with a (significanly) older guy would probably be a new experience in and of itself.

So here's my best advice: if you are lucky enough to hook a younger girl and she's into you, spoil her, protect her, adore her, and show her things and do things for her that the young pups don't know how to do ;)

Best of luck!
Hey G... ummm yeah, I have tried that and i think the missing ingredient was mystery.. If anything maybe I was a little too eager to please.. so ummmm my number is 321-..... lol.. u r absolutely insanely beautiful... sorry lol.. but yea thanks for the advice...hug
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Mar 23, 2010 12:35 AM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
denmcintyre
denmcintyredenmcintyrewest melbourne, Florida USA10 Threads 1,106 Posts
tstone61: my thought exactly .I would love to be a teacher .
LOL T... it does have its moments..dancing
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Mar 23, 2010 12:36 AM CST Guys, How do you feel about dating younger women?
denmcintyre
denmcintyredenmcintyrewest melbourne, Florida USA10 Threads 1,106 Posts
lrrh77: taco deficiency??
hahahaha omg.. i think i read that right...rolling on the floor laughing
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