Okay, my problem is that I seem to attract mostly younger women. In fact, my last 3 relationships have been with girls in their 20's. The problem seems to be that I want to look at the future and they don't seem to be at that point in their lives yet. Maybe I just answered my own question lol.. Anyone have any thoughts?
denmcintyre: Okay, my problem is that I seem to attract mostly younger women. In fact, my last 3 relationships have been with girls in their 20's. The problem seems to be that I want to look at the future and they don't seem to be at that point in their lives yet. Maybe I just answered my own question lol.. Anyone have any thoughts?
I am usually attracted to older guys. But I would definitely think more than twice when considering dating someone much older after my CS experience As for your last 3 relationships, you have answered your own question. They were too young for a lifetime commitement.
Liebe2: I am usually attracted to older guys. But I would definitely think more than twice when considering dating someone much older after my CS experience As for your last 3 relationships, you have answered your own question. They were too young for a lifetime commitement.
Thanks L, seems like I can always count on you for the truth lol...It's not my fault, I'm cursed lol...
denmcintyre: Okay, my problem is that I seem to attract mostly younger women. In fact, my last 3 relationships have been with girls in their 20's. The problem seems to be that I want to look at the future and they don't seem to be at that point in their lives yet. Maybe I just answered my own question lol.. Anyone have any thoughts?
I was on cloud nine for about a week, then my own insecurity began to creep in. I think i got to be a pain in her but, having to be constantly reassured I wasn't to old. Whole thing sort of imploded. Hard for me to be secure enough for a younger women. Do you have trouble with that?
bob1959: I was on cloud nine for about a week, then my own insecurity began to creep in. I think i got to be a pain in her but, having to be constantly reassured I wasn't to old. Whole thing sort of imploded. Hard for me to be secure enough for a younger women. Do you have trouble with that?
denmcintyre: Okay, my problem is that I seem to attract mostly younger women. In fact, my last 3 relationships have been with girls in their 20's. The problem seems to be that I want to look at the future and they don't seem to be at that point in their lives yet. Maybe I just answered my own question lol.. Anyone have any thoughts?
ya been der for 5yrs weve finished in da past year she 23 now but doesnt know wat she wants yet ill have to accept dat an try to move on,as you said you have answered your own question an prob mine good luck,slainte
denmcintyre: Okay, my problem is that I seem to attract mostly younger women. In fact, my last 3 relationships have been with girls in their 20's. The problem seems to be that I want to look at the future and they don't seem to be at that point in their lives yet. Maybe I just answered my own question lol.. Anyone have any thoughts?
Maybe you should focus on the present and stop living in the future.
Or, you can date women your age, younger, or older who share your visions for the future...
As a young female, I have a little insight that might help.
Most girls my age (20's) aren't looking for older guys cause they are still experiencing new things and want to stay on that track for a while.
However, there ARE young girls who would LOVE to have an older guy in their lives. Girls like that (myself included) are looking for a couple things: security, adoration, and a little mystery.
It's funny because in a sense, being with a (significanly) older guy would probably be a new experience in and of itself.
So here's my best advice: if you are lucky enough to hook a younger girl and she's into you, spoil her, protect her, adore her, and show her things and do things for her that the young pups don't know how to do ;)
gymrrat916: As a young female, I have a little insight that might help.
Most girls my age (20's) aren't looking for older guys cause they are still experiencing new things and want to stay on that track for a while.
However, there ARE young girls who would LOVE to have an older guy in their lives. Girls like that (myself included) are looking for a couple things: security, adoration, and a little mystery.
It's funny because in a sense, being with a (significanly) older guy would probably be a new experience in and of itself.
So here's my best advice: if you are lucky enough to hook a younger girl and she's into you, spoil her, protect her, adore her, and show her things and do things for her that the young pups don't know how to do ;)
Best of luck!
my thought exactly .I would love to be a teacher .
bob1959: I was on cloud nine for about a week, then my own insecurity began to creep in. I think i got to be a pain in her but, having to be constantly reassured I wasn't to old. Whole thing sort of imploded. Hard for me to be secure enough for a younger women. Do you have trouble with that?
OMG YES!!!! lol... Bob that is exactly what caused this past relationship to break up... I know that for the most part I have more in common with them than I do with women my age, but there is always that little voice in the back of my head that screams, ARE YOU INSANE!!!! lol
leejones: ya been der for 5yrs weve finished in da past year she 23 now but doesnt know wat she wants yet ill have to accept dat an try to move on,as you said you have answered your own question an prob mine good luck,slainte
Thanks Lee and good luck to you too.. somewhere out there I am sure there is that happy medium.. just gotta find it lol..
gymrrat916: As a young female, I have a little insight that might help.
Most girls my age (20's) aren't looking for older guys cause they are still experiencing new things and want to stay on that track for a while.
However, there ARE young girls who would LOVE to have an older guy in their lives. Girls like that (myself included) are looking for a couple things: security, adoration, and a little mystery.
It's funny because in a sense, being with a (significanly) older guy would probably be a new experience in and of itself.
So here's my best advice: if you are lucky enough to hook a younger girl and she's into you, spoil her, protect her, adore her, and show her things and do things for her that the young pups don't know how to do ;)
Best of luck!
Hey G... ummm yeah, I have tried that and i think the missing ingredient was mystery.. If anything maybe I was a little too eager to please.. so ummmm my number is 321-..... lol.. u r absolutely insanely beautiful... sorry lol.. but yea thanks for the advice...
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