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Aug 23, 2006 8:47 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
Okay say you are a member at a popular parenting forums where its mostly mothers who participate.

There is this man who joins. Never been married, single and has no kids. You notice how he loves to draw attention to himself.

How would you feel that he is posting in a site dedicated to parents but he has no children and no experience with them??

Just curious...
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Aug 23, 2006 8:54 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
For me that would send up red flags everywhere. Granted there are men out there that love kids but have never had any of their own, but to be on a parenting site? I'm thinking something is VERY WRONG with that picture.
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Aug 23, 2006 8:59 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
SusieRR
SusieRRSusieRRnortheast, Ohio USA78 Threads 3 Polls 2,122 Posts
Nope, no way......
I don't think so.
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Aug 23, 2006 8:59 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
VioladorDeLaLey
VioladorDeLaLeyVioladorDeLaLeyBajo Un Sol Feliz, USA11 Threads 4,548 Posts
gotta agree
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Aug 23, 2006 9:00 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
That is exactly what I think too. That worries me and me and quite a few others have contacted the staff of the site with our concerns but they just ignore us. Makes you wonder about the staff and how they are concerned about their members eh. Jeesh!
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Aug 23, 2006 9:03 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
What makes me sick is that I know this guy. He is my ex boyfriend. And I found out by a few of his friends that he had this website where he lured young underage girls. When he found out that I knew about it and others he quickly erased the site. My friends have filed reports against him and we did make that aware to staff of the site but they told us that they can't do anything about it. Ummmmm thats dumb because they have banned a few parents for petty stuff yet allow a "possible" p*dophile into a parenting site??

Absolutly disgusting if you ask me!
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Aug 23, 2006 9:03 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
iRon12345
iRon12345iRon12345Tempe, USA35 Threads 2,473 Posts
Well I am a single father on a dating site trying to bring attention to myself <----------Not the samething is it?

It could be worse, I could be a married father on a dating site trying to bring attention to myself.

Even worse it could be my father on a dating site trying to bring attention to himself and I could be the kid and my mom finds out.

I have no point here I am just trying to bring attention to myself
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 23, 2006 9:04 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
10012112
1001211210012112kennewick, Washington USA30 Threads 1,028 Posts
i do agree with you on that one katine76,also i have been around grown up alot in my life,and i just feel more comfortable around grown ups,but that is just my thought,and opoinen,but i do agree with you there,i am not saying you are wrong,or putting you down,i am agree with you,cause i am being honest here with youcomfort

10012112
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Aug 23, 2006 9:07 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
I'd definitely be concerned...I have a couple of suggestions..

1. All of you continue to complain to the staff daily maybe even more than once a day.

2. I'm sure that at least one of you knows someone in law enforcement, have them join the site and maybe they would build a trust between each other that will nail this slime ball to the wall grin devil
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Aug 23, 2006 9:08 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
I know what you mean. And nothing wrong with being comfortable with grown ups but at least your not a single man with no kids posting in a parenting site trying to pick up vulnerable single mothers know what I mean? Now that would concern me.

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Aug 23, 2006 9:11 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
iRon12345
iRon12345iRon12345Tempe, USA35 Threads 2,473 Posts
Way wrong kind of attention barf barf barf
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Aug 23, 2006 9:12 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
That is a great idea. I will definatly mention that to my friends and see what they think. I had never thought of that! Thanks!
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Aug 23, 2006 9:19 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
I know and the sad thing is the staff at that parenting site dosn't seem to care either. Makes you wonder about how they care for the safety of their members.
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Aug 23, 2006 9:21 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
10012112
1001211210012112kennewick, Washington USA30 Threads 1,028 Posts
good point,there once again,agree with you on that one too,on me not picking up mom's on here,but i am always willing to listen and learn from mother's expereances and stuff,cause either they have helped me by listening to me,or just talking with them too,so it works both ways,hopefully that made sense,sorry if it didn't

comfort hug kiss
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Aug 23, 2006 9:29 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
Anytime Tracy...Oh and btw...If none of you know anyone in law enforcement, you know how to get a hold of me...I will ask some friends for a favor grin I despise p*dophile and would like to see them all rot in h*ll. I will do what I can, just let me know hug hug hug
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Aug 23, 2006 9:34 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
10012112
1001211210012112kennewick, Washington USA30 Threads 1,028 Posts
also like to add,i like kids,they are fun to be around,cause they just want to have fun,no matter what,you know what i mean?,just wanted to add my 2 cents in there to

yay comfort peace
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Aug 23, 2006 11:11 PM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
10012112
1001211210012112kennewick, Washington USA30 Threads 1,028 Posts
hey zdeadmanwalking,you are only soppose to do three icons,or else you might get your file deleted,just trying to help you manhead banger peace head banger

10012112
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Aug 24, 2006 4:53 AM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
YamiYami
YamiYamiYamiYamiNorthWest, England UK30 Threads 1,252 Posts
I don't need to feel anything . The forum must have guidelines . He can be a member for as long as he observes those rules . Menor and women would be better qualified if they familiarise themselves with parenting before becoming one .
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Aug 24, 2006 6:06 AM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
photofreek
photofreekphotofreeksoda springs, USA23 Threads 2,495 Posts
Maybe he has dated someone with children or possibly he is unable to have children so is looking for someone that already has children to fullfill his dreams of being a father someday
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Aug 24, 2006 6:20 AM CST A single man with no children in a parenting site...
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
doh Photofreak and Yami...Please read the quoted text below. I believe that you guys may have overlooked it. angel
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