lessons that life brings ( Archived) (10)

life is a learning experiences
life is made up of differt lessons
if we fail to learn these lessons
than we will repeat them
in some ways without knowing it
we will be like a dog chasing it's tail
we will become lost and not know it


the first lesson that life tries to teach us
but some fail to understand it
we are not prefect nor is anyone else
not matter how much we or them try
to say we or they are we and them are not prefect
we each has our flaws and short comings.
we can spend the rest of our lives
trying to make oursevles perfect
but we will never be able to do it


once we can accept that we are not prefect
we can admit we will make mistakes
here is where it will tell we are
differt from each other
when we make a mistake
we have a choice we can admit we made it
we don't admit that we had made a mistake


when we admit we make a misatke
we accept responsibility for it
we do not blame someone else for it
but we accept all responsibility for it


if we make a mistake against another person
we can admit to them that we have
made a mistake,we can apologize for it
than we can seek their forgiveness for it


when someone seeks our forgiveness
we should forgive them and not hold
it against them,once we have forgiving them
than we should forget their mistake
for what is gain to hold it against them
for what is to gain to remember it tomorrow
sometimes a relationship ends
cause they cannot forgive each other
for the mistakes that they have
made against each other


we can learn by the mistakes we have made
we can learn by the mistakes others have made
but it does not matter who made the mistakes
as long as we learn by it and we do not
make the same mistake over again



life is full of lessons we can learn each new day
we can learn these lessons on our own
we can learn these lessons from someone else
it does not matter how we learn them
as long as we learn them and not do them over
if we cannot learn them than we will repeat them over and over
until we can learn from them
losing at love can teach us a lesson if we are willing
to learn from it we must understand why we lost at love
than we will know the next time love
comes along not to do the same thing as before



sometimes when we lose at love cause we look for
the same kind of person over and over without knowing we are doing it
once we can see what we are doing than we can stop oursevles from doing it.
we will not repeat oursevles and one day we will find a love that will last.



but first we must get past how the person is not perfect
see the person for who they really are
find the reason why we have fallen in love with them
find the reason that have attract the to us
find the reasons why we cannot stop thinking about them



until we are ready to accept the person as they are
for who they are
until we stop trying to change someone
into the person we want them to be
than we are not ready for love until we can do these things


learn from the lessons that yesterday taught us
but don't repeat the lessons of yeaterday today

Thanks! makes one think

Tim, We are definetely not perfect. Truer words have never been
spoken. But I will still go on with my journey finding good in
all people. Today I had a gentlemen say some very harsh things
to me and yes, I was deeply hurt. But I will never regret
knowing this person. He brought a lot of joy to my life and
I will always remember that. He just wasn't able to be honest
with me from the beginning. Now another lady has walked into
his life and I only wish the best for him. Maybe this will be
the lady he has been looking for.

Z...as usual this is extraordinary!!!!

Life is a lesson. Learn it well

you don't get to choose hor you are going to die
you only get to chose how you live

I'm afraid that i live it everyday and i still havent learned yet!

you live day by day
you forget about the past for there is nothing you can do to change it
all you can do is to learn from the past,so you will not repeat the past.


you learn from the mistakes you had made and try not to make them again,you do not worry about tomorrow for tomorrow has not came yet
so there is nothing you can do until it comes

take the past and tomorrow away all you have left is today
when you understand that today is a blessing and a gift
you will learn to take life day by day,do all you can to get through today,sometimes today is hard enough to get through
without worrying about what tomorrow will bring


if today you have food to eat
a place to stay
clothes to wear
be thankful cause some
people do not have what you have
but thankful for what you have
be thankful that you was bless with another day


good or bad it is a blessing to do what you want to do with it
today is what you make of it good or day
it is your day to do what ever you want to do with it

Z all of what you have written here is so enlightening and so true...acceptance of self and others imperfections opens doors that we never knew could exist!