I'm Hurting Guys (38)

Apr 4, 2010 2:47 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
Posted this on the international but some of ye know me:

My best friend's wife and children are in hospital following a car crash on Thursday. The four children are between 3 and 8 and have broken bones but they will recover.

His wife who is only 34 is in Beaumount Hospital in Dublin with brain damage, a broken neck, pelvis and limbs. Her lungs were crushed too. They annointed her on Thursday night but she's hanging in there. She's a fighter. Apparently the next 2 days are important if the brain does not swell.

Five peoples lives are ruined and I get down on my knees but I'm so angry with God at the moment it's hard. I don't know what to pray for since she may be better off dead but deep down I just want everything to be back the way it was.

It's amazing how a split second can change everything. I hope I haven't bored anyone. I'm a wee bit upset.
Apr 4, 2010 2:49 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
MayAzalea
MayAzaleaMayAzaleaLeicester, Leicestershire, England UK16 Threads 1,128 Posts
Godsgift: Posted this on the international but some of ye know me:

My best friend's wife and children are in hospital following a car crash on Thursday. The four children are between 3 and 8 and have broken bones but they will recover.

His wife who is only 34 is in Beaumount Hospital in Dublin with brain damage, a broken neck, pelvis and limbs. Her lungs were crushed too. They annointed her on Thursday night but she's hanging in there. She's a fighter. Apparently the next 2 days are important if the brain does not swell.

Five peoples lives are ruined and I get down on my knees but I'm so angry with God at the moment it's hard. I don't know what to pray for since she may be better off dead but deep down I just want everything to be back the way it was.

It's amazing how a split second can change everything. I hope I haven't bored anyone. I'm a wee bit upset.



I am so sorry to hear this Godsgift, I pray they all pull through and heal well (((hugs)))
Apr 4, 2010 2:49 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
scarwolve
scarwolvescarwolvescarwolfs den, Carlow Ireland313 Threads 18 Polls 3,060 Posts
Godsgift: Posted this on the international but some of ye know me:

My best friend's wife and children are in hospital following a car crash on Thursday. The four children are between 3 and 8 and have broken bones but they will recover.

His wife who is only 34 is in Beaumount Hospital in Dublin with brain damage, a broken neck, pelvis and limbs. Her lungs were crushed too. They annointed her on Thursday night but she's hanging in there. She's a fighter. Apparently the next 2 days are important if the brain does not swell.

Five peoples lives are ruined and I get down on my knees but I'm so angry with God at the moment it's hard. I don't know what to pray for since she may be better off dead but deep down I just want everything to be back the way it was.

It's amazing how a split second can change everything. I hope I haven't bored anyone. I'm a wee bit upset.


sorry to hear man comfort
Apr 4, 2010 2:50 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
Crazylegs
CrazylegsCrazylegsDublin, Ireland71 Threads 6,737 Posts
Godsgift: Posted this on the international but some of ye know me:

My best friend's wife and children are in hospital following a car crash on Thursday. The four children are between 3 and 8 and have broken bones but they will recover.

His wife who is only 34 is in Beaumount Hospital in Dublin with brain damage, a broken neck, pelvis and limbs. Her lungs were crushed too. They annointed her on Thursday night but she's hanging in there. She's a fighter. Apparently the next 2 days are important if the brain does not swell.

Five peoples lives are ruined and I get down on my knees but I'm so angry with God at the moment it's hard. I don't know what to pray for since she may be better off dead but deep down I just want everything to be back the way it was.

It's amazing how a split second can change everything. I hope I haven't bored anyone. I'm a wee bit upset.


oh god Keith im so sorry to Hear this... Ill say a prayer for her and the family... hope you are doing ok!!! is there anyhting I can do for you????


teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear
Apr 4, 2010 2:50 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
woods
woodswoodsgalway, Galway Ireland5 Threads 531 Posts
Very sorry to hear this, don't know what to say except maybe be strong for your friend.
Apr 4, 2010 2:51 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
Godsgift: Posted this on the international but some of ye know me:

My best friend's wife and children are in hospital following a car crash on Thursday. The four children are between 3 and 8 and have broken bones but they will recover.

His wife who is only 34 is in Beaumount Hospital in Dublin with brain damage, a broken neck, pelvis and limbs. Her lungs were crushed too. They annointed her on Thursday night but she's hanging in there. She's a fighter. Apparently the next 2 days are important if the brain does not swell.

Five peoples lives are ruined and I get down on my knees but I'm so angry with God at the moment it's hard. I don't know what to pray for since she may be better off dead but deep down I just want everything to be back the way it was.

It's amazing how a split second can change everything. I hope I haven't bored anyone. I'm a wee bit upset.
sorry to hear that gg,,teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear
Apr 4, 2010 2:52 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
woods: Very sorry to hear this, don't know what to say except maybe be strong for your friend.


Thanks guys. Just feel so useless and more than a bit selfish. I've no right to be upset.
Apr 4, 2010 2:53 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
In response to: Posted this on the international but some of ye know me:

My best friend's wife and children are in hospital following a car crash on Thursday. The four children are between 3 and 8 and have broken bones but they will recover.

His wife who is only 34 is in Beaumount Hospital in Dublin with brain damage, a broken neck, pelvis and limbs. Her lungs were crushed too. They annointed her on Thursday night but she's hanging in there. She's a fighter. Apparently the next 2 days are important if the brain does not swell.

Five peoples lives are ruined and I get down on my knees but I'm so angry with God at the moment it's hard. I don't know what to pray for since she may be better off dead but deep down I just want everything to be back the way it was.

It's amazing how a split second can change everything. I hope I haven't bored anyone. I'm a wee bit upset.

that is really tragic, i hope your friend pulls through keith
Apr 4, 2010 2:57 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
nvosiris
nvosirisnvosirismeath, Meath Ireland53 Threads 6 Polls 5,712 Posts
Godsgift: Thanks guys. Just feel so useless and more than a bit selfish. I've no right to be upset.

Of course you have a right to be upset Keith, they are your friends and its the feeling of helplessness that is making you feel useless and fustrated. hug bouquet
Apr 4, 2010 2:59 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
FluffyDuffy
FluffyDuffyFluffyDuffyBelfast, Antrim Ireland24 Threads 11 Polls 484 Posts
Godsgift: Posted this on the international but some of ye know me:

My best friend's wife and children are in hospital following a car crash on Thursday. The four children are between 3 and 8 and have broken bones but they will recover.

His wife who is only 34 is in Beaumount Hospital in Dublin with brain damage, a broken neck, pelvis and limbs. Her lungs were crushed too. They annointed her on Thursday night but she's hanging in there. She's a fighter. Apparently the next 2 days are important if the brain does not swell.

Five peoples lives are ruined and I get down on my knees but I'm so angry with God at the moment it's hard. I don't know what to pray for since she may be better off dead but deep down I just want everything to be back the way it was.

It's amazing how a split second can change everything. I hope I haven't bored anyone. I'm a wee bit upset.


That is sad, Times like these you would wonder is there a god at all
Apr 4, 2010 3:00 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
mermin
merminmermindonegal, Donegal Ireland17 Threads 364 Posts
Keith, you have every reason to be upset, something like this is far reaching and it will take time for things to be some what normal again.
Dont feel useless...be there for them, now and in the months ahead. I have been through personal tragedy and you need your friends to carry you at times like this, even if thats just sitting in silence with you.
My heart is with you. feel free to email me if you need to chat, you can give me your number. plenty ppl here just a call away for you.
Apr 4, 2010 3:01 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
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Stay strong... sorry to hear that GG. teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear
Apr 4, 2010 3:03 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
Alice_Hooper
Alice_HooperAlice_HooperDublin, Ireland13 Threads 9,818 Posts
Godsgift: Thanks guys. Just feel so useless and more than a bit selfish. I've no right to be upset.



We'd all be upset, you shouldn't worry about that. Just try to be there for your mate, he needs you more than ever now.



hug
Apr 4, 2010 3:07 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
chuckles25
chuckles25chuckles25Dublin, Ireland73 Threads 3 Polls 5,479 Posts
oh my god GG.... i really hope everything goes ok for you and your friend and his young family...

keep strong
teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear teddybear
Apr 4, 2010 3:17 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
Crazylegs
CrazylegsCrazylegsDublin, Ireland71 Threads 6,737 Posts
mermin: Keith, you have every reason to be upset, something like this is far reaching and it will take time for things to be some what normal again.
Dont feel useless...be there for them, now and in the months ahead. I have been through personal tragedy and you need your friends to carry you at times like this, even if thats just sitting in silence with you.
My heart is with you. feel free to email me if you need to chat, you can give me your number. plenty ppl here just a call away for you.



I second that thumbs up

im here any time for you GG hug
Apr 4, 2010 3:19 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
Terribly sorry to hear this, Keith sad flower

Just being there for them is all you can do. Its only natural that you are upset hug hug
Apr 4, 2010 3:19 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
Partiro
PartiroPartiroNaas, Kildare Ireland14 Threads 4,515 Posts
Godsgift: Posted this on the international but some of ye know me:

My best friend's wife and children are in hospital following a car crash on Thursday. The four children are between 3 and 8 and have broken bones but they will recover.

His wife who is only 34 is in Beaumount Hospital in Dublin with brain damage, a broken neck, pelvis and limbs. Her lungs were crushed too. They annointed her on Thursday night but she's hanging in there. She's a fighter. Apparently the next 2 days are important if the brain does not swell.

Five peoples lives are ruined and I get down on my knees but I'm so angry with God at the moment it's hard. I don't know what to pray for since she may be better off dead but deep down I just want everything to be back the way it was.

It's amazing how a split second can change everything. I hope I haven't bored anyone. I'm a wee bit upset.
Im so sorry to hear this GG, my thoughts are with you and I will say a prayer for you, her and her family. comfort
Apr 4, 2010 3:20 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
number7
number7number7donegal, Donegal Ireland2 Threads 8 Posts
hi dont usualy say anything on this. but have to say hope all turns out well. june last year my brother was in the beaumont with head injury they did not think he would pull threw gave him days to live and live he did so please god this lady will pull threw also will say a prayer for her and all going threw this hard time.take care.comfort
Apr 4, 2010 3:22 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
number7: hi dont usualy say anything on this. but have to say hope all turns out well. june last year my brother was in the beaumont with head injury they did not think he would pull threw gave him days to live and live he did so please god this lady will pull threw also will say a prayer for her and all going threw this hard time.take care.


Oh I hope we get another miracle. You've given me a wee bit of hope.teddybear
Apr 4, 2010 3:24 PM CST I'm Hurting Guys
sharina
sharinasharinadublin, Dublin Ireland38 Threads 2 Polls 3,166 Posts
oh keith..im so so sad to hear that..there is nothing anyone can do,,or say that will make you fell any better..
but i will say a prayer...hug teddybear
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