it was an unanswered question in a of-record debate with a friend here... Hence anyway you, guys, take it But no, I don't think along love-or-lust lines. Good morning, DodgeBabe
Hi..
Well, I think its something like this, in my opinion.
When you are "Crazy for Him", logic goes out the window, emotions completely rule the day, you put him above all other things, even when you know its not the right thing to do, you let him get away with things that he shouldnt..
When you really "Love Him", you are are more objective, look out for the good practicalities as well as the wild, crazy, emotional benefits, are not afraid to tell him when you think he is wrong, and keep a grip on your OWN wellbeing first and foremost.
Its an interesting question, Laura, and really my post does not include all I feel I could say, but it will do for 9.15am on a Saturday morning!!
Well, I think its something like this, in my opinion.
When you are "Crazy for Him", logic goes out the window, emotions completely rule the day, you put him above all other things, even when you know its not the right thing to do, you let him get away with things that he shouldnt..
When you really "Love Him", you are are more objective, look out for the good practicalities as well as the wild, crazy, emotional benefits, are not afraid to tell him when you think he is wrong, and keep a grip on your OWN wellbeing first and foremost.
Its an interesting question, Laura, and really my post does not include all I feel I could say, but it will do for 9.15am on a Saturday morning!!
Laura25: I like that, DodgeBabe But don't 'they' say 'Love is blind'?
Yeah, sometimes it is! Even when you are in the more "Logical" stage of it, it can still send in the Rose Tinted Shades..
I think you would always favor your partner as regards "sticking up" for them, but I dont think the totally illogical stays around for too long.
I truely believe that once the Crazy Part has lessened, it becomes more of a solid,tangible thing rather than a Floaty, 24-High Thing. That makes it stronger, and harder to shatter.
DodgeBabe: Yeah, sometimes it is! Even when you are in the more "Logical" stage of it, it can still send in the Rose Tinted Shades..
I think you would always favor your partner as regards "sticking up" for them, but I dont think the totally illogical stays around for too long.
I truely believe that once the Crazy Part has lessened, it becomes more of a solid,tangible thing rather than a Floaty, 24-High Thing. That makes it stronger, and harder to shatter.
Ah-ha, gotcha...
In other words - there is no difference until a certain stage of it is reached...
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What's the difference?