You wouldn't think this would be an issue with dating at my age... (12)
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I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
I think there are still alot of women around 30 that don't have children. Plus there are the women that have a child/children who would have children with their next partner. I guess it all comes down to *is the baggage that hard or *can you take on someones children as your own. There are positives and negatives to both situations but I guess it is what suits you best. Good luck in your search though and I hope you find what you're after.
Brad1983: Hi
I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
Well Brad there are a lot of Ladies out there that have put thier career first and are maybe thinking of settling down so you have a good chance of finding someone like that.
But that does not mean you should shut ladies out if they have a child as you might be missing out on the love of your life.
I would allow for 5 or 6 yrs either side of your age group as that is nothing really. You then should have a good chance of finding some one that you have a lot in common with.
Good Hunting
Just because someone has children, does not mean she doesnt want to have more children with you. Not to mention what someone says early in dating, may not be what they want later in life.
So why not just keep dating, in all the age brackets and Im sure that you will meet a wonderful lady who will make you happy
So why not just keep dating, in all the age brackets and Im sure that you will meet a wonderful lady who will make you happy
Shell225: Just because someone has children, does not mean she doesnt want to have more children with you. Not to mention what someone says early in dating, may not be what they want later in life.
So why not just keep dating, in all the age brackets and Im sure that you will meet a wonderful lady who will make you happy
So why not just keep dating, in all the age brackets and Im sure that you will meet a wonderful lady who will make you happy
Very true shell... I had my first at 20 and my second at 37
and soooooooo glad I did 
Brad1983: Hi
I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
why dont you date a 26/27 yr old ?
they probobly are more mature than 22 & probobly dont have kids yet I mean its not as if your gonna meet friday & impregnate saturday , well at least i hope not (please note practicing is acceptable)
having kids around 30 ish is perfect for most people these days & 3 or 4 yrs to decide your both parental material is just smart ..
best of luck
Brad1983: Hi
I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
Honestly, I think you should give yourself every opportunity for success and that would mean try finding one with minim baggage. between 26 and 22 is no great age difference, its not a generation apart but only few insignificant years. If you think you have something more incommon with a 30 year old with kids, you yourself should really rethink your own maturity.
JMO
EliteOne: Honestly, I think you should give yourself every opportunity for success and that would mean try finding one with minim baggage. between 26 and 22 is no great age difference, its not a generation apart but only few insignificant years. If you think you have something more incommon with a 30 year old with kids, you yourself should really rethink your own maturity.
JMO
JMO
Brad1983: Hi
I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
I think there is still alot of single women out within your age bracket that don't have children.
Alot of woman now, delay having kids due to wanting careers.
I know alot of younger people that do have kids but also there are the ones that don't.
Wouldn't give up on what you are looking for, just might take abit longer to find the right on one
In response to: Hi
I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
Good luck in your search. There are plenty of us women out there that are in their early 30's that don't have kids and would like kids with the right guy.
Brad1983: Hi
I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
I think there is nothing wrong with having someone elses kids as well as your own...if you love the girl you will except all parts of her lifeI am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused What do you think?
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I am 26 and half and I find that most of the women I am attracted to are alot younger ( 21 & 22) primarly because of the reason they have no baggage ie. being a divorcee or kids. (I'm sorry if I sound brutal and don't mean to offend, I am just trying to convey how I feel). To be frank I find younger women stupid and immature and often do not wan't a serious relationhip, but however an older woman closer to my age or older (which I should be dating!!!) can provide me with that and now I am starting to reconsider, but the other part is i want to have kids of my own. Maybe I just need to accept that women round the 30 mark generally have kids and that is how is? I'm confused