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Legend3Mir Jo Goth, Sindh Pakistan92 Threads 18 Polls 949 Postsis it true that women hate the men commited wth other women ? 
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Hate???
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eurolady: Hate???
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Sorry Al, Im not a hater...
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Legend3: is it true that women hate the men commited wth other women ?
I wouldn’t say they’d hate them, I think they’d most likely respect them if the commitment was serious and sincere.
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venusenvy: Sorry Al, Im not a hater...
I know u have a Good heart and positive Mind Venus .. 
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Venusruled: Good Morning, Lost!
Are you sure it is that? Are you giving off a more confident vibe when you are with someone versus when you are alone? I think it has more to do with the attitude of men than with whether they are in a committed relationship or not.
Are you sure it is that? Are you giving off a more confident vibe when you are with someone versus when you are alone? I think it has more to do with the attitude of men than with whether they are in a committed relationship or not.
Morning V
I think you may be on to something there. When your with someone, you are more relaxed, open and more like yourself. It could be that the other women see you as a fun loving person, they see how much you love your partner. Therefore they have a natural attraction to you and in a way want that for themselves. When you are single, you are more on your gaurd. I sometime wonder if they see a guy at a club and even though he is attractive, they wonder why he's there alone. They might figure that because he's alone there is something wrong with him and hes only out for the 1 night stand. But we will never truely know what anyone else is thinking.
Glad to see this side of things, gives me something to think about. There is two sides to every story and I love seeing both sides.
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is it true that women hate the men commited wth other women ?
No..
No..
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scottyburd: is it true that women hate the men commited wth other women ?
No..
but some do No..
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No, but I wouldn't compromise their relationship by doing anything stupid. Just be friends. 
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Legend3: I know u have a Good heart and positive Mind Venus ..
Thanks Al...its also my policy not to get involved with peeps that are involved...too complicated But, I dont hate anyone
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Legend3: is it true that women hate the men commited wth other women ?
Hello Legend3 ..I think hate is a rather strong word to use as then it implies that they must have loved them at some point.I think it would probabley frustrate women more when they come to know someone only to find out they are married or committed to another women just as it would if it was a guy finding out that the same info and maybe even a feeling of betrayal..
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Legend3: is it true that women hate the men commited wth other women ?
i'm never attracted to married or committed men. But i know that my male friends (and i mean good friends) get all worked up when i get into a serious relationship, somehow they all disapprove.
but oh well, 
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Legend3: is it true that women hate the men commited wth other women ?
i'm never attracted to married or committed men. But i know that my male friends (and i mean good friends) get all worked up when i get into a serious relationship, somehow they all disapprove.
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Legend3: is it true that women hate the men commited wth other women ?
I do not hate anyone...not a hatter.
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Venusruled: Good Morning, Lost!
Are you sure it is that? Are you giving off a more confident vibe when you are with someone versus when you are alone? I think it has more to do with the attitude of men than with whether they are in a committed relationship or not.
Are you sure it is that? Are you giving off a more confident vibe when you are with someone versus when you are alone? I think it has more to do with the attitude of men than with whether they are in a committed relationship or not.
hey venus
I will agree and say this is a gr8 analogy... think about it... the more relaxed, confident and content we are, the more appealing... even when we are single... well I know what would appeal to me more anyway lol.
having said that it is not hard to see how easy it would be to perceive it how lost did... not to say I agree but I do understand it...
they say it's when you least expect it that love finds you... why??... isn't it because when we expect it we are not as chilled out as when we don't... again it's an attitude we project that is read by others... it's attitude that creates a vibe... be it an attitude that attracts or repels and is why I often say in these forums that love is an attitude JMHO
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lostx2: Morning V I think you may be on to something there. When your with someone, you are more relaxed, open and more like yourself. It could be that the other women see you as a fun loving person, they see how much you love your partner. Therefore they have a natural attraction to you and in a way want that for themselves. When you are single, you are more on your gaurd. I sometime wonder if they see a guy at a club and even though he is attractive, they wonder why he's there alone. They might figure that because he's alone there is something wrong with him and hes only out for the 1 night stand. But we will never truely know what anyone else is thinking.
Glad to see this side of things, gives me something to think about. There is two sides to every story and I love seeing both sides.
Glad to see this side of things, gives me something to think about. There is two sides to every story and I love seeing both sides.
your getting good at this lost
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lostx2: Morning V I think you may be on to something there. When your with someone, you are more relaxed, open and more like yourself. It could be that the other women see you as a fun loving person, they see how much you love your partner. Therefore they have a natural attraction to you and in a way want that for themselves. When you are single, you are more on your gaurd. I sometime wonder if they see a guy at a club and even though he is attractive, they wonder why he's there alone. They might figure that because he's alone there is something wrong with him and hes only out for the 1 night stand. But we will never truely know what anyone else is thinking.
Glad to see this side of things, gives me something to think about. There is two sides to every story and I love seeing both sides.
Glad to see this side of things, gives me something to think about. There is two sides to every story and I love seeing both sides.
Marie is right!
It would be fun to experiment. Go to a place you have gone before to meet women and see if you can notice a difference if you shift your attitude back and forth. Like imagine before you go, what it feels like to be desired by a woman completely (the way one does when they are in a relationship), then carry that into the place and see if it attracts women to you. Without having any attachment to an outcome of actually meeting someone, do you feel less nervous or anxious? Sorry, I like to do these kinds of things to help me become more aware of my subconscious or unconscious behaviors. May not be for everyone.
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Venusruled: Marie is right!
It would be fun to experiment. Go to a place you have gone before to meet women and see if you can notice a difference if you shift your attitude back and forth. Like imagine before you go, what it feels like to be desired by a woman completely (the way one does when they are in a relationship), then carry that into the place and see if it attracts women to you. Without having any attachment to an outcome of actually meeting someone, do you feel less nervous or anxious? Sorry, I like to do these kinds of things to help me become more aware of my subconscious or unconscious behaviors. May not be for everyone.
It would be fun to experiment. Go to a place you have gone before to meet women and see if you can notice a difference if you shift your attitude back and forth. Like imagine before you go, what it feels like to be desired by a woman completely (the way one does when they are in a relationship), then carry that into the place and see if it attracts women to you. Without having any attachment to an outcome of actually meeting someone, do you feel less nervous or anxious? Sorry, I like to do these kinds of things to help me become more aware of my subconscious or unconscious behaviors. May not be for everyone.
I never have been back to the club since it's not my scene anyore, however I did try a little excerise on some of my late night shopping trips. Since your post about being more relaxed when you with someone. I have gone into a store late at night (since thats when I'm most active) and the 1st time I went I acted like one of those single guys who is just there to get his frozen dinners, and just kind of kept to myself. I found noone realy noticed me and sometimes even went out of their way to avoid me. The 2nd trip a few days later I tried acting just happy and carefree, like I had no cares in the world and noticed a few more looks my way (and not those strange looks I got before). So I thank you again for your point of view on this, it has helped me out alot. I now understand its all about the attitude you put forth.
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mariespoodles: your getting good at this lost
Thanks Marie, you have also helped me out so much. I wonder how there are so many lovely and smart woman like yourself and Venusruled on here but yet still single? Oh well theres already a thread about that on here I have been following.
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