whats your opinion on this ?? (19)

May 23, 2010 6:03 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
Thelady
TheladyTheladywest wicklow, Wicklow Ireland4 Threads 44 Posts
This is a reply i got when i suggested meeting for a coffee first, before going on a date, just looking for another opinion on it !!!!



"tell u what

forget it ,the reason i dont meert people from this site r any other is because i consider love special,somethin that happens in real life not hiding behiond a computer screen were people can b drained for information r vice versa .
if i want to be employed in a\ new job than perhaps i will meet somweone for coffee ,if however i want love ,i will not confine my criteria r thwere dimensions and put them in a box,not for u r any other weird people who i can judge in to dimensions
but its good to talk
enjoy your date ,hope u find your little tick for your box
sincerely yours
May 23, 2010 6:05 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
Silentlust
SilentlustSilentlustGorey, Wexford Ireland18 Threads 1 Polls 2,774 Posts
Thelady: This is a reply i got when i suggested meeting for a coffee first, before going on a date, just looking for another opinion on it !!!!
"tell u what

forget it ,the reason i dont meert people from this site r any other is because i consider love special,somethin that happens in real life not hiding behiond a computer screen were people can b drained for information r vice versa .
if i want to be employed in a\ new job than perhaps i will meet somweone for coffee ,if however i want love ,i will not confine my criteria r thwere dimensions and put them in a box,not for u r any other weird people who i can judge in to dimensions
but its good to talk
enjoy your date ,hope u find your little tick for your box
sincerely yours


My opinion is the boy ought to be using a spell checker.
May 23, 2010 6:05 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
woods
woodswoodsgalway, Galway Ireland5 Threads 531 Posts
Thelady: This is a reply i got when i suggested meeting for a coffee first, before going on a date, just looking for another opinion on it !!!!
"tell u what

forget it ,the reason i dont meert people from this site r any other is because i consider love special,somethin that happens in real life not hiding behiond a computer screen were people can b drained for information r vice versa .
if i want to be employed in a new job than perhaps i will meet somweone for coffee ,if however i want love ,i will not confine my criteria r thwere dimensions and put them in a box,not for u r any other weird people who i can judge in to dimensions
but its good to talk
enjoy your date ,hope u find your little tick for your box
sincerely yours



rolling on the floor laughing I think you had a lucky escape!
May 23, 2010 6:06 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
FriendlyFeline
FriendlyFelineFriendlyFelineMayo, Ireland18 Threads 2,908 Posts
woods: I think you had a lucky escape!
Yep! I agree 100% Sounds like a nutter.
May 23, 2010 6:06 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
sexydivabella
sexydivabellasexydivabellaDrogheda, Dublin Ireland44 Threads 4 Polls 5,978 Posts
I agree with both lads posts above me thumbs up
move on Lady
he has many many issues and none of them are reading material grin
May 23, 2010 6:08 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
howlingwolf
howlingwolfhowlingwolfWest Cork, Cork Ireland30 Threads 1,218 Posts
Thelady: This is a reply i got when i suggested meeting for a coffee first, before going on a date, just looking for another opinion on it !!!!
"tell u what

forget it ,the reason i dont meert people from this site r any other is because i consider love special,somethin that happens in real life not hiding behiond a computer screen were people can b drained for information r vice versa .
if i want to be employed in a new job than perhaps i will meet somweone for coffee ,if however i want love ,i will not confine my criteria r thwere dimensions and put them in a box,not for u r any other weird people who i can judge in to dimensions
but its good to talk
enjoy your date ,hope u find your little tick for your box
sincerely yours


That sounds like someone who posted a fake profile and backed out when you called their bluff by suggested an actual meeting. You were right to ask to meet for coffee first. It's good to just get a face to face without an obligation to spend a long time with somebody where they might even have difficulty with boundaries.

My feeling is you had your expectations raised and time wasted by a fake. But by the looks of you and your profile you should have no proble on this site or in the real world.

Bon Chance!
May 23, 2010 6:08 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
Silentlust: My opinion is the boy ought to be using a spell checker.
rolling on the floor laughing
May 23, 2010 6:10 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
Thelady: This is a reply i got when i suggested meeting for a coffee first, before going on a date, just looking for another opinion on it !!!!
"tell u what

forget it ,the reason i dont meert people from this site r any other is because i consider love special,somethin that happens in real life not hiding behiond a computer screen were people can b drained for information r vice versa .
if i want to be employed in a new job than perhaps i will meet somweone for coffee ,if however i want love ,i will not confine my criteria r thwere dimensions and put them in a box,not for u r any other weird people who i can judge in to dimensions
but its good to talk
enjoy your date ,hope u find your little tick for your box
sincerely yours
i think you know the answer alreadythumbs up
May 23, 2010 6:11 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
thank god for escaping there...... FREAK
May 23, 2010 6:14 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
royester24
royester24royester24carrickmacross, Monaghan Ireland22 Threads 1 Polls 740 Posts
Thelady: This is a reply i got when i suggested meeting for a coffee first, before going on a date, just looking for another opinion on it !!!!
"tell u what

forget it ,the reason i dont meert people from this site r any other is because i consider love special,somethin that happens in real life not hiding behiond a computer screen were people can b drained for information r vice versa .
if i want to be employed in a\ new job than perhaps i will meet somweone for coffee ,if however i want love ,i will not confine my criteria r thwere dimensions and put them in a box,not for u r any other weird people who i can judge in to dimensions
but its good to talk
enjoy your date ,hope u find your little tick for your box
sincerely yours
i would never write you aletter like thathug kiss
May 23, 2010 6:14 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
James_Pond
James_PondJames_PondDublin, Ireland124 Threads 23 Polls 2,417 Posts
his reply was bang out of order

now maybe, if i can get into the serial killers mind, he would have preferred something a bit more rosemantic for a first date, but like for jaysus sake, if this was the case, why not reply and suggest something else. like a movie. drinks, whatever

Nutter!!
May 23, 2010 6:15 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
Thelady
TheladyTheladywest wicklow, Wicklow Ireland4 Threads 44 Posts
Thanks for that, i thought it very strange too, ah well the joys of it all...hug grin
May 24, 2010 6:02 AM CST whats your opinion on this ??
Girlychick
GirlychickGirlychickDublin, Ireland2 Threads 142 Posts
why is he on a dating site then!
May 24, 2010 7:43 AM CST whats your opinion on this ??
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
howlingwolf: That sounds like someone who posted a fake profile and backed out when you called their bluff by suggested an actual meeting. You were right to ask to meet for coffee first. It's good to just get a face to face without an obligation to spend a long time with somebody where they might even have difficulty with boundaries.

My feeling is you had your expectations raised and time wasted by a fake. But by the looks of you and your profile you should have no proble on this site or in the real world.

Bon Chance!


Good point thumbs up and Ive met this lady - lads shes stunning thumbs up
May 24, 2010 8:30 AM CST whats your opinion on this ??
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
All first dates I had on here were meeting for a coffee because if you dont find the person attractive and there is no chemistry on first meeting you can bid farewell after an hour and it saves spending a long evening with someone you dont see as potential dating material. Can't understand why he has a problem with that. dunno
May 24, 2010 8:34 AM CST whats your opinion on this ??
Girlychick: why is he on a dating site then!
Maybe he think's he is on a job site laugh
May 24, 2010 8:44 AM CST whats your opinion on this ??
Girlychick
GirlychickGirlychickDublin, Ireland2 Threads 142 Posts
possibly!! rolling on the floor laughing
May 24, 2010 1:32 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
Thelady
TheladyTheladywest wicklow, Wicklow Ireland4 Threads 44 Posts
ladylumps: Good point and Ive met this lady - lads shes stunning


That profile is hidden today, i wonder why !!!!

and thanks LL owe you one for that cheers
May 24, 2010 2:55 PM CST whats your opinion on this ??
Mesimarja
MesimarjaMesimarjaDrogheda, Meath Ireland6 Threads 502 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing Good one, Scriobhneoir!

There always has been and always will be some sad losers who become rude if things don't go their way.

I had this reply from a seemingly normal middle aged man, after mailing a few times and then telling him I was not interested in his "offer":


I'd think you'd want to get a life, at your age I would be grabbing anything, looks like you'll be on here for the rest of your days, you must think you were going to live forever like the rest of the idiots like yourself on here


Needless to say he went for a block - after I had stopped laughing laugh
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