failed relationships (87)
royester24: do you think many marraiges and relationships fail
because one person or the other becomes stubborn
refuse to let go of a grudge and find it
hard to show forgiveness. could this play some part
in many separations and failed relationships.
because one person or the other becomes stubborn
refuse to let go of a grudge and find it
hard to show forgiveness. could this play some part
in many separations and failed relationships.
I reckon it's very difficult to pinpoint one thing or another - but certainly I reckon 'communication' is probably paramount.
delamer: I reckon it's very difficult to pinpoint one thing or another - but certainly I reckon 'communication' is probably paramount.
I think most of the break ups are true pure selfishness some people just never appreciate what they already have JMO
L1977C: I think most of the break ups are true pure selfishness some people just never appreciate what they already have JMO
THROUGH
Yes , but ..
I think some folk want to have their cake and eat it two.. and some folk are not prepared to work on a relationship anymore...
just my opinion Im sure everyone has their own ideas on it...
I think some folk want to have their cake and eat it two.. and some folk are not prepared to work on a relationship anymore...
just my opinion Im sure everyone has their own ideas on it...
royester24: do you think many marraiges and relationships fail
because one person or the other becomes stubborn
refuse to let go of a grudge and find it
hard to show forgiveness. could this play some part
in many separations and failed relationships.
because one person or the other becomes stubborn
refuse to let go of a grudge and find it
hard to show forgiveness. could this play some part
in many separations and failed relationships.
No I think many marriages and relationships fail because one person is tired of always doing the forgiving.
Totally agree with you roy you cant live in the past, either forgive or forget then get on with your lives dont hold grudges life is too short
mollymo: No I think many marriages and relationships fail because one person is tired of always doing the forgiving.
very good coment some times its hard to breakdown the wall
thats stops two people comunicating.in the end i found
there is only silence. a person can only do so much
groveling forgiveing and crying. and if we remain
in such a relationship .we end up broken
and striped of all dignity prety much a wreak.
royester24: very good coment some times its hard to breakdown the wall
thats stops two people comunicating.in the end i found
there is only silence. a person can only do so much
groveling forgiveing and crying. and if we remain
in such a relationship .we end up broken
and striped of all dignity prety much a wreak.
thats stops two people comunicating.in the end i found
there is only silence. a person can only do so much
groveling forgiveing and crying. and if we remain
in such a relationship .we end up broken
and striped of all dignity prety much a wreak.
Yes just as I did myself, when I came out of my marriage, after many years of forgiving and trying and tears, I was just that a wreck who had been living her life under a cloud for 14 years.
I am all for forgiveness, any of us can make a mistake but to not learn from that mistake and keep doing the same thing over and over always expecting forgiveness...no that shows a lack of respect for the other party.
mollymo: Yes just as I did myself, when I came out of my marriage, after many years of forgiving and trying and tears, I was just that a wreck who had been living her life under a cloud for 14 years.I am all for forgiveness, any of us can make a mistake but to not learn from that mistake and keep doing the same thing over and over always expecting forgiveness...no that shows a lack of respect for the other party.
yes i agree something to think about yes we cannot
keep repeating the same mistakes and exspect to be forgiven
there has to be true remorse. so it doesnt just become
words that are pointless and without meaning,
i wish it wasn't all that complicated, but i have been there,pride is a big thing,everyone seems on the defence,somebody stop this madness
,i will remain hopeful,at least while i still have the strength
,i will remain hopeful,at least while i still have the strength Validity: i wish it wasn't all that complicated, but i have been there,pride is a big thing,everyone seems on the defence,somebody stop this madness ,i will remain hopeful,at least while i still have the strength
yes pride without any bit of humility
is a rotten thing a sickness in it self
royester24: yes pride without any bit of humility
is a rotten thing a sickness in it self
is a rotten thing a sickness in it self
and that sickness has no place in a true relationship,now all i gotta do is find it
Validity: and that sickness has no place in a true relationship,now all i gotta do is find it
I think marriage was designed at a time when we didn't really live past 40 so it's an unusual situation nowadays. I think a couple need something to fight for to keep them together...initially creating a home and building a family.
I think later when the foot comes off the gas,(I miss the hungry years) they have too much time to think and each can start thinking they deserve better as they notice each other's faults.
Then again, I've never been married so take this post with a pinch of salt!
Godsgift: I think marriage was designed at a time when we didn't really live past 40 so it's an unusual situation nowadays. I think a couple need something to fight for to keep them together...initially creating a home and building a family.
I think later when the foot comes off the gas,(I miss the hungry years) they have too much time to think and each can start thinking they deserve better as they notice each other's faults.
Then again, I've never been married so take this post with a pinch of salt!
I think later when the foot comes off the gas,(I miss the hungry years) they have too much time to think and each can start thinking they deserve better as they notice each other's faults.
Then again, I've never been married so take this post with a pinch of salt!
true words if i ever heard them so true
royester24: do you think many marraiges and relationships fail
because one person or the other becomes stubborn
refuse to let go of a grudge and find it
hard to show forgiveness. could this play some part
in many separations and failed relationships.
because one person or the other becomes stubborn
refuse to let go of a grudge and find it
hard to show forgiveness. could this play some part
in many separations and failed relationships.
Would you mind awfully if I asked a stupid question ...... are you really from monaghan and not from Meath?
royester24: do you think many marraiges and relationships fail
because one person or the other becomes stubborn
refuse to let go of a grudge and find it
hard to show forgiveness. could this play some part
in many separations and failed relationships.
because one person or the other becomes stubborn
refuse to let go of a grudge and find it
hard to show forgiveness. could this play some part
in many separations and failed relationships.
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because one person or the other becomes stubborn
refuse to let go of a grudge and find it
hard to show forgiveness. could this play some part
in many separations and failed relationships.