What have you learned? (114)

Jun 22, 2010 2:47 PM CST What have you learned?
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
I'm learning i can't marry my life to my expectations. Something has to be broken or given up for me to go forward.

I still have to learn what it is that i have to break or give up.
Jun 22, 2010 3:51 PM CST What have you learned?
Martia
MartiaMartiabenalla, Victoria Australia141 Threads 1 Polls 2,888 Posts
Toffeapple: Ahhh - I am just fresh blood on the site - if this one does not work out.....well, I think I will just crawl back under my rock for a while. But at the moment I am feeling pretty good - thanks for the lead Martia!

Have you sold yet?


Dont you dare go under a rock again ..keep going,I learnt so much about the male of the species.Dont ever fall for them first up.It can be done as so many guys are just in dating sites to have fun and walk away without a second glance.
But there are the genuine ones just gotta sort them out.

IN THE MEAN TIME LIVE LEARN AND HAVE FUN.

Have not sold yet. hug
Jun 23, 2010 3:59 AM CST What have you learned?
EliteOne
EliteOneEliteOneBrisbane, Queensland Australia38 Threads 1,590 Posts
dragondog4: I'm learning i can't marry my life to my expectations. Something has to be broken or given up for me to go forward.

I still have to learn what it is that i have to break or give up.


when you do will you share it grin
Jun 23, 2010 6:50 AM CST What have you learned?
Toffeapple
ToffeappleToffeappleCanberra, ACT Australia22 Threads 2 Polls 1,263 Posts
Hey doppelganger, elite, martia, marie, red - everyone! my 3rd date is getter nearer and nearer......

applause cheering banana head banger cheering

Sorry Elite - right off topic - but this is like singing it from the hills kind of thing....blushing

smitten

...and fingers crossed too...
Jun 23, 2010 7:38 AM CST What have you learned?
EliteOne
EliteOneEliteOneBrisbane, Queensland Australia38 Threads 1,590 Posts
Toffeapple: Hey doppelganger, elite, martia, marie, red - everyone! my 3rd date is getter nearer and nearer......



Sorry Elite - right off topic - but this is like singing it from the hills kind of thing....



...and fingers crossed too...
you’ll come crawling back on your hands and knees rolling on the floor laughing

And if you don’t I ll be just as happy for you and your new love. kiss kiss kiss
Jun 23, 2010 1:54 PM CST What have you learned?
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
EliteOne: when you do will you share it


Not likely. By then i'll probably be either to old to care or mentally licenced. No one will care. sigh laugh
Jun 23, 2010 1:57 PM CST What have you learned?
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
Toffeapple: Hey doppelganger, elite, martia, marie, red - everyone! my 3rd date is getter nearer and nearer......



Sorry Elite - right off topic - but this is like singing it from the hills kind of thing....



...and fingers crossed too...


Hey your coming in a little fuzzy. Try the next hill see if its any clearer. laugh

Good luck to you Toffee. May it happen the way you want it to. teddybear
Jun 25, 2010 6:40 AM CST What have you learned?
Toffeapple
ToffeappleToffeappleCanberra, ACT Australia22 Threads 2 Polls 1,263 Posts
Hmmmmm.....he rang today - just wants to do dinner tomorrow night, not movie as well, as he has 'things to do' in the afternoon - god I hate that!!!

I think that is male speak for 'I might not want to spend as much time with you as I thought/I am having second thoughts now'.

sigh

Feeling a little unsure now.....moping
Jun 25, 2010 5:35 PM CST What have you learned?
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
Toffeapple: Hmmmmm.....he rang today - just wants to do dinner tomorrow night, not movie as well, as he has 'things to do' in the afternoon - god I hate that!!!

I think that is male speak for 'I might not want to spend as much time with you as I thought/I am having second thoughts now'.



Feeling a little unsure now.....


dont think too hard about it... it could literally be that he has alot on and really wants to see you, so he's kinda fitting you in.

teddybear
Jun 25, 2010 7:48 PM CST What have you learned?
Quest4SoulMate
Quest4SoulMateQuest4SoulMateMelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 83 Posts
Toff, enjoy the feelings you have, like someone said he might just not have time.


The crawling under the rock, I'm sure the rock will love it but think of all the other gents...


Anyway good luck, hope it works out well


best feeling hey !!!
Jun 25, 2010 9:43 PM CST What have you learned?
dragonprince
dragonprincedragonprinceTablelands, Queensland Australia7 Threads 60 Posts
yes a very interesting thread Elite,

2010 has been a very interesting learning curve for me, I have learned that most things people say have two meanings, also that I wear my heart on my sleeve a bit to much and tend to care a lot for people who come into my life, I have been hurt more than once and I have blamed myself for this, but it is not my wrong doing and im not going to change my integrity morals or my caring nature, because when that special lady comes into my life I want to be the best man I can be, so what I thought was a negitive is a big positive for me.
In the end it will only matter to me.

Live Love and Laugh Always
Jun 26, 2010 6:41 AM CST What have you learned?
redozichick
redozichickredozichickBrisbane, Queensland Australia2 Threads 3,934 Posts
Toffeapple: Hmmmmm.....he rang today - just wants to do dinner tomorrow night, not movie as well, as he has 'things to do' in the afternoon - god I hate that!!!

I think that is male speak for 'I might not want to spend as much time with you as I thought/I am having second thoughts now'.



Feeling a little unsure now.....
I believe what he says is true... I think if a man isn't interested in seeing you.... he won'twink
Just enjoy the time you get with himkiss
Jun 26, 2010 7:14 AM CST What have you learned?
Toffeapple
ToffeappleToffeappleCanberra, ACT Australia22 Threads 2 Polls 1,263 Posts
Thanks so much guys for your positive spin on things - I went to the date feeling much more relaxed because of it and we had a lovely time. And I found out why he did not want to do the movie as well - ready for this!? He was watching repeats of the soccer!!!

Ok, so he is a pommie...BUT what..!????

Oh well, he saved himself by being honest about it and paying for dinner yet again! And he is so sweet - so I will forgive him ....mumbling

But thanks again guys - your kind and insightful words really did help me along to having a much better evening.

And I get to see him again! yay

bouquet
Jun 26, 2010 6:27 PM CST What have you learned?
redozichick
redozichickredozichickBrisbane, Queensland Australia2 Threads 3,934 Posts
Toffeapple: Thanks so much guys for your positive spin on things - I went to the date feeling much more relaxed because of it and we had a lovely time. And I found out why he did not want to do the movie as well - ready for this!? He was watching repeats of the soccer!!!

Ok, so he is a pommie...BUT what..!????

Oh well, he saved himself by being honest about it and paying for dinner yet again! And he is so sweet - so I will forgive him ....

But thanks again guys - your kind and insightful words really did help me along to having a much better evening.

And I get to see him again!
Watching the soccerwine it's a guy thing...they love their sports, nothing can tear them awaylaugh

I'm glad you had a good time... told you it wouldn't be about youbouquet Just go with the flow girlapplause
Jun 26, 2010 8:34 PM CST What have you learned?
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
Toffeapple: Thanks so much guys for your positive spin on things - I went to the date feeling much more relaxed because of it and we had a lovely time. And I found out why he did not want to do the movie as well - ready for this!? He was watching repeats of the soccer!!!

Ok, so he is a pommie...BUT what..!????

Oh well, he saved himself by being honest about it and paying for dinner yet again! And he is so sweet - so I will forgive him ....

But thanks again guys - your kind and insightful words really did help me along to having a much better evening.

And I get to see him again!


Im sorry but if you want to date a Pommie guy, then you are going to have to get used to the soccer grin Be afraid .. the ones I know its like a religion !!

Really its not such a big deal, at least he's interested in something.

Im glad that you had a good date, and Im really glad that its all starting to work out for you two teddybear
Jun 26, 2010 9:47 PM CST What have you learned?
Martia
MartiaMartiabenalla, Victoria Australia141 Threads 1 Polls 2,888 Posts
Toffeapple: Thanks so much guys for your positive spin on things - I went to the date feeling much more relaxed because of it and we had a lovely time. And I found out why he did not want to do the movie as well - ready for this!? He was watching repeats of the soccer!!!

Ok, so he is a pommie...BUT what..!????

Oh well, he saved himself by being honest about it and paying for dinner yet again! And he is so sweet - so I will forgive him ....

But thanks again guys - your kind and insightful words really did help me along to having a much better evening.

And I get to see him again!



Oh Toff you are lucky that he is not down the pup every night and its good to follow a sport keeps them out of trouble.


So he is a pom dunno look at it this way you are getting the pure breed not some watered down versian like an Au.oopshole hole hole hole grin grin grin

Sorry guys feeling a bit cheeky todayrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing teddybear
Jun 26, 2010 9:48 PM CST What have you learned?
Martia
MartiaMartiabenalla, Victoria Australia141 Threads 1 Polls 2,888 Posts
PUB PUB PUB.blushing
Jun 26, 2010 11:20 PM CST What have you learned?
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
Martia: Oh Toff you are lucky that he is not down the pup every night and its good to follow a sport keeps them out of trouble.So he is a pom look at it this way you are getting the pure breed not some watered down versian like an Au.oops

Sorry guys feeling a bit cheeky today


Ya cheeky bugga wink

theres nothing wrong with us heinz variety Aussies.... I've got English, Irish and Scottish ... laugh
Jun 27, 2010 2:55 AM CST What have you learned?
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
Shell225: Ya cheeky bugga

theres nothing wrong with us heinz variety Aussies.... I've got English, Irish and Scottish ...


If ya have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all!

So I am biting my tongue frustrated
Jun 27, 2010 2:57 AM CST What have you learned?
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
Oooooooppss

Shell, that wasn't meant to be a quote on your reply rolling on the floor laughing


I was more referring to being pissed off the mankind laugh
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