Does any one care (132)
DJMcCNorth Nowra, New South Wales Australia308 PostsWOW the bashfull boy routine............I havent seen that done in ages
benny86: You think I haven’t tried that I just freeze up when I try to talk with a lady or woman I never met before but I don’t know why exactly it not like I can’t talk to a lady.
I guess I am afraid that she won’t want me also I have terrible luck I always seem to pick the ones that are taken or just there for a drink and not looking for fun.
Ladies any tips on what I should be looking for to increase my chances in finding a single woman looking for fun.
I guess I am afraid that she won’t want me also I have terrible luck I always seem to pick the ones that are taken or just there for a drink and not looking for fun.
Ladies any tips on what I should be looking for to increase my chances in finding a single woman looking for fun.
I think you have hijacked your own thread by putting ya
in own mouth
Didn't thread start off looking for nice & caring girl
tarnsnz: I think you have hijacked your own thread by putting ya
in own mouthDidn't thread start off looking for nice & caring girl
in own mouthDidn't thread start off looking for nice & caring girl
Hmmmm I just think frustration is setting in
I’m just a normal guy looking for the chance to be happy again but so far I feel like I’m 
I just want a fair go is that too hard to ask for.
I just want a fair go is that too hard to ask for.
The Problem is Benny your talking and not listening.
Been there. Still partially there. You have been given good advice for free and going by responses ignored it.
Your on your own. Whilst your in this mood your better off on your own.
But it looks like only experience will learn ya.
Been there. Still partially there. You have been given good advice for free and going by responses ignored it.
Your on your own. Whilst your in this mood your better off on your own.
But it looks like only experience will learn ya.
dragondog4: The Problem is Benny your talking and not listening.
Been there. Still partially there. You have been given good advice for free and going by responses ignored it.
Your on your own. Whilst your in this mood your better off on your own.
But it looks like only experience will learn ya.
Been there. Still partially there. You have been given good advice for free and going by responses ignored it.
Your on your own. Whilst your in this mood your better off on your own.
But it looks like only experience will learn ya.
Some advice was good which I have taken on board already, but the rest was just useless advice that I already knew, the rest was even borderline vindictive at times, which was useless to me.
I want new advice that a switched on person of which I am would not work out.
That is the problem I think too much general advice is given and not enough tailored advice that will really help the person with their problem.
Well Ben we all have differnt experiences in life and that is what we fall back on.
So what you are asking of us is rather unfair.Has it ever occured to you that the question you ask from us can only be answered by yourself.
To be honest I think that you are looking for someone to blame and that is not fair.You asked the question we answered as best we could !if that was not outcome you wanted or expected its not our fault is it??
Please think about that!and maybe the solution might just come to you! you are the one that knows yourself best as you seem to march to the beat of your own drum.JMO
So what you are asking of us is rather unfair.Has it ever occured to you that the question you ask from us can only be answered by yourself.
To be honest I think that you are looking for someone to blame and that is not fair.You asked the question we answered as best we could !if that was not outcome you wanted or expected its not our fault is it??
Please think about that!and maybe the solution might just come to you! you are the one that knows yourself best as you seem to march to the beat of your own drum.JMO
Hell! Ive given myself a headache now 
DJMcC: WOW the bashfull boy routine............I havent seen that done in ages
Yep your right it's a con job Martia: Hell! Ive given myself a headache now
I have heaps of jokes about headaches.Please don't mention them, you'll leave yourself wide open
No I don't care and I have a headache too 
tarnsnz: No I don't care and I have a headache too
Would you like a glass of water and a couple of asprinawesome71: Would you like a glass of water and a couple of asprin
Been there, done that, think I am actually coming down with something as not feeling to good and really cold
benny86: Some advice was good which I have taken on board already, but the rest was just useless advice that I already knew, the rest was even borderline vindictive at times, which was useless to me.
I want new advice that a switched on person of which I am would not work out.
That is the problem I think too much general advice is given and not enough tailored advice that will really help the person with their problem.
I want new advice that a switched on person of which I am would not work out.
That is the problem I think too much general advice is given and not enough tailored advice that will really help the person with their problem.
I don't get it Mr. Benny, I sincerely recommend you to get the book "In the meantime - Finding yourself and the love you want" from Jyanda Vanzant. It's also available as Audio which certainly works better for ADHD people like us
. Read the book and then read it again and again and again until you really got it and you're a whole, complete being who will laugh about this thread should you even ever bother to remember.In the meantime I would change your profile
and make friends on here that help you to evolve, share some fun and company.
sxc666: No relationship will work until you heal wounds from your Ex. Spend more time getting in touch with yourself before heading out looking for someone to nurse your feelings back to health.
well said, take your time, recover , reaccess, move on, and keep smiling :)
tarnsnz: Been there, done that, think I am actually coming down with something as not feeling to good and really cold
ah Dr awesome says drink plenty of water plenty of Panadol and off to bed
Heres something, to think over Benny ...
The common denominator in all your failed relationships is YOU. You were there every time things went pear shaped.
Thats the thing the rest of us have realised and work on ... 'ourselves'. Stop blaming others and start taking responsibility for yourself and your actions.
no animals were injured in the learning of this lesson, or the sharing of this bad advice
The common denominator in all your failed relationships is YOU. You were there every time things went pear shaped.
Thats the thing the rest of us have realised and work on ... 'ourselves'. Stop blaming others and start taking responsibility for yourself and your actions.
no animals were injured in the learning of this lesson, or the sharing of this bad advice
Shell225: Heres something, to think over Benny ...The common denominator in all your failed relationships is YOU. You were there every time things went pear shaped. Thats the thing the rest of us have realised and work on ... 'ourselves'. Stop blaming others and start taking responsibility for yourself and your actions.no animals were injured in the learning of this lesson, or the sharing of this bad advice
Very wise advice Shell
Shell225: Heres something, to think over Benny ...The common denominator in all your failed relationships is YOU. You were there every time things went pear shaped. Thats the thing the rest of us have realised and work on ... 'ourselves'. Stop blaming others and start taking responsibility for yourself and your actions.
Yea I know we all have our problems in life and within ourselves. No one is perfect and any one that does think that is up themselves, I am the first to say I have my flaws and problems I do not need that pointed out to me thank you shell.
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