Does any one care (132)

Jul 26, 2010 5:29 AM CST Does any one care
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
daydreamer48: I think if it was me i would make shore i was over it before i moved on the last thing your new partner wants is you thinking about your last women in your life. MOVE ON AND GET OVER HER
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Jul 26, 2010 5:33 AM CST Does any one care
Martia
MartiaMartiabenalla, Victoria Australia141 Threads 1 Polls 2,888 Posts
I think everybody has gone to bed dunno confused
Jul 26, 2010 5:35 AM CST Does any one care
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
Martia: I think everybody has gone to bed
or deep in thought laugh
Jul 26, 2010 6:22 AM CST Does any one care
mick64
mick64mick64gold coast, Queensland Australia10 Threads 175 Posts
Wanderer69: I was going to refer him to a psych.....but then again maybe they said next please as well.

Benny

We all have our sad stories....once you get a few miles on the clock it seems like everybody you meet will have some baggage...

That lovely girl has a tribe of kids... or a psycho ex or won't....I think you get the story.

Me it was simple... we spent 20 years getting to where we wanted to go and then when you look out you realise it was all for what...No meaning in your life and no love for the wife.

Here we are looking to the future...We can't fix the past and we have little control over the future but right now we get to have the fun.. ;-b

Yes we all struggle but we are not here to dwell on it ;-D

Having said that I am going to get a glass of ice and fill it with a single malt.....Then life will be complete...

;-D

Its simple, Chicks don't dig sad blokes. Hope this helped




wanted to post something here but unsure if i should?
Jul 26, 2010 6:24 AM CST Does any one care
redozichick
redozichickredozichickBrisbane, Queensland Australia2 Threads 3,934 Posts
mick64: wanted to post something here but unsure if i should?
whydunno are you scaredlaugh
Jul 26, 2010 6:30 AM CST Does any one care
mick64
mick64mick64gold coast, Queensland Australia10 Threads 175 Posts
redozichick: why are you scared



yes, i unfortunately is like benny, cant let go and cant move on, but it hasnt been since new yrs, its been so much longer and it has ruined me. i like benny want a relationship but reading these posts it has finally hit me , i can never let go so therefor nevr be with someone and never be happy. yes i am one of those guys that wants a crutch.
been here a month and have caused some probs with other posters with my pain, and listening to people i realise no-one wants to hear a whinger like medoh
with out even fully realising it, i am a "poor me" guy.



what a knuckle headhelp
Jul 26, 2010 6:38 AM CST Does any one care
redozichick
redozichickredozichickBrisbane, Queensland Australia2 Threads 3,934 Posts
mick64: yes, i unfortunately is like benny, cant let go and cant move on, but it hasnt been since new yrs, its been so much longer and it has ruined me. i like benny want a relationship but reading these posts it has finally hit me , i can never let go so therefor nevr be with someone and never be happy. yes i am one of those guys that wants a crutch.
been here a month and have caused some probs with other posters with my pain, and listening to people i realise no-one wants to hear a whinger like me
with out even fully realising it, i am a "poor me" guy.
what a knuckle head
you are just crying out for help not whinginghug
I broke up with my bf of 12 and a half years and still loved him, it's been two years in August and I still kinda feel like I'm not ready to date... I thought I could never let go of him but time is healing.... you will get there... you won't hold onto her foreverkiss
Jul 26, 2010 6:40 AM CST Does any one care
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
mick64: yes, i unfortunately is like benny, cant let go and cant move on, but it hasnt been since new yrs, its been so much longer and it has ruined me. i like benny want a relationship but reading these posts it has finally hit me , i can never let go so therefor nevr be with someone and never be happy. yes i am one of those guys that wants a crutch.
been here a month and have caused some probs with other posters with my pain, and listening to people i realise no-one wants to hear a whinger like me
with out even fully realising it, i am a "poor me" guy.
what a knuckle head


comfort
Jul 26, 2010 6:42 AM CST Does any one care
mick64
mick64mick64gold coast, Queensland Australia10 Threads 175 Posts
redozichick: you are just crying out for help not whinging
I broke up with my bf of 12 and a half years and still loved him, it's been two years in August and I still kinda feel like I'm not ready to date... I thought I could never let go of him but time is healing.... you will get there... you won't hold onto her forever


may 1993, my first, last and only. i now know i will never let go or be free...... i hold onto the anger and the pain and the sorry, but i still love her so much....i know it makes no sense to you , because it makes absolutely no sense to me.
you beter check my threads, i am not a popular man and have been very angry here.
but thankyou for the nice thoughtssad flower
Jul 26, 2010 6:47 AM CST Does any one care
redozichick
redozichickredozichickBrisbane, Queensland Australia2 Threads 3,934 Posts
mick64: may 1993, my first, last and only. i now know i will never let go or be free...... i hold onto the anger and the pain and the sorry, but i still love her so much....i know it makes no sense to you , because it makes absolutely no sense to me.
you beter check my threads, i am not a popular man and have been very angry here.
but thankyou for the nice thoughts
I have read your angry threadslaugh
well Mick...you need to let go if you wanna find someone and be happy again...you can do ithug
Jul 31, 2010 9:42 AM CST Does any one care
benny86
benny86benny86Port macquarie, New South Wales Australia7 Threads 2 Polls 51 Posts
mick64: yes, i unfortunately is like benny, cant let go and cant move on, but it hasnt been since new yrs, its been so much longer and it has ruined me. i like benny want a relationship but reading these posts it has finally hit me , i can never let go so therefor nevr be with someone and never be happy. yes i am one of those guys that wants a crutch.
been here a month and have caused some probs with other posters with my pain, and listening to people i realise no-one wants to hear a whinger like me
with out even fully realising it, i am a "poor me" guy.
what a knuckle head


I will move on and I hope there’s someone out there for me I don’t want to live in the past wondering what I did wrong when I know I didn’t do anything wrong it was all the ex's fault it failed.
Jul 31, 2010 10:02 AM CST Does any one care
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
benny86: I will move on and I hope there’s someone out there for me I don’t want to live in the past wondering what I did wrong when I know I didn’t do anything wrong it was all the ex's fault it failed.
right now you have done something wrong by blaming your ex. shifting blame will never make you grow as a person….JMO Important lesson is in recognizing your faults and respecting the other person decision.

moving away from the subject is your first step towards recovery
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