Men and Children (70)
wanyo1: i got threathened by the kids daddy to stay away from mammy
wat if the daddy aint around and never will be a part of the childs life like my situation..
Orla2010: A year.
I felt like a muppet to be honest.
I felt like a muppet to be honest.
well all i can say is you'll know the signs the next time. as they say live and learn and theres no way your the only one this has happerned to so don't beat yourself up bout it
chuckles25: wat if the daddy aint around and never will be a part of the childs life like my situation..
thats another issue isn't it. i'm sorry to hear that hun
Alpha01: Ah god. This gets better and better.
Galwaygirl, these guys have just promoted kids to every guy out there.
Galwaygirl, these guys have just promoted kids to every guy out there.
Yeah Alpha lol...I'll have no problems now haha
wanyo1: thats another issue isn't it. i'm sorry to hear that hun
well i aint sorry
im at no loss anyways...
chuckles25: well i aint sorry im at no loss anyways...
well thats good, once yourself and the little one are happy isn't that the main thing
wanyo1: jes this is a tender subject, i agree with you fully on that. have seen it all before
it is a tender subject mainly cos single mothers get the brunt of it even though there are single dads out there....most men dont look past the fact your bringing up kids on ypur own when really most single mothers are strong independant reliable caring and so on ...
L1977C: it is a tender subject mainly cos single mothers get the brunt of it even though there are single dads out there....most men dont look past the fact your bringing up kids on ypur own when really most single mothers are strong independant reliable caring and so on ...
well you have to be don't you. i have no kids so i've no right to be throwin opinions at this. but i do know i'm quite fond of a lady with a 6 year old. only thing is she only wants to be friends righht now
and she is as you say "very independant"Galwaygirl1970: Are a lot of men put off by women having kids? I have one son aged 7 who goes to his dad every wednesday and every 2nd weekend so I do have some sort of 'life'....but have been chatting to a couple of blokes on here since I joined up last week and as soon as I mention that I have my son most nights, they seem to disappear.
Opinions please.
GG
You make it clear in the wording in your profile that your son lives with you but in the section on the right it says "lives with me sometimes"Opinions please.
GG
This might be confusing some guys.
If a guy is put off by you having a son then it's his loss and be glad he disappears before you meet and get more involved.
FriendlyFeline: You make it clear in the wording in your profile that your son lives with you but in the section on the right it says "lives with me sometimes"
This might be confusing some guys.
If a guy is put off by you having a son then it's his loss and be glad he disappears before you meet and get more involved.
This might be confusing some guys.
If a guy is put off by you having a son then it's his loss and be glad he disappears before you meet and get more involved.
I put that up as he is gone every wednesday and every 2nd weekend, so its not full time....is there another option I can change to?
Galwaygirl1970: Ok, profile edited a small bit so, it did come across confusing
honestly i dont think it matters what you say about how often you have your child the guy is either interested or not
L1977C: honestly i dont think it matters what you say about how often you have your child the guy is either interested or not
true i think some guys just use kids as an excuse to end itGalwaygirl1970: Are a lot of men put off by women having kids? I have one son aged 7 who goes to his dad every wednesday and every 2nd weekend so I do have some sort of 'life'....but have been chatting to a couple of blokes on here since I joined up last week and as soon as I mention that I have my son most nights, they seem to disappear.
Opinions please.
GG
Opinions please.
GG
Ive dated women with children before so it wouldnt bother me
Would prefer to meet someone special and start my own family tho
L1977C: honestly i dont think it matters what you say about how often you have your child the guy is either interested or not
Yep, I'll agree with that, seen it before, many times.
As for me, kids don't scare me at all, although sometimes their mothers do.
kidatheart: Yep, I'll agree with that, seen it before, many times. As for me, kids don't scare me at all, although sometimes their mothers do.
funny think Ive heard that one before
I would see having kids as a bonus it wouldnt bother me and if the fella was responsable and looked after them and not blame the other partner I would say he is a very good catch. Kids helps a man grow up some men dont and if if they didnt rise up to their responsability I wouldnt give them the time of day. Kids arent just for Christmas lol.
Galwaygirl1970: Are a lot of men put off by women having kids? I have one son aged 7 who goes to his dad every wednesday and every 2nd weekend so I do have some sort of 'life'....but have been chatting to a couple of blokes on here since I joined up last week and as soon as I mention that I have my son most nights, they seem to disappear.
Opinions please.
GG
Opinions please.
GG
i have no problem with kids ,,well am a big one my self
but the daddy giving you the bad eye is not very nice ,, happened me twice,,in the finish that was the reason it ended,,
i take my hat off to you all 
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no i don't suppose i'd be too keen on it myseld
f but when things are over people have to move on