Men and Children (70)
Iv my kids 7 days a week so its hard to fit dating in but hey if Im not worth the effort to work around that then theyre not worth having around..
In response to: Are a lot of men put off by women having kids? I have one son aged 7 who goes to his dad every wednesday and every 2nd weekend so I do have some sort of 'life'....but have been chatting to a couple of blokes on here since I joined up last week and as soon as I mention that I have my son most nights, they seem to disappear.
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i get the same, im in the same boat as you,
to be honest i tink the only option to go for is to try find someone who has kids because they know the whole routine of how it goes, it is hard though,
but to the OP i dont find im put off but then again i can relate so i dont think my opinion counts on this subject,
hope u find someone
L1977C: Iv my kids 7 days a week so its hard to fit dating in but hey if Im not worth the effort to work around that then theyre not worth having around..
I'm a realist and it doesn't bother me in the slightest. And kids have some great stuff to play with nowadays.
Galwaygirl1970: Are a lot of men put off by women having kids? I have one son aged 7 who goes to his dad every wednesday and every 2nd weekend so I do have some sort of 'life'....but have been chatting to a couple of blokes on here since I joined up last week and as soon as I mention that I have my son most nights, they seem to disappear.
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fully depends really doesn't it, if u like the girl enough kids shouldn't be a problem. one defo isn't a prob anyway. but i've come across mummys where the daddy can be a probem if u get my meaning
No problem with it myself.
I must admit, when I first joined, I did skip the people who had kids when I was looking around till I remembered that one of my best friends has a kid and I wouldn't expect anyone to treat HER differently. In fact, I'd be openly hostile if anyone did.
It makes it harder, sure. There's no calls of "lets meet now". A bit more preplanning is involved but like L said. If someone likes YOU then they'll respect you enough to know that they won't come first. The kids will always come first and maybe one day, you can work yourself up to second place.
Some people don't mind the extra effort if the girl is worth it.
I must admit, when I first joined, I did skip the people who had kids when I was looking around till I remembered that one of my best friends has a kid and I wouldn't expect anyone to treat HER differently. In fact, I'd be openly hostile if anyone did.
It makes it harder, sure. There's no calls of "lets meet now". A bit more preplanning is involved but like L said. If someone likes YOU then they'll respect you enough to know that they won't come first. The kids will always come first and maybe one day, you can work yourself up to second place.
Some people don't mind the extra effort if the girl is worth it.
wanyo1: fully depends really doesn't it, if u like the girl enough kids shouldn't be a problem. one defo isn't a prob anyway. but i've come across mummys where the daddy can be a probem if u get my meaning
I had a very bad experience with a guy who had two kids by an ex-partner. He ended up sleeping with her a few times behind my back. I was gutted
Godsgift: I'm a realist and it doesn't bother me in the slightest. And kids have some great stuff to play with nowadays.
Never thought of that. You're a genius!!At last, an excuse to wander around Smyths!
It wouldnt bother me at all, i cant see why it would really, unless a person didnt want any themselves that is
Galwaygirl1970: Are a lot of men put off by women having kids? I have one son aged 7 who goes to his dad every wednesday and every 2nd weekend so I do have some sort of 'life'....but have been chatting to a couple of blokes on here since I joined up last week and as soon as I mention that I have my son most nights, they seem to disappear.
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So far so good for you. I suspect as a young Mum you`ll have little time for guys who cant, wont or have challenges around dating a women with kids. There are a lot of guys on here who do have kids and understand the love, joy and committment. If they disappear, relish in it
and hold out for the good un. They are there....here even 
Alpha01: Never thought of that. You're a genius!!
At last, an excuse to wander around Smyths!
At last, an excuse to wander around Smyths!
and dont forget ball pits and bouncing castles
wanyo1: and trampolines and dipping pools
the list goes on
its like re-livin your child hood, keep ya young at heart
Orla2010: Yeah, it hurt like hell. I felt so cheated..... and I was ashamed too ... I felt like maybe people thought that it was because of something I did or didn't do that he ended up going back to her
I have BIGTIME trust issues now!
I have BIGTIME trust issues now!
how long were you with the guy. it happens a lot with people goin back to ex's. i've done it myself but then not while with another girl.
i'm sure it had nothing to do with you
wanyo1: how long were you with the guy. it happens a lot with people goin back to ex's. i've done it myself but then not while with another girl.
i'm sure it had nothing to do with you
i'm sure it had nothing to do with you
A year.
I felt like a muppet to be honest.
Galwaygirl1970: Are a lot of men put off by women having kids? I have one son aged 7 who goes to his dad every wednesday and every 2nd weekend so I do have some sort of 'life'....but have been chatting to a couple of blokes on here since I joined up last week and as soon as I mention that I have my son most nights, they seem to disappear.
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At least you found out at the beginning!
trouble1: the list goes on
its like re-livin your child hood, keep ya young at heart
its like re-livin your child hood, keep ya young at heart
Ah god. This gets better and better.
Galwaygirl, these guys have just promoted kids to every guy out there.
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