tainogirlOPTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
Abram: I am yet to find, love a lady that could ever live without the American necessities, keeping up with the Jones's. Have worked with, lived with, married, and assisted ladies immigate to America, and this place is a f---ing decease built by those killing America, its work in its Truths.
Okaaay you kinda lost me after you helping out all these ladies, don't get the rest of what you're talking about.
mbcasey: I am on disability and women are not comfortable with my situation.
I understand the reality of getting the bills paid, etc. but it would not deter me from true love if a woman was poor. We would find a way to make it work out.
tainogirl: Okaaay you kinda lost me after you helping out all these ladies, don't get the rest of what you're talking about.
I have watched, worked with, and lived with, in neighborhoods of immigants, has well as in their home lands. The American society completely, its structure, completely removes that family love they had when in their homelands. While they still love, will do anything for their families, American society creates a cold outer shell, and they mainly use it for what they can get. It is not the ladies fault, but is our cold society that has been created of Americas social programs that give everyone a hands off attitude.
I was the same way before suffering some disabilities, but I learned real quick that I would need to submit to the discriminatory practices of its programs to enjoy its gifts. Americans can see all the changes in housing facilities, structural accessabilities, and it allows them to drive on by with the hollow satisfaction they paid their taxes. A system set up by a political party to kill the compassion of our society, and everybody only thinks of themselves, and what they can get.
tainogirlOPTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
Abram: I have watched, worked with, and lived with, in neighborhoods of immigants, has well as in their home lands. The American society completely, its structure, completely removes that family love they had when in their homelands. While they still love, will do anything for their families, American society creates a cold outer shell, and they mainly use it for what they can get. It is not the ladies fault, but is our cold society that has been created of Americas social programs that give everyone a hands off attitude.
I was the same way before suffering some disabilities, but I learned real quick that I would need to submit to the discriminatory practices of its programs to enjoy its gifts. Americans can see all the changes in housing facilities, structural accessabilities, and it allows them to drive on by with the hollow satisfaction they paid their taxes. A system set up by a political party to kill the compassion of our society, and everybody only thinks of themselves, and what they can get.
Okay, but my question is after having experienced all this would a woman's financial status affect your choice of woman for a relationship.
Realistically from the threads i have read, the man has the money the job etc.
Then comes a thread that is said to be a complete mirror image with the added twists, one person has no job no money etc.
I would say it would be up to the individuals involved, I have in the past taken people into my home that i have fed,cleaned up after paid all the housing costs and utilities with no request or acceptance to help with the finances. just because they were friends or acquaintances that needed help as long as they are willing to help themselves I have helped anyone and everyone that has asked...
Sometimes in life you don't have to live high on the hog so to speak to be happy, its good morals and ethics that sometimes matter the most, Life is a learning experience, sometimes you learn a lot yourself just by helping other people, in the end I will be taking the same thing out of this world as i brought into it... money wont mean diddly squat...
so i would say doesn't matter if she is rich or poor,as long as happiness prevails
tainogirl: Okay, but my question is after having experienced all this would a woman's financial status affect your choice of woman for a relationship.
Financial status is the furthest thing from my thoughts. I've lived in the Amazon with a love, no running water, no personal transportation, and open air dwellings. Some of the very best days of my life.
I've seen some threads which speak about how women seem to gauge a man by his wallet, but what about men? I know the song talks about a woman saying that love without money can't work for her but how do the guys feel? If you're a man accustomed to a certain standard of living are you willing for the sake of love to take a step down(or perhaps several steps down)from your accustomed way of living to be with a woman who is piss poor and would have little means to contribute in a big way financially. Realistically how far would you go for the sake of love? How much does a woman's financial status matter to you? Can love truly conquer all?
I don't know about other guys but I don't care how well off my dates are, I date women because I like them not their wallet.
I've seen some threads which speak about how women seem to gauge a man by his wallet, but what about men? I know the song talks about a woman saying that love without money can't work for her but how do the guys feel? If you're a man accustomed to a certain standard of living are you willing for the sake of love to take a step down(or perhaps several steps down)from your accustomed way of living to be with a woman who is piss poor and would have little means to contribute in a big way financially. Realistically how far would you go for the sake of love? How much does a woman's financial status matter to you? Can love truly conquer all?
I like that program, The Secret Millionaire, or whatever its called..
When a millionaire business person takes on the guise of a financially poor person to experience the life style, if you like..
I think that would be a good idea as regards online dating; that seems to be a perfect way of weeding out the gold diggers from the genuine..
tainogirlOPTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
night_whispers50: Realistically from the threads i have read, the man has the money the job etc.
Then comes a thread that is said to be a complete mirror image with the added twists, one person has no job no money etc.
I would say it would be up to the individuals involved, I have in the past taken people into my home that i have fed,cleaned up after paid all the housing costs and utilities with no request or acceptance to help with the finances. just because they were friends or acquaintances that needed help as long as they are willing to help themselves I have helped anyone and everyone that has asked...
Sometimes in life you don't have to live high on the hog so to speak to be happy, its good morals and ethics that sometimes matter the most, Life is a learning experience, sometimes you learn a lot yourself just by helping other people, in the end I will be taking the same thing out of this world as i brought into it... money wont mean diddly squat...
so i would say doesn't matter if she is rich or poor,as long as happiness prevails
So if I understand you correctly no money to doesn't equal no love.
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