Friends with the ex... (29)

Jul 19, 2010 4:59 PM CST Friends with the ex...
Alpha01
Alpha01Alpha01Wexford, Ireland24 Threads 2 Polls 2,497 Posts
L1977C: mayb it is possible but wonder does it cause problems if one of you has a new partner.
True. I would g about as far as answering a question or popping over for 2 mins.... maybe. But that fades out. Especially when you meet someone else. Wouldn't go for dinner or drinks with an ex. Or even meet them at all after a while. But that's just me.
Jul 19, 2010 5:08 PM CST Friends with the ex...
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
ladylumps: we've been planning it all night, we have the paddling pool out back filled with raspberry jelly for the fight later - sorry I couldnt get the strawberry one N


Chocolate sauce would do! wow wow
Jul 19, 2010 6:21 PM CST Friends with the ex...
foxyhobnobo
foxyhobnobofoxyhobnoboCork, Ireland39 Threads 1 Polls 1,330 Posts
skyblue43: Is it possible to be platonic friends with an ex? I don't mean the 2 or 3 dates ex. Lol. For arguments sake over 1 year. Could they go for a drink or a meal without problems?


i am soon with one... he has a broken heart over a previous relationship and he's come to me for comfort.. its weird as i dumped him but all my exs have come back to me as in made contact more then once after we broke up.. but ya my ex that im meeting up with soon has only interest in been friends and bascially wants a shoulder to cry on.. i love when people come to me for help or guidance no matter what they had done to me in the past.. all will be forgiven no point holding a grudge with someone your whole life cool
Jul 19, 2010 6:30 PM CST Friends with the ex...
L1977C
L1977CL1977Cdublin, Dublin Ireland8 Threads 3,219 Posts
I can say hand on heart why would i want an ex as a friend who needs enemies with friends like that.theres usually a bloody good reason they became an ex..
Jul 19, 2010 6:31 PM CST Friends with the ex...
Barizmo
BarizmoBarizmoDublin, Ireland2 Threads 27 Posts
Pend on how much you like her.
Jul 19, 2010 6:47 PM CST Friends with the ex...
MRMAGIC52
MRMAGIC52MRMAGIC52kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland6 Threads 1 Polls 69 Posts
skyblue43: Is it possible to be platonic friends with an ex? I don't mean the 2 or 3 dates ex. Lol. For arguments sake over 1 year. Could they go for a drink or a meal without problems?


Yea me and my ex get on quite well still have a very good friendship but thats about it i caht to her online alot and shes happy im moving on.
Jul 19, 2010 6:52 PM CST Friends with the ex...
billyod
billyodbillyodcork, Cork Ireland148 Posts
skyblue43: Is it possible to be platonic friends with an ex? I don't mean the 2 or 3 dates ex. Lol. For arguments sake over 1 year. Could they go for a drink or a meal without problems?


1 of my best friends is my ex wife, we just grew apart but always remain friends. so yes if the reasons for the break up was amiable then ye can remain friends
Jul 19, 2010 6:58 PM CST Friends with the ex...
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
L1977C: I can say hand on heart why would i want an ex as a friend who needs enemies with friends like that.theres usually a bloody good reason they became an ex..


what if you just fell outta love.... it happens?
Jul 19, 2010 7:01 PM CST Friends with the ex...
L1977C
L1977CL1977Cdublin, Dublin Ireland8 Threads 3,219 Posts
Neenaw: what if you just fell outta love.... it happens?

dont think its often two people fall out of love at the same time but yeah i see your point. I think alot of it is how the split is handled and how you treat the other person.I would talk to an ex but have as a close friend? no none so far
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