kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam2,003 posts
for those who feel a little upset and unconfortable now, why arguement ? pls friends only... i just wonder whether it will be because of men's presence in cs forum, LOL, p/s: pls dont hate me if i say the silly things.
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
kcuc0574: for those who feel a little upset and unconfortable now, why arguement ? pls friends only... i just wonder whether it will be because of men's presence in cs forum, LOL, p/s: pls dont hate me if i say the silly things.
Hi Kc,hope you had a good day..you know men always stirr up us woman..
kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam2,003 posts
demonfairy: Hi Kc,hope you had a good day..you know men always stirr up us woman..
thank you DF, i am fine, i am working now, but see some arguements happened then i jumped in, yes men sometimes stirr up us, to some extent to affect our feelings, then pls better control, but i think men will always please DF, as u are a very beautiful lady, hv a good evening,
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
kcuc0574: thank you DF, i am fine, i am working now, but see some arguements happened then i jumped in, yes men sometimes stirr up us, to some extent to affect our feelings, then pls better control, but i think men will always please DF, as u are a very beautiful lady, hv a good evening,
i think they were miss understandings that got a little out of hand,think they will be ok tomorrow.don't work to hard,take care of yourself..
i am going to say one more time what i said at least 3 times already
i am not angry
i did not speak against amity
i dont know how to be more clear
i explained i spoke on me and my feelings
for everyone to ignore what i said i said and what i said i meant is really silly isnt it?
once again more was made of a comment than needed to be by a number of people and that is what inhibits free speech around here
and i think it sucks
i mean the least we can do a stranger is extend the benefit of the doubt when they attempt to clarify rather than hold them hostage to what we are so sure they meant
this is supposed to be a place of friendship- why not believe someone when they say they were misunderstood?
i chose amitys post to respond to, and i felt i responded in a clear and rather non personal way because i felt safe to speak on that topic in response to her.
that was a misfire on my part and i wont presume such a notion again.
but after explaining myself 2 or 3 times i feel its unfairr for people to keep insisting she was wronged in some way and paint me in such a light.
communication is impossible when you all insist basically that im a liar. im here to communicate and share myself not be labeled and boxed up according to the needs and presumptions of others.
i mean isnt that what we all hope for?
why is clear communication seen here as an attack or rude? why cant we just talk to each other?
mindfful: i am going to say one more time what i said at least 3 times already
i am not angry
i did not speak against amity
i dont know how to be more clear
i explained i spoke on me and my feelings
for everyone to ignore what i said i said and what i said i meant is really silly isnt it?
once again more was made of a comment than needed to be by a number of people and that is what inhibits free speech around here
and i think it sucks
i mean the least we can do a stranger is extend the benefit of the doubt when they attempt to clarify rather than hold them hostage to what we are so sure they meant
this is supposed to be a place of friendship- why not believe someone when they say they were misunderstood?
i chose amitys post to respond to, and i felt i responded in a clear and rather non personal way because i felt safe to speak on that topic in response to her.
that was a misfire on my part and i wont presume such a notion again.
but after explaining myself 2 or 3 times i feel its unfairr for people to keep insisting she was wronged in some way and paint me in such a light.
communication is impossible when you all insist basically that im a liar. im here to communicate and share myself not be labeled and boxed up according to the needs and presumptions of others.
i mean isnt that what we all hope for?
why is clear communication seen here as an attack or rude? why cant we just talk to each other?
Ok so whatever u have in ur mind speak out.Am a good listener...
I merely think its that there is no one else posting when we are on at this time of day! Its apparently our duty to keep the threads alive and moving! We all seem to work in shifts!
langleygirl: I merely think its that there is no one else posting when we are on at this time of day! Its apparently our duty to keep the threads alive and moving! We all seem to work in shifts!
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for those who feel a little upset and unconfortable now,
why arguement ? pls friends only... i just wonder whether it will be because of men's presence in cs forum, LOL,
p/s: pls dont hate me if i say the silly things.