Opposites Attract? (55)

Personally as to wether opposites attract i believe that a person needs balance relationship wise.
Everyone has differences to the personalities and their placement and while strictly speaking an introvert and a passemist to boot might go out with someone with similar qualities i feel that the sum would be greater as a whole if say they were bound up with an extrovert and optimist.
This isn't to say personality types can't clash, merely that such relations should be considered dynamic.
Me for example i'm quite self confident and honestly no doubt that comes across as arrogant and while a woman that my personality type might dominate might serve the end goal from a mans point of veiw i don't believe it would make a healthy relationship as opposed to someone who liked to take the piss out of people (not arrogant, just what some might call annoying or an assassinating character type).
I meen time may prove me wrong, but the theory makes some good sense and i've met someone just like me in life.
Quite honestly i didn't like myself, probably why i have the proactive F%#$ this S^#t attitude towards reliance on other people.
My point is if a person doesn't bring anything new to the table isn't it rather boring?