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Prettyuptowngirl: Actually Grand-Dad I think the same applies to many of us, and relocating does make it difficult to stay in touch with loved ones, hence long distance relationships very seldom work. However if the loved one's are your children, that you are leaving to relocate, then as both parties have to work considerably hard to stay in contact.
However if we always do what we always did, we will tend to get the same results, and sometimes a change is as good as a holiday
Life has no guarantees, and there's an old saying: Unless u ready to make a change, then dont do it, as its bound to fail. Keeping a 2nd home, in the event of it not working out, is almost like preampting it wont? I'd rather invest my money, so that if it didnt work out, at least financially I would be able to get myself on my 2 feet
However if we always do what we always did, we will tend to get the same results, and sometimes a change is as good as a holiday
Life has no guarantees, and there's an old saying: Unless u ready to make a change, then dont do it, as its bound to fail. Keeping a 2nd home, in the event of it not working out, is almost like preampting it wont? I'd rather invest my money, so that if it didnt work out, at least financially I would be able to get myself on my 2 feet
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plainlyjune: I actually did that. It left me confused, lonely, and sorrowful. I lost myself in the process. Worse thing that happened to me.
You seem perfect to me, and far from confused I have to say
And hey, you learnt from it, and sometimes its good to get lost, we come out on the other side, better for it
As for being confused, I'm confused most times LOL
so that makes us normal!
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mira_1984_8: I gotcha u have something is keeping u but lets say u free and by ur self...come on? What?
in that case ...
yeah..I would
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Prettyuptowngirl: Actually Grand-Dad I think the same applies to many of us, and relocating does make it difficult to stay in touch with loved ones, hence long distance relationships very seldom work. However if the loved one's are your children, that you are leaving to relocate, then as both parties have to work considerably hard to stay in contact.
However if we always do what we always did, we will tend to get the same results, and sometimes a change is as good as a holiday
Life has no guarantees, and there's an old saying: Unless u ready to make a change, then dont do it, as its bound to fail. Keeping a 2nd home, in the event of it not working out, is almost like preampting it wont? I'd rather invest my money, so that if it didnt work out, at least financially I would be able to get myself on my 2 feet
However if we always do what we always did, we will tend to get the same results, and sometimes a change is as good as a holiday
Life has no guarantees, and there's an old saying: Unless u ready to make a change, then dont do it, as its bound to fail. Keeping a 2nd home, in the event of it not working out, is almost like preampting it wont? I'd rather invest my money, so that if it didnt work out, at least financially I would be able to get myself on my 2 feet
Not necessarily so, it means you have a place to stay when you want to go back to that said country in which your property is located.
And call it common sense thinking too.
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Boban1: in that case ...
yeah..I would
Viva Bobanyeah..I would
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mira_1984_8: Holy sh**
hey.... its not funny !!!
hell its not like im being unreasonable or nothing......
....if imma have to put up with the Evil Empire all over again, i might as well have a few things to keep my sanity !!!!!
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Veritaas: One could not possibly expect that of you!
its not too unreasonable..... is it ?????
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MetalMilitia: its not too unreasonable..... is it ?????
More than reasonable, expect nothing less!
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mira_1984_8: Are u ready to give up any thing to be with the one you love? (leave ur country and start from 0),do u think u might regret the life u gave up or it doesnt really matter to u if u live any where in the world as long as u r happy with him/her?
yes..have done it before..and will do it again..soon. Life is short enough as it is and to just play on the save side..one can miss so much, I like challenge have always thrived on it and always managed. Of course it's not something to do without planing,also it's not something that happens overnight,job ect have to be lined up first plus one has to willing to compromise and ajust.I am physically and mentally fit..so..I am outta here
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Veritaas: Communication is the key in any relationship, but this will not necessarily guarantee its success, though without it things will just crumble and fall apart.
And what if it was the wrong decision the other person made and they simply did not want to be with you?
You cannot make someone stay with you just because you think you made the right decision.
I wont force any body to stay with me,he is 100% sure that we'll be happy together..its just that im the one who's worried about him.And what if it was the wrong decision the other person made and they simply did not want to be with you?
You cannot make someone stay with you just because you think you made the right decision.
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RDM59: Perhaps in the future but not at this point in my life. I have parenting responsibilities and the love of others that I am not prepared to leave yet.
Who knows what the future holds, but it sounds exciting and adventurous...
I would always ensure I had something to return home to should it not work out.
Who knows what the future holds, but it sounds exciting and adventurous...
I would always ensure I had something to return home to should it not work out.
This pretty much sums it up for me to, two of my children are still under 18 so no way am I going anywhere.
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MetalMilitia: well I AM a very reasonable and generous feller after all......
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onemoretry63: yes..have done it before..and will do it again..soon. Life is short enough as it is and to just play on the save side..one can miss so much, I like challenge have always thrived on it and always managed. Of course it's not something to do without planing,also it's not something that happens overnight,job ect have to be lined up first plus one has to willing to compromise and ajust.I am physically and mentally fit..so..I am outta here
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MetalMilitia: well I AM a very reasonable and generous feller after all......
Yes you are, and bring alot of diversity to the forums in more ways than one!
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Prettyuptowngirl: Actually Grand-Dad I think the same applies to many of us, and relocating does make it difficult to stay in touch with loved ones, hence long distance relationships very seldom work. However if the loved one's are your children, that you are leaving to relocate, then as both parties have to work considerably hard to stay in contact.
However if we always do what we always did, we will tend to get the same results, and sometimes a change is as good as a holiday
Life has no guarantees, and there's an old saying: Unless u ready to make a change, then dont do it, as its bound to fail. Keeping a 2nd home, in the event of it not working out, is almost like preampting it wont? I'd rather invest my money, so that if it didnt work out, at least financially I would be able to get myself on my 2 feet
However if we always do what we always did, we will tend to get the same results, and sometimes a change is as good as a holiday
Life has no guarantees, and there's an old saying: Unless u ready to make a change, then dont do it, as its bound to fail. Keeping a 2nd home, in the event of it not working out, is almost like preampting it wont? I'd rather invest my money, so that if it didnt work out, at least financially I would be able to get myself on my 2 feet
Hi there Granny P, well I think one has to be realistic, the majority of us are here because IT didn't work out the first time or many times even. Yes we have to be very positive but wise also, as you said, there are no guarantees ( of success ).The property could be rented out and provide an income for you overseas, so that is an investment as such.
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Prettyuptowngirl: You seem perfect to me, and far from confused I have to say
And hey, you learnt from it, and sometimes its good to get lost, we come out on the other side, better for it
As for being confused, I'm confused most times LOL so that makes us normal!
And hey, you learnt from it, and sometimes its good to get lost, we come out on the other side, better for it
As for being confused, I'm confused most times LOL so that makes us normal!
awww... yeps to what you said.
and i grew a bit of a backbone and can now do this >>>
PUG
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mira_1984_8: Veritass..no hard feelings
None whatsoever.
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Communication is the key in any relationship, but this will not necessarily guarantee its success, though without it things will just crumble and fall apart.
And what if it was the wrong decision the other person made and they simply did not want to be with you?
You cannot make someone stay with you just because you think you made the right decision.