would u give up? (94)
mira_1984_8jeddah, Makkah Saudi Arabia4 Threads 154 PostsAre u ready to give up any thing to be with the one you love? (leave ur country and start from 0),do u think u might regret the life u gave up or it doesnt really matter to u if u live any where in the world as long as u r happy with him/her?
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mira_1984_8: Are u ready to give up any thing to be with the one you love? (leave ur country and start from 0),do u think u might regret the life u gave up or it doesnt really matter to u if u live any where in the world as long as u r happy with him/her?
I can`t
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mira_1984_8: Are u ready to give up any thing to be with the one you love? (leave ur country and start from 0),do u think u might regret the life u gave up or it doesnt really matter to u if u live any where in the world as long as u r happy with him/her?
I wish the answer is as simple as a "Yes" or "No". In principle yes if I was in love with someone, I would move, relocate to be with them. But I wont do that for someone that I've just met for a week or 2. Giving up my life, to move to another country is not a decision that will change my life considerably. So it must be because I no that this is not a fling, an impromptu decision, but something I know will be ever lasting and someone I will share my life for many years to come. I no life has no guarantees, but there are elements of it we can control.
It like buying a book, you wont know whether u like it, until you have read it, life is very similiar........
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mira_1984_8: Are u ready to give up any thing to be with the one you love? (leave ur country and start from 0),do u think u might regret the life u gave up or it doesnt really matter to u if u live any where in the world as long as u r happy with him/her?
i would give up my life to be with the one i loved. would die happy for just one day of peace and to know there was love.
mick
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Boban1: I can`t
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In response to: Are u ready to give up any thing to be with the one you love? (leave ur country and start from 0),do u think u might regret the life u gave up or it doesnt really matter to u if u live any where in the world as long as u r happy with him/her?
If you do make that kind of move, make sure you are able to live and work in that country, support yourself if things do not work out the way you had envisioned, if you want to stay there. Failing that, just move back to the country you left.
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mira_1984_8: Are u ready to give up any thing to be with the one you love? (leave ur country and start from 0),do u think u might regret the life u gave up or it doesnt really matter to u if u live any where in the world as long as u r happy with him/her?
have done it, and would do it again yes made me the person i am today and have no regrets but plenty of life experience ...
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Perhaps in the future but not at this point in my life. I have parenting responsibilities and the love of others that I am not prepared to leave yet.
Who knows what the future holds, but it sounds exciting and adventurous...
I would always ensure I had something to return home to should it not work out.
Who knows what the future holds, but it sounds exciting and adventurous...
I would always ensure I had something to return home to should it not work out.
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mick64: i would give up my life to be with the one i loved. would die happy for just one day of peace and to know there was love.
mick
Is that u mick?..welcome back i think i've read ur story be4,ur such a great guy,wish u all the best from the bottom of my heart,may god gives u as much as u deserve and more...mick
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mira_1984_8: Is that u mick?..welcome back i think i've read ur story be4,ur such a great guy,wish u all the best from the bottom of my heart,may god gives u as much as u deserve and more...
oh thanks.u are in a minority tho.
thankyou again
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Between dream and reality are usually laws and practical issues that prevent you from taking steps like this. That may sound very rational but it is the truth I am afraid.
Apart from that I do not believe that being with someone will make you happy. It can only add to the happiness you already feel. In other words taking drastic steps because you chase a mirage isn't what I would recommend.
Only if you knew that the combination of people works well it could make sense and even then it is good to realize that the toughest test of a relationship is usually going abroad together. I have seen them fail more often than survive this one to be honest.
And yes I know this is a very unromantic reply :)
Apart from that I do not believe that being with someone will make you happy. It can only add to the happiness you already feel. In other words taking drastic steps because you chase a mirage isn't what I would recommend.
Only if you knew that the combination of people works well it could make sense and even then it is good to realize that the toughest test of a relationship is usually going abroad together. I have seen them fail more often than survive this one to be honest.
And yes I know this is a very unromantic reply :)
mira_1984_8: Are u ready to give up any thing to be with the one you love? (leave ur country and start from 0),do u think u might regret the life u gave up or it doesnt really matter to u if u live any where in the world as long as u r happy with him/her?
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Veritaas: If you do make that kind of move, make sure you are able to live and work in that country, support yourself if things do not work out the way you had envisioned, if you want to stay there. Failing that, just move back to the country you left.
I think u should stick with the decission u've made no matter what as long as there's sm1 u really luv and never back down..ur happiness is only when ur with him,i dont believe there's such a thing called failing,u can try and keep trying untill u sucsess.------ This thread is Archived ------
mira_1984_8: even if she's ur wife?
I don`t expect people to understand my point of view
I just cannot turn my back on my parents or my son
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Veritaas: If you do make that kind of move, make sure you are able to live and work in that country, support yourself if things do not work out the way you had envisioned, if you want to stay there. Failing that, just move back to the country you left.
I think u should stick with the decission u've made no matter what as long as there's sm1 u really luv and never back down..ur happiness is only when ur with him,i dont believe there's such a thing called failing,u can try and keep trying untill u sucsess.------ This thread is Archived ------
mira_1984_8: Are u ready to give up any thing to be with the one you love? (leave ur country and start from 0),do u think u might regret the life u gave up or it doesnt really matter to u if u live any where in the world as long as u r happy with him/her?
Nope.
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I actually did that. It left me confused, lonely, and sorrowful. I lost myself in the process. Worse thing that happened to me.
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RDM59: Perhaps in the future but not at this point in my life. I have parenting responsibilities and the love of others that I am not prepared to leave yet.
Who knows what the future holds, but it sounds exciting and adventurous...
I would always ensure I had something to return home to should it not work out.
Who knows what the future holds, but it sounds exciting and adventurous...
I would always ensure I had something to return home to should it not work out.
Actually Grand-Dad I think the same applies to many of us, and relocating does make it difficult to stay in touch with loved ones, hence long distance relationships very seldom work. However if the loved one's are your children, that you are leaving to relocate, then as both parties have to work considerably hard to stay in contact.
However if we always do what we always did, we will tend to get the same results, and sometimes a change is as good as a holiday
Life has no guarantees, and there's an old saying: Unless u ready to make a change, then dont do it, as its bound to fail. Keeping a 2nd home, in the event of it not working out, is almost like preampting it wont? I'd rather invest my money, so that if it didnt work out, at least financially I would be able to get myself on my 2 feet
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Mordicus: Between dream and reality are usually laws and practical issues that prevent you from taking steps like this. That may sound very rational but it is the truth I am afraid.
Apart from that I do not believe that being with someone will make you happy. It can only add to the happiness you already feel. In other words taking drastic steps because you chase a mirage isn't what I would recommend.
Only if you knew that the combination of people works well it could make sense and even then it is good to realize that the toughest test of a relationship is usually going abroad together. I have seen them fail more often than survive this one to be honest.
And yes I know this is a very unromantic reply :)
Apart from that I do not believe that being with someone will make you happy. It can only add to the happiness you already feel. In other words taking drastic steps because you chase a mirage isn't what I would recommend.
Only if you knew that the combination of people works well it could make sense and even then it is good to realize that the toughest test of a relationship is usually going abroad together. I have seen them fail more often than survive this one to be honest.
And yes I know this is a very unromantic reply :)
but thank u anyway...i believe people can make eachers happy.
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