Do you feel obliged to respond... (47)
zeus911Malta, Xlokk Malta8 Threads 2 Polls 1,000 PostsDo you feel obliged to respond when someone messages you, or flowers you even if you don't like them??? 
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zeus911: Do you feel obliged to respond when someone messages you, or flowers you even if you don't like them???
Nope
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Yes, I do, because if they took the time to send it, then I should take the time to answer..
..and there are very few persons that I dislike.
..and there are very few persons that I dislike.
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ladyfingers: Yes, I do, because if they took the time to send it, then I should take the time to answer..
..and there are very few persons that I dislike.
never thought about it that way, i mean about them taking time... but you gotta point ..and there are very few persons that I dislike.
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zeus911: never thought about it that way, i mean about them taking time... but you gotta point
Oh, you are looking at it from a man's point of view??? Like should YOU respond?
I was looking at it from my point of view.
But, if you being a man sent a woman a mail or flower, wouldn't you at least like her to acknowledge it?
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nakosya: Nope
pretty decisive there, is it because you recieve too much? 
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zeus911: Do you feel obliged to respond when someone messages you, or flowers you even if you don't like them???
YES I do, I always think they took the time to send at least I can say thankyou but no thankyou if that is the case.
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In response to: Do you feel obliged to respond when someone messages you, or flowers you even if you don't like them???
I don't get any messages
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ladyfingers: Oh, you are looking at it from a man's point of view??? Like should YOU respond?
I was looking at it from my point of view.
But, if you being a man sent a woman a mail or flower, wouldn't you at least like her to acknowledge it?
well yes but the question's generic so i really want to hear ALL views.I was looking at it from my point of view.
But, if you being a man sent a woman a mail or flower, wouldn't you at least like her to acknowledge it?
But yes of course, if i'd sent out something, i'd like to get something back...
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I dont feel you should feel obliged to respond to a message but it costs nothing to be polite. Flowers are a bit of a cop out so wouldnt bother responding to them, if you want to get to know someone send them a message if they dont bother to reply their loss
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sweetlyscented1: YES I do, I always think they took the time to send at least I can say thankyou but no thankyou if that is the case.
here's a flower for u sweety
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cooladyinlarnaca: I dont feel you should feel obliged to respond to a message but it costs nothing to be polite. Flowers are a bit of a cop out so wouldnt bother responding to them, if you want to get to know someone send them a message if they dont bother to reply their loss
ok no flower but a wine
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ladyfingers: Yes, I do, because if they took the time to send it, then I should take the time to answer..
..and there are very few persons that I dislike.
I like to be the one among those few ones..and there are very few persons that I dislike.
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nakosya: Nope
u r too polite my freind
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sweetlyscented1: YES I do, I always think they took the time to send at least I can say thankyou but no thankyou if that is the case.
love the 'thankyou but no thankyou' bit but i think i'd just pass if i didn't like them...------ This thread is Archived ------
zeus911: pretty decisive there, is it because you recieve too much?
I really tried to reply back to everybody even though I did not like the profile. I do not have against profile when i say i do not like the profile but I really do not want anybody to write me who is over 45 and so on. But sometimes people do not understand polite "no, thanks" reply or worse they start bad mouthing even though they do not know you at all. So I found it easier just not to reply ))
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viva007: here's a flower for u sweety
awww thankyou viva and here is one back to you
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ladyfingers: Yes, I do, because if they took the time to send it, then I should take the time to answer..
..and there are very few persons that I dislike.
..and there are very few persons that I dislike.
ladyfingers,
you really a lady so so so sweet.
But you just don't know there was once when I did there returned someone swearing ziuerlkflllsjl;mmxxxxxxx at me
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In response to: Do you feel obliged to respond when someone messages you, or flowers you even if you don't like them???
No, I don't feel obliged but I would out of courtesy..I know what it feels like to send a wink and not have the person respond with even thanks but no thanks..
Treat people as you want to be treated is my motto.
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cooladyinlarnaca: I dont feel you should feel obliged to respond to a message but it costs nothing to be polite. Flowers are a bit of a cop out so wouldnt bother responding to them, if you want to get to know someone send them a message if they dont bother to reply their loss
i suppose by 'polite' you mean sending some brief thanks? 
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