sweetlyscented1 Forum Posts (3,060)

RE: Do you miss your ex? Want him/her back?

Yes sadly I believe you are right....he just wants to keep my dangling for his own ego.... but some people have a twised way of loving someone, give me good old convential love any day...

RE: Do you miss your ex? Want him/her back?

from what I have read everyone said NO, but I am going to say YES I miss him desperately and would have him back in a heartbeat, although he is with another, but keeps telling me he loves and misses me I am his soulmate....but could never leave this other women as she needs him... I have to let go his mind games and hurting me......I know Im a fool, but love can make us do foolish things, I need to meet a GOOD man who will love me the way I deserve to be loved.....

Just being honest....

RE: Can you forgive?

I dont hold grudges,Ive known may who do and it eats you up to keep holding on to things from past.

But as for forgiving well, I try and do pretty good although it can take a bit of time if you have been hurt to forigive, but its the best way to live your life.....as with HATE its such a strong emotion, I have never hated anyone per say...I have disliked them allot but never hate.

But as someone mentioned , I have never had a child murdered, Id imagine hate would be pretty strong if that happened....but again in time its healthy to forgive and move on......life is to short to hang on to nasty feelings for dozens of years.

I dont want to be a bitter misrable old lady as I think many become as a result of hanging on to these emotions....

Hi Amity nice to see you darl

RE: How can this work????????

hmmm someone had this writtin on facebook this morning.....things do get around

RE: Specifically, You're looking for...

thats a bit like the say " thats what they say" I mean who the hell are THEY always wondered that....

RE: Specifically, You're looking for...

danger is my middle name

sometimes

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thats me perpetually

RE: Specifically, You're looking for...

yeah I was starting to think the exact same thing

RE: Specifically, You're looking for...

ohh ok well send mail to filter box and I will reply and then your unblocked

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peace out brutha

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hey sweetpea long time no see hope your well

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its automatic....

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Hi Ya felix

RE: Specifically, You're looking for...

cause we can set our own as to whom we want to be able to contact us.. its a god send...

bloked mail goes into our filter box. if you check it, it will have mail from restricted people..... my gets FULL

RE: Specifically, You're looking for...

hmm you think my eyes thats how??? speak english man...

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Hey now I resemble that remark

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righy ohh

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now there is an interesting thought....

come to me my excellent sugar man

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Hi Gorgeous

RE: LYING ON A SERIOUS THREAD

well its the internet so I take everying with a gain of salt unless I meet and can prove othewise I dont really trust anyone implicidly on line...I think anyone who lies, with have a hard time to prove they are not at another time...its like the boy who cried wolf isnt it...

RE: Specifically, You're looking for...

Well I was with my soulmate and even though we have broken up now, I still know and feel he was my other half even though it didnt last, hmmmm not sure if we have more than one, Id like to hope so.... but who knows, it is a beautiful thought though.....

Ahhh soulmate soulmate where is thee....if you dont hurry I'll do a wee gee am I bored or what

Hi everyone

RE: Emotional Vampires.

hmm that it is my friend that it is and very appropriately put venus..

RE: Emotional Vampires.

Yes id imagine it would help allot venus to be aware, but the thing is they seem SO wonderful in the begging and promise you the earth and making all your dreams come true....somethings thats hard to resist until its too late.... these are the minefields we have to navigate to find someone right........lord help us all

RE: Emotional Vampires.

I know venus, and to be honest Im still not fully healed....stillkinda love him but now I see this its so him and I doubt happiness would ever be on going or any future happiness...this is a reality check for me

you know near the end when he ended it and I was so upset crying he put ear plugs in his ears so he could sleep and wouldnt hear me wimpering.... I was like OMG how cold is that

RE: Emotional Vampires.

The Narcissist
Their motto is "Me first." Everything is all about them. They have a grandiose sense of self-importance and entitlement, hog attention and crave admiration. They're dangerous because they lack empathy and have a limited capacity for unconditional love. If you don't do things their way, they become punishing, withholding or cold. How to Protect Yourself: Keep your expectations realistic. These are emotionally limited people. Try not to fall in love with one or expect them to be selfless or love without strings attached. Never make your self-worth dependent on them or confide your deepest feelings to them. To successfully communicate, the hard truth is that you must show how something will be to their benefit. Though it's better not to have to contend with this tedious ego stroking, if the relationship is unavoidable this approach works.


OMG this is SO my last partner and I did fall madly in love and apparently with a Narssisist I dont think I realised how much of a one he is till I read this and it is ALL him every word....no wonder I was put through the mill in that relationships..Im so dumb founded.... thankyou for bringing this to my attention as he is on the scene again saying he loves me and needs me AGAIN..

RE: The age Factor

ohh in that case please forgive me oh seeker of the cougar

RE: The age Factor

hey venus well I am not around all the much these days, but have noticed this guy and his cougar threads a few times, Im not sure what new information he expects to obtain over and over again.....its probably trying to catch the attention of some desperate cougar or something, Im sure there are plenty on this site myself NOT included I might add

OMG look see THIS...

likewise hun....

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OMG my lawyers number is in my hand...