Hey Venere, Well yes I had that with my last partner we both did at the first glace across the road it was WOOOOOAAHHHHHHH so over powering... Love at first sight?? attraction Definately...later I looked on it as we fell in love at first sight, but sadly it only lasted 4 years despite the fact that we loved so deeply and passionatly, other issues caused problem's and it ended......so yes you can fall for someone instantly but unfortunately it dosent mean it will last, and can make for a devistating break up as I experianced... I beleive the research to be true and correct in most areas.....
I think its probably best to not expect the love of our life to be that instantly but for it to develop over time with respect and getting to truly know each other, THIS I think will make for a much longer lasting and true connection...
Still waiting and Im afraid once you have experianced the "love at first sight" situation it is VERY VERY hard to not want or expect it again...so we keep searching but it may never happen like that again..but that dosent mean we wont find our true love, it just might take a little longer to realise THEY are in fact the one....
I find that hard to believe sweetie...you seems like such a lovely man, well wishing you a New Year where all you desire comes true....sending it out into the universe, you have to ask for the things you want and they will come eventually..
RE: Love at first sight - Is there such a thing?
Hey Venere, Well yes I had that with my last partner we both did at the first glace across the road it was WOOOOOAAHHHHHHH so over powering... Love at first sight?? attraction Definately...later I looked on it as we fell in love at first sight, but sadly it only lasted 4 years despite the fact that we loved so deeply and passionatly, other issues caused problem's and it ended......so yes you can fall for someone instantly but unfortunately it dosent mean it will last, and can make for a devistating break up as I experianced... I beleive the research to be true and correct in most areas.....I think its probably best to not expect the love of our life to be that instantly but for it to develop over time with respect and getting to truly know each other, THIS I think will make for a much longer lasting and true connection...
Still waiting and Im afraid once you have experianced the "love at first sight" situation it is VERY VERY hard to not want or expect it again...so we keep searching but it may never happen like that again..but that dosent mean we wont find our true love, it just might take a little longer to realise THEY are in fact the one....
JMO
Happy New Year Everyone