they everyone will think YOUR a scammer so dont do that DF scammer mails have a certain way aobut them I can pick them out first go now...and there as so many
Well its hard to define really... as I have been attracted to all kinds of men, but I guess white caucasion, tall, intouch and able to communicate their thoughs to words someone with a certain style and class I guess
Tall Dark Handsome..... but it really boils down to chemistry and they could be anytype of man that catches my heart, so its a mystery and will have to wait n see
I think I am an uptown girl/women to a degree, but I also have some downtown moments... I can adapt to any situation uptown or downtown so what does that make me then??
Ohh Nightwhispers, about 9 years ago I went through exactly the same thing, I was nieve back then and new on line...but BOY it teaches us something I learned alot from that experiance I can tell you it was a long time ago now but I still remember how hard it was to tell them I KNOW but I did and it ended and I have to say I was relieved to say the least, gosh Im such a different person now
Yes DF that is a very sad and scary story and probably all to common on line.. well I guess we know the risks when we associate ourselves with this on line medium.
thankyou bella and I believe you are right, we have to learn how to be internet wise if we are going to use this medium to meet people, there are some sad and nasty people out there who will do as you discribed so its all about being smart and wise.
And I know what you mean about nit pickers, but I guess they are entiteld to their opinions in an open forum, but some do take things a little to serious and themselves make judgment way out of line......hey but if you post a thread you have to expect negative comments its just how it goes in CS world..
thankyou nightwhipsers, I think in some cases your very right and I have known people who do begin to believe their own lies..its scary and a real worry and very sad actually..but yes its become part of the whole internet world I suppose.
Hi DF, well yes, I guess it goes, you cant please all of the people all of the time, so you just have to please some of the people some of the time....or something like that
your just being nit picky Ginger... I mean do cats and dogs use the internet.....no its only people love.
Dont take it so seriously and try not to be so sensative its just a stilly thread and if you pull them all apart you will see the negative in ALL of them....
Its all good ya know depends how you choose to see things.... I mean no harm or nastiness by starting this tread and those who know me will know that.. I just wanted some opinions on the subject simple as that.
Ginger I think the smart people would know exactly what I mean by PEOPLE of course I dont mean EVERYONE...people as in men and women..of course NOT everyone lies...and I didnt use the word EVERYONE
Hi Ambrose, yes i think barbara and I started out threads at the same time......while I havent actually this time around been burned or anything as Im VERY cautious now, I do however wonder what their motives are and WHY they bother, I just wanted to get some varied opions on this subject as I often do wonder,
and barbra is a prime example of what I'm talking about
But your advice is extremely wise advice and I do adopt this course of action myself in my search for love on line.
Thankyou your always so informative, would appreciate some input as to what you think their motives are etc.
hi barbara I posted in your thread love, and your story is a prime example of what I'm talking about here.....
I am careful and this time around my on line experiance has been OK and thats only because I do some research and Im very wary and careful who I trust..I mean on line you have to be and I think its kinda sad really, as this whole ON LINE concept has great potential for getting people connected, but its fraught with danger and LIARS......Ohh well cant do much I guess its how it is.....just upsetting sometimes.
RE: E-mail Etiquette,dos and donts?
they everyone will think YOUR a scammer so dont do that DF scammer mails have a certain way aobut them I can pick them out first go now...and there as so many