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Aug 21, 2010 1:47 PM CST So folks!
Sparkyracer
SparkyracerSparkyracerLondon, Greater London, England UK12 Threads 174 Posts
Is it personality or looks ye tend to go for, or is it a bit of both???!drinking
Aug 21, 2010 1:48 PM CST So folks!
Silentlust
SilentlustSilentlustGorey, Wexford Ireland18 Threads 1 Polls 2,774 Posts
Sparkyracer: Is it personality or looks ye tend to go for, or is it a bit of both???!


Both...gotta be both.
Aug 21, 2010 1:50 PM CST So folks!
Officer107
Officer107Officer107Kerry, but varies, Kerry Ireland3 Threads 16 Posts
Sparkyracer: Is it personality or looks ye tend to go for, or is it a bit of both???!


For me its simple,
Short-term = looks is enough
Long-term = had to be personality to complement
Aug 21, 2010 1:51 PM CST So folks!
delamer
delamerdelamerWexford, Ireland114 Threads 10 Polls 4,135 Posts
Sparkyracer: Is it personality or looks ye tend to go for, or is it a bit of both???!


Both. grin

The looks hook us - and the personality reels us in!
love
Aug 21, 2010 1:52 PM CST So folks!
Sparkyracer
SparkyracerSparkyracerLondon, Greater London, England UK12 Threads 174 Posts
Officer107: For me its simple,
Short-term = looks is enough
Long-term = had to be personality to complement


o god ya if it was a longterm thing, there'd want to be summit else there other than looks, definately agree cheers
Aug 21, 2010 1:52 PM CST So folks!
James_Pond
James_PondJames_PondDublin, Ireland124 Threads 23 Polls 2,417 Posts
both...
Aug 21, 2010 1:53 PM CST So folks!
Sparkyracer
SparkyracerSparkyracerLondon, Greater London, England UK12 Threads 174 Posts
delamer: Both.

The looks hook us - and the personality reels us in!
rolling on the floor laughing
Aug 21, 2010 1:53 PM CST So folks!
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
Sparkyracer: Is it personality or looks ye tend to go for, or is it a bit of both???!

Both.

Can't quite concentrate on conversation if he's not already caught my attention visually.
Aug 21, 2010 5:15 PM CST So folks!
newyear
newyearnewyeardublin, kerry, Dublin Ireland22 Threads 5 Polls 85 Posts
In response to: Is it personality or looks ye tend to go for, or is it a bit of both???!


Oh has to be balance of both :)
Aug 21, 2010 5:25 PM CST So folks!
Sparkyracer: Is it personality or looks ye tend to go for, or is it a bit of both???!


Its both hun...the one can not live without the other!! That being said..I think it would be easier to overlook bad looks, then a bad personality!
Aug 21, 2010 5:46 PM CST So folks!
Mary85
Mary85Mary85Mullingar, Westmeath Ireland2 Posts
Personality first, looks are just a bonus
Aug 21, 2010 5:55 PM CST So folks!
mcneillm
mcneillmmcneillmEnnis, Clare Ireland2 Threads 1,250 Posts
Mary85: Personality first, looks are just a bonus


Exactly.

As long as they're not seriously deformed or something - midgets excepted, they're cool.
Aug 21, 2010 6:09 PM CST So folks!
mcneillm: Exactly.

As long as they're not seriously deformed or something - midgets excepted, they're cool.


Yikes! Well...cool..ok!! The thing is that "cool" will not cut it in the long run..respect is another dimension!!
Aug 21, 2010 6:11 PM CST So folks!
mcneillm
mcneillmmcneillmEnnis, Clare Ireland2 Threads 1,250 Posts
spinner1970: Yikes! Well...cool..ok!! The thing is that "cool" will not cut it in the long run..respect is another dimension!!


Well, I'm very open-minded to people being different.

Whatever about differences, if I can overcome the physical ones in the short-term, after that it's down to the personality.
Aug 21, 2010 6:15 PM CST So folks!
mcneillm: Well, I'm very open-minded to people being different.

Whatever about differences, if I can overcome the physical ones in the short-term, after that it's down to the personality.


So..lets see if I get this right..you could..as a test date someone with a bid physical disadvantage..just because its cool..and then..if the personality is good you could accept her as your partner?
Aug 21, 2010 6:18 PM CST So folks!
mcneillm
mcneillmmcneillmEnnis, Clare Ireland2 Threads 1,250 Posts
spinner1970: So..lets see if I get this right..you could..as a test date someone with a bid physical disadvantage..just because its cool..and then..if the personality is good you could accept her as your partner?


Aah, my bad, I worded things wrong.

What I meant was, I could date someone with a physical disadvantage without me being put off by it, and yes, if their personality is good, yes I could accept her as my partner.

I wouldn't rate a person with a disability higher OR lower when it would come to dating.
Aug 22, 2010 7:51 AM CST So folks!
wittyone
wittyonewittyoneDerry, Ireland9 Threads 8,815 Posts
Both, you have got to fancy what your looking at then hope they have personality to match. smitten
Aug 22, 2010 8:16 AM CST So folks!
tartini
tartinitartiniSligo, Ireland1 Threads 1 Polls 621 Posts
omg such modesty
what tree do you hang out on handsome?????

blushing
Aug 22, 2010 8:21 AM CST So folks!
GalwayGuy35
GalwayGuy35GalwayGuy35galway, Galway Ireland25 Threads 1,537 Posts
Sparkyracer: Is it personality or looks ye tend to go for, or is it a bit of both???!

Bit of both really. There has to be some attraction. Thats why its more difficult with internet dating when people dont have a picture up. JMO
Aug 22, 2010 8:28 AM CST So folks!
westsidelady
westsideladywestsideladySligo, Ireland3 Threads 57 Posts
wittyone: Both, you have got to fancy what your looking at then hope they have personality to match.



Have to agree! and everyone is attracted to someone different. I might find how someone looks as really attractive and others would not find them attractive. There has to be an initial spark for me, to then spend time getting to know the person better.wink
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