lOSING A PARTNER (41)
Amity: You accused the man of being a scammer!!He wrote a heart wrenching post and you ripped into him for being here??
This forum is an eye opener to characters and personalties which can help if looking for a partner...I am afraid to say that how you have represented yourself is shocking.
This forum is an eye opener to characters and personalties which can help if looking for a partner...I am afraid to say that how you have represented yourself is shocking.
I guess one of the advantages of being a proud cougar is, that a loved one is less likely to depart in one's lifetime...
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proudcougar: ALL THIS IS A DATING SITE---A WORLD WHERE PEOPLE HAVE TO RELY ON A WORLD IN FRONT OF A COMPUTER...
REAL FRIENDSHIP IS WHERE CLOSE FRIENDS SHARE JOYS, SORROW TOGETHER ...NOT ONLINE SHARING WITH THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE.
REAL FRIENDSHIP IS WHERE CLOSE FRIENDS SHARE JOYS, SORROW TOGETHER ...NOT ONLINE SHARING WITH THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE.
While here to find that special someone, we also create friendships with others. At times we share our joys and our sorrows with those who have become our friends.
It is no different than if we were out in the real world
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whatever like i said i only put in my opinion--slam me if you want----but this site is for adults - not for being cut down - (as far as insulting my handle - name on site)
not a big deal.
Now i understand--as long as everyone agrees with everything you guys are saying--then everything is great
DO NOT SHARE YOUR PERSONAL OPINION-
not a big deal.
Now i understand--as long as everyone agrees with everything you guys are saying--then everything is great
DO NOT SHARE YOUR PERSONAL OPINION-
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You are welcome to your opinion...no matter how warped it is.
Then expect others to have an opinion to..and just because it does not fit in with yours does not deem it "slamming"
Then expect others to have an opinion to..and just because it does not fit in with yours does not deem it "slamming"
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Yes I have been slammed for my opinion -- just calling my opinion warped ,,, just read all the comments---is slamming.
Every comment speaks for itself.
Continue slamming ... if it makes you guys 'look and feel' better
Every comment speaks for itself.
Continue slamming ... if it makes you guys 'look and feel' better
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proudcougar: Yes I have been slammed for my opinion -- just calling my opinion warped ,,, just read all the comments---is slamming.
Every comment speaks for itself.
Continue slamming ... if it makes you guys 'look and feel' better
Every comment speaks for itself.
Continue slamming ... if it makes you guys 'look and feel' better
So..how do you think that poor man will feel when he reads the comment you left him in his thread??
Tit for tat dear.
A forum is for sharing opinions...not all of us will agree of course. And when you post an opinion you are opening up to allow others to disagree or agree.
Think about it.
Have a good day xxx
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proudcougar: whatever like i said i only put in my opinion--slam me if you want----but this site is for adults - not for being cut down - (as far as insulting my handle - name on site)
not a big deal.
Now i understand--as long as everyone agrees with everything you guys are saying--then everything is great
DO NOT SHARE YOUR PERSONAL OPINION-
not a big deal.
Now i understand--as long as everyone agrees with everything you guys are saying--then everything is great
DO NOT SHARE YOUR PERSONAL OPINION-
Well, you posted a thread, didn't you? It's an invitation for people to post their opinion. They may or may not agree with you. They may or may not agree with each other. That's the way it is.
Please think before you basically accuse us of bullying, it's not what what we are doing or what this is about. We just use our freedom of speech on a thread created by you, as we do on any other thread.
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One thing you won't find on these forums is a scammer as they will not last long.
Scammers would rather send out mass emails to potential victims
Scammers would rather send out mass emails to potential victims
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I did prob jump to conclusions but it is only from my many experiences with scammers...his style was used many times...
but I only said it with his statement. I got slammed by everyone else.
Whatever i don't care anymore.
I have learned a lot from being on this dating site. Too many people share too much online. But then that is my opinion.
but I only said it with his statement. I got slammed by everyone else.
Whatever i don't care anymore.
I have learned a lot from being on this dating site. Too many people share too much online. But then that is my opinion.
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proudcougar: I did prob jump to conclusions but it is only from my many experiences with scammers...his style was used many times...
but I only said it with his statement. I got slammed by everyone else.
Whatever i don't care anymore.
I have learned a lot from being on this dating site. Too many people share too much online. But then that is my opinion.
but I only said it with his statement. I got slammed by everyone else.
Whatever i don't care anymore.
I have learned a lot from being on this dating site. Too many people share too much online. But then that is my opinion.
It is too much when someone shares a name, address and such too soon.
In the years I have been online, I have seen kids with too much info in their IM details. In each and every case, I have instructed them to remove this and that for their own protection. Having kids of my own, I hate to see another get hurt by some predator.
We have quite a community here and give each other support when needed.
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Raynew1959: It is too much when someone shares a name, address and such too soon.
In the years I have been online, I have seen kids with too much info in their IM details. In each and every case, I have instructed them to remove this and that for their own protection. Having kids of my own, I hate to see another get hurt by some predator.
We have quite a community here and give each other support when needed.
In the years I have been online, I have seen kids with too much info in their IM details. In each and every case, I have instructed them to remove this and that for their own protection. Having kids of my own, I hate to see another get hurt by some predator.
We have quite a community here and give each other support when needed.
We also stick up for each other when someone makes an unwarranted attack
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proudcougar: I did prob jump to conclusions but it is only from my many experiences with scammers...his style was used many times...
but I only said it with his statement. I got slammed by everyone else.
Whatever i don't care anymore.
I have learned a lot from being on this dating site. Too many people share too much online. But then that is my opinion.
but I only said it with his statement. I got slammed by everyone else.
Whatever i don't care anymore.
I have learned a lot from being on this dating site. Too many people share too much online. But then that is my opinion.
Yes, I believe you did jump to conclusions Ms Cougar. This guy is no scammer. He did not offer or ask for anyone's private yahoo or email address in his forum. He did not discuss how he is widowed,with child, God fearing and alot of other crap they write. This is the common style of scammers. 9 letters in the last 3 days from scammers has put me in quite a mood lately to change my profile to reach out to them specifically since they have been coming on strong lately.
However, this man is in a grieving state and is seeking online support from people only. Nothing more than that. Is it too difficult for you to give him some emotional support with an apology for your words? Is it not obvious that the Broken Hearts forum can be used for more than just relationship breakups? He is not the first to utilize this forum for emotional support for the death of someone. It has also been utilized by members who had contemplated suicide and needed people to talk them thru their bad emotional time.
I used this forum while I was in grieving as a result of my next door neighbor's trailer burning down to the ground mysteriously in the middle of the night during a snowstorm. She burned up alive with her 2 week old newborn grandchild. Her son is still greiving and goes for mental help and feels suicidal.I knew the family for 21 yrs now I was haunted by the thought of her burned up charcoal black.
Have some compassion in your heart for others and do apologize to this man during the worst moments of his life right now and help him get thru this time. It is the most compassionate thing you can do for another human being.
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proudcougar: Why would someone go on a dating site to post a last goodbye to a friend/lover???
If i was mourning a loved one's loss---I WOULD NOT BE ON A DATING SITE.....
This is not a dating site but it has If i was mourning a loved one's loss---I WOULD NOT BE ON A DATING SITE.....
many good features to make some fun and to learn new things
we can spend a good time together along wth international
peoples to know about each other's culture and tradition
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watching this thread unfold, if you guys need a peace maker, i am here
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We form friends here on and off line.They share there pain and there joys.There love of music,there likes and dislikes,even there opinions.You have the right to yours,just like we have the right to ours.I don't judge people for what they do,nor should anyone else.If you don't feel you are happy here,maybe its not the place for you....everyones choice to stay or leave,to post a forum sharing what ever they chose...have a nice day!
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proudcougar: Why would someone go on a dating site to post a last goodbye to a friend/lover???
If i was mourning a loved one's loss---I WOULD NOT BE ON A DATING SITE.....
If i was mourning a loved one's loss---I WOULD NOT BE ON A DATING SITE.....
I think I understand where you are coming from but as someone already said people do not use the site for just dating and although you may not choose to openly discuss a personal topic others do. Take from that what you will but that is just the way some people are.
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proudcougar: ALL THIS IS A DATING SITE---A WORLD WHERE PEOPLE HAVE TO RELY ON A WORLD IN FRONT OF A COMPUTER...
REAL FRIENDSHIP IS WHERE CLOSE FRIENDS SHARE JOYS, SORROW TOGETHER ...NOT ONLINE SHARING WITH THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE.
REAL FRIENDSHIP IS WHERE CLOSE FRIENDS SHARE JOYS, SORROW TOGETHER ...NOT ONLINE SHARING WITH THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE.
WHATS WRONG WITH YOU THE PEOPLE I HAVE MET HERE HAVE BEEN THERE FOR ME MY MOM JUST HAD A MASSIVE STROKE A MAY NOT PULL OUT OF IT
BUT MY CS FRIENDS ARE HERE FOR ME AS I AM THERE FOR THEM
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proudcougar: Why would someone go on a dating site to post a last goodbye to a friend/lover???
If i was mourning a loved one's loss---I WOULD NOT BE ON A DATING SITE.....
If i was mourning a loved one's loss---I WOULD NOT BE ON A DATING SITE.....
Different people have different ways of dealing with loss and sadness. It is not for anyone to judge that.
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not here to meet any one i know that wont happen, been here for two months , just chillin enjoying life , with the aches i have friends are nice here even through bad an good times. have no problem with them, sorry for your loss but everyone goes through it' it takes practice, you will be come stronger
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I didn't realize my opinion mattered so much on this site.
Thanks
You accused the man of being a scammer!!He wrote a heart wrenching post and you ripped into him for being here??
This forum is an eye opener to characters and personalties which can help if looking for a partner...I am afraid to say that how you have represented yourself is shocking.