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Sep 3, 2010 7:47 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
proudcougar
proudcougarproudcougardauphin, Manitoba Canada2 Threads 20 Posts
Why would someone go on a dating site to post a last goodbye to a friend/lover???
If i was mourning a loved one's loss---I WOULD NOT BE ON A DATING SITE.....
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Sep 3, 2010 7:49 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
I think your post on that thread was out of order.


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Sep 3, 2010 7:52 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
proudcougar: Why would someone go on a dating site to post a last goodbye to a friend/lover???
If i was mourning a loved one's loss---I WOULD NOT BE ON A DATING SITE.....


the forum poster ( the regulars ) consider each other as friends, so we share something that we wish to share with friends ... we pray, cry ,laugh , even have a disagreement , fall in love

bouquet
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Sep 3, 2010 7:53 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA120 Threads 2 Polls 2,218 Posts
bodleing: I think your post on that thread was out of order.


As do I
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Sep 3, 2010 7:54 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
bodleing: I think your post on that thread was out of order.

I agree...how utterly inconsiderate
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Sep 3, 2010 7:55 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
proudcougar: Why would someone go on a dating site to post a last goodbye to a friend/lover???
If i was mourning a loved one's loss---I WOULD NOT BE ON A DATING SITE.....

And for your information...not all use this as a dating site.
I myself am here to post in the forums and chat with friends.

I find this post completely cold hearted.
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Sep 3, 2010 7:56 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Because they want us to know,how sorry they are for their loss.- The point is how sincere we are posting back and say how sorry we are,even not knowing the lost person at all.-
proudcougar: Why would someone go on a dating site to post a last goodbye to a friend/lover???
If i was mourning a loved one's loss---I WOULD NOT BE ON A DATING SITE.....
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Sep 3, 2010 7:57 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
proudcougar
proudcougarproudcougardauphin, Manitoba Canada2 Threads 20 Posts
ALL THIS IS A DATING SITE---A WORLD WHERE PEOPLE HAVE TO RELY ON A WORLD IN FRONT OF A COMPUTER...
REAL FRIENDSHIP IS WHERE CLOSE FRIENDS SHARE JOYS, SORROW TOGETHER ...NOT ONLINE SHARING WITH THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE.
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Sep 3, 2010 8:00 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
proudcougar: Why would someone go on a dating site to post a last goodbye to a friend/lover???
If i was mourning a loved one's loss---I WOULD NOT BE ON A DATING SITE.....


Honestly, it's fine to have no compassion - but to proudly shout about it and to knock someone, who for obvious reasons is already down, is just low. frustrated doh
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Sep 3, 2010 8:00 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
proudcougar: ALL THIS IS A DATING SITE---A WORLD WHERE PEOPLE HAVE TO RELY ON A WORLD IN FRONT OF A COMPUTER...
REAL FRIENDSHIP IS WHERE CLOSE FRIENDS SHARE JOYS, SORROW TOGETHER ...NOT ONLINE SHARING WITH THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE.


Thats rather hypocritical...you say this is a dating site...where you wish to meet the man you wish to spend your life with yes? but you are not allowed friends here either then? What a crock,

Your opinion i guess...dunno
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Sep 3, 2010 8:05 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
proudcougar: ALL THIS IS A DATING SITE---A WORLD WHERE PEOPLE HAVE TO RELY ON A WORLD IN FRONT OF A COMPUTER...
REAL FRIENDSHIP IS WHERE CLOSE FRIENDS SHARE JOYS, SORROW TOGETHER ...NOT ONLINE SHARING WITH THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE.


no my dear

all we are doing here is showing what we really are like , not just a facade of good looking picture , we are real people with feelings and we are not ashamed to show them

is nt that the essence of a dating side ???? to present your self the way you really are????bouquet
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Sep 3, 2010 8:07 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
proudcougar: ALL THIS IS A DATING SITE---A WORLD WHERE PEOPLE HAVE TO RELY ON A WORLD IN FRONT OF A COMPUTER...
REAL FRIENDSHIP IS WHERE CLOSE FRIENDS SHARE JOYS, SORROW TOGETHER ...NOT ONLINE SHARING WITH THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE.


Who made you the censor? The beauty of the forums is that everyone is free to post whatever they want. And when someone feels down because a loved one has died, then they may post a thread about that, it's their choice to do so.

If you don't think it's right, then don't post on these threads. But don't go round telling people off for using the forums as they feel fit, it's their right! doh doh doh
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Sep 3, 2010 8:09 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
And i have just read what you wrote on someones thread over a lost one..
you should be utterly ashamed of yourself...disgusting.thumbs down
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Sep 3, 2010 8:11 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
Scuze me but I disagree with your post here..
I've known a guy from Canada for almost 5 years
and he's been there for me since day one;
he's seen me through breakups and new beginnings.
He's also been there to share in the heartaches
of teen dating,the heartaches of being a single
parent.But he's been there because he's a FRIEND.
Do might I suggest you choose your words
carefully before posting...JMO.


proudcougar: ALL THIS IS A DATING SITE---A WORLD WHERE PEOPLE HAVE TO RELY ON A WORLD IN FRONT OF A COMPUTER...
REAL FRIENDSHIP IS WHERE CLOSE FRIENDS SHARE JOYS, SORROW TOGETHER ...NOT ONLINE SHARING WITH THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE.
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Sep 3, 2010 8:12 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
proudcougar: Why would someone go on a dating site to post a last goodbye to a friend/lover???
If i was mourning a loved one's loss---I WOULD NOT BE ON A DATING SITE.....



Arent you a compassionate soul.

The thread was about a past lover, we all have them. Just because a relationship is over does not mean that we are not affected by the persons passing, we may not love that person in the same way anymore but they were, and sometimes remain, an important part of our lives.

People draw comfort were they can when they are hurting, I have seen it many times on here and indeed have drawn on the friends I have made here many times myself.

A dating site, yes, but also a place for adults to interact and if need be to share hurt, pain, joy.
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Sep 3, 2010 8:12 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
proudcougar
proudcougarproudcougardauphin, Manitoba Canada2 Threads 20 Posts
GEE WHO MADE YOU QUEEN OF SENSORSHIP...
FREE SPEECH I NEVER CONDEMNED YOU FOR WHATEVER YOU WROTE
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Sep 3, 2010 8:13 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
proudcougar: GEE WHO MADE YOU QUEEN OF SENSORSHIP...
FREE SPEECH I NEVER CONDEMNED YOU FOR WHATEVER YOU WROTE


Erm, who are you shouting at now?? confused
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Sep 3, 2010 8:16 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
proudcougar
proudcougarproudcougardauphin, Manitoba Canada2 Threads 20 Posts
look this is my opinion and whatever most of these people wrote ---i never wrote anything on their comments i just gave my opinion that is it just my opinion
I didn't realize my opinion mattered so much on this site.
Thanks
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Sep 3, 2010 8:16 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
proudcougar: GEE WHO MADE YOU QUEEN OF SENSORSHIP...
FREE SPEECH I NEVER CONDEMNED YOU FOR WHATEVER YOU WROTE


using the quote button would be nice of you....rose
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Sep 3, 2010 8:17 AM CST lOSING A PARTNER
glenvalley65
glenvalley65glenvalley65Philippines, Doha Qatar1 Threads 56 Posts
Maybe she/he just want a moral support from everybody here to lessen the pain.
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