Everyone will have similar or different views, but my advice depends on whether you want to save the relationship or not. If you want to save the relationship, here's what I would do. 1. Send a letter (or an email) and keep it brief (regardless of who is right or wrong) and agree to give your boyfriend some space to think things through. 2. Here comes the hardest part, do not accept just friendship and do not make contact during this period. Let him make contact with you. Good Luck!
Wonder who is going to take responsibility for what has happened? There is an investigation but wondering what the results will be? In other words will anything substantial come from this? I hope the tragedy is not swept away given the numbers of people who have died and it is not claimed it is overblown as with other investigations. I don't think human rights campaigners for example, will forget about this even if some people are anti-human rights.
Let's hope it was just 1 soldier involved as that is bad enough!
"A member of an Afghan government delegation investigating the killings said Wednesday that the group has concluded they were carried out by more than one soldier. Parliament member Sayeed Ishaq Gilani said the delegation had heard from villagers who said they saw more than 15 troops at the scene.
But it is unclear whether the soldiers the villagers saw were part of a search party that left the base to look for the U.S. soldier who was missing. The delegation is slated to formally release the results of its investigation later Wednesday.
On Tuesday, the delegation visited the two villages in southern Kandahar province where the shootings took place. Two villagers who lost relatives insisted that at least two soldiers took part in the shootings.
U.S. military officials — some villagers who have spoken to The Associated Press — have so far insisted that only one soldier was involved."
Yes a death he will not be charged with. Your'e right the defendant's attitude is important in this case. Will be interesting to see how this case turns out in relation to alleged anti gay and cyber bullying.
RE: Trying to be strong
@cuddles.. "I love him" and why wouldn't you after a serious 3 year relationship? That's all that matters right?