yesterday this girl i went and meet like two weeks ago left me this: I am not the one either i'm sorry i got married last tuesday. To my first love who i am absolutely extremely happy with so i hope u ur find ur one and only but i have already found mine.
I feel heart broken. What do i do now do i just move on or give up lookin
Move on! Don't give up. Be patient,the one of your dreams & not your nightmares may be just around the corner.You are lucky that you hadn't been involved with her for that long.
Not to sound harsh or anything...But I just finished replying to your other thread about falling in love with the first person you meet...
And what I will say here like I said to that thread is...You can't say your in love until you have gotten to know a person. Infatuated and attracted the first time? Yes. Love? NO!
Maybe take this as a lesson learned and next time take the time to get to know someone before getting romanticaly involved.
Hi Paul , Let me sympathise with you and share your hurt . Life is hard . Some creatures are there for the briefest of time . They mate and then they are gone .We are not that different . We share most of our behaviour with other members of the living club . Falling in love and needing a person to share you life with is on of our strongest animal instincts . If we did not have it there would not be an existence . When your partner is not there the balance of hormones in your body changes . You want her back . Unknown to you your hormones begin to make changes in your behaviour . After a couple of personal experiences your responses become calmer and you begin to handle the situation better . Relax , take it easy . Life is just the same as when she was not there . These are your hormones which are at work , making you sad , making you sleepless and drive you crazy . Divert your energy towards something deeply engaging .. give it time and it will all go away . Good luck
Think of it this way, statistically women outnumber men 3 to 1 in your region, so for every one of you, there are three of her... Move on. Her loss is your gain.
dude i can only offer my opinion but how are you gonna know if the right one is out there if you dont look and obviously she wasnt good enough to have you i dont know much but if she was rude enough to not tell you that there was a possoibility that she would be involved with someone else then seems to me like she was using you as a security blanket in case the other did not work (harsh) i know but true she had to have had some idea she was gettin married right? JMO
she sounds like a player to me, someone who is into headgames and doesnt care if she hurts other people......Good luck and keep your chin up there is someone out there for you and you will find her.
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I feel heart broken. What do i do now do i just move on or give up lookin