The girl of my dreams went and got married! ( Archived) (16)

Sep 13, 2006 11:59 AM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
paulbob2287
paulbob2287paulbob2287bluffton, Indiana USA31 Threads 482 Posts
yesterday this girl i went and meet like two weeks ago left me this: I am not the one either i'm sorry i got married last tuesday. To my first love who i am absolutely extremely happy with so i hope u ur find ur one and only but i have already found mine.

I feel heart broken. What do i do now do i just move on or give up lookincrying
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Sep 13, 2006 12:00 PM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
fabs_4000
fabs_4000fabs_4000White Rock, British Columbia Canada44 Threads 2,381 Posts
Move on dude!!!! you can do it!!!!!!!!!! you will find someone new!!!!!
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Sep 13, 2006 12:05 PM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
chrissy87
chrissy87chrissy87Findlay, Ohio USA38 Threads 998 Posts
Move on! Don't give up. Be patient,the one of your dreams & not your nightmares may be just around the corner.You are lucky that you hadn't been involved with her for that long.
hug
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Sep 13, 2006 12:27 PM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
SusieRR
SusieRRSusieRRnortheast, Ohio USA78 Threads 3 Polls 2,122 Posts
You are only 19!
This is part of life.
It will help you put more into your music.
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Sep 13, 2006 12:34 PM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
iRon12345
iRon12345iRon12345Tempe, USA35 Threads 2,473 Posts
wish her well......and move on.
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Sep 13, 2006 12:39 PM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
I'm not sure I know exactly what you're saying ...

"yesterday this girl I went and meet like two weeks ago"

Do you mean "went with", and do you mean you did this during the last 2 weeks?

If so, consider yourself lucky that someone you were dating was obviously already in a relationship and he's now stuck with her, not you.

On the other hand, she might just not be interested and is trying to be "nicer" about it than being truthful and saying she's not interested.

Either way, it was 2 weeks. Have a beer, sing a song, do whatever it is that helps you move on.
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Sep 13, 2006 12:50 PM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
paulbob2287
paulbob2287paulbob2287bluffton, Indiana USA31 Threads 482 Posts
i was wonderin the same thing maybe she is trying to blow me off. i hate it when people cant be truthful
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Sep 13, 2006 12:53 PM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
truthful, untruthful ... irrelevant either way

she was either burning the candle at both ends or isn't interested

I seem to have better luck with women who are actually interested in me than the ones who don't like me grin
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Sep 13, 2006 1:30 PM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
paulbob2287
paulbob2287paulbob2287bluffton, Indiana USA31 Threads 482 Posts
i guess its just the feeling of being rejected that hurts more than anything.
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Sep 13, 2006 1:33 PM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
Someone said you're 19, so I'm going to assume you're 19.

When I was 19, I figured if I talked to 100 women and only 99 turned me down flat, it was a good day. grin
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Sep 13, 2006 1:35 PM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
Not to sound harsh or anything...But I just finished replying to your other thread about falling in love with the first person you meet...

And what I will say here like I said to that thread is...You can't say your in love until you have gotten to know a person. Infatuated and attracted the first time? Yes. Love? NO!

Maybe take this as a lesson learned and next time take the time to get to know someone before getting romanticaly involved.
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Sep 13, 2006 2:15 PM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
YamiYami
YamiYamiYamiYamiNorthWest, England UK30 Threads 1,252 Posts
Hi Paul , Let me sympathise with you and share your hurt . Life is hard . Some creatures are there for the briefest of time . They mate and then they are gone .We are not that different . We share most of our behaviour with other members of the living club . Falling in love and needing a person to share you life with is on of our strongest animal instincts . If we did not have it there would not be an existence . When your partner is not there the balance of hormones in your body changes . You want her back . Unknown to you your hormones begin to make changes in your behaviour . After a couple of personal experiences your responses become calmer and you begin to handle the situation better . Relax , take it easy . Life is just the same as when she was not there . These are your hormones which are at work , making you sad , making you sleepless and drive you crazy . Divert your energy towards something deeply engaging .. give it time and it will all go away .
Good luck
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Sep 13, 2006 2:39 PM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
Butterfly
ButterflyButterflyMobile, Alabama USA3 Threads 852 Posts
Think of it this way, statistically women outnumber men 3 to 1 in your region, so for every one of you, there are three of her... Move on. Her loss is your gain. angel
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Oct 6, 2006 9:51 PM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
paulbob2287
paulbob2287paulbob2287bluffton, Indiana USA31 Threads 482 Posts
good point so where is the other two.
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Oct 7, 2006 12:12 AM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
skippy73703
skippy73703skippy73703lewiston, Idaho USA12 Threads 216 Posts
dude i can only offer my opinion but how are you gonna know if the right one is out there if you dont look and obviously she wasnt good enough to have you i dont know much but if she was rude enough to not tell you that there was a possoibility that she would be involved with someone else then seems to me like she was using you as a security blanket in case the other did not work (harsh) i know but true she had to have had some idea she was gettin married right? JMO
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Oct 7, 2006 12:15 AM CST The girl of my dreams went and got married!
lisa83501
lisa83501lisa83501Lewiston, Idaho USA1 Threads 61 Posts
she sounds like a player to me, someone who is into headgames and doesnt care if she hurts other people......Good luck and keep your chin up there is someone out there for you and you will find her.
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