MAIL ORDER BRIDES ( Archived) (212)

Desertguy49: Half the bank account, that's an understatement Pat.
I would more likely say, suck the life blood out you...

robsantiago15: This is almost like trying to buy love. Dude, money can't buy you love. I guess you just have to be patient and wait for the right one.

I have coworker that married an American and the cost of her immigrating to the U.S. was almost $40,000. That's a lot money to pay especially if things were to go wrong. I guess if you are rich, then I guess you can afford to do this.

gininitaly: Oh my Jackman... you've lost me here:
HUMBLE is a prerequisite for a proper woman???
This the 21 century isn't it? Are we sheep herders in a Muslim country with wives as chattel, gazing in awe at male dominance?

Now dear I will have to say that it's time to get your feet back on the ground... those days should be over in the western world where 'everyone' is putting the bacon on the table and each should be pulling his/her own weight financially, emotionally and practically. Are your egos so fragile, that they can't stand on their own without the morale boost of lording over a female to get you through the day?

Well I don't approve of anyone playing the high and mighty... female or male... frankly we just can't afford to these days, it's a lot of work and expense holding things together with both working; kids, mortgages, insurance, cars, houses... these are equal opportunity stressors now, simply because we need, in most cases, 2 working people to make ends meet.

Now, are telling me you would like a beautiful Chinese doctor to come home after a draining day and coddle you simply because you are male? EVERYONE needs coddling these days... and always have! It's not just the prerequisite of the delicate male.

Everyone needs to carry their load EQUALLY...care for each other equally, share the responsibilities, the joys and sorrows equally. Because only as a true team of two individuals working towards common goals in partnership, will there be respect and consideration. We are both human beings on the road of life together, one no better than the other.

Just my humble opinion.

equiya: The poor countries in Africa, I didn't invent that word. I met a couple of women from Africa who came to the US by marrying some one for immigration papers, They told me the story themselves.
Right now as we speak there is someone from Russia who came to Canada that way. She has only been here 2 years and is divorced from the man. Again, she told me the story herself.
There is a 92 year old man who has married a 44 year old woman rom Russia for immigration papers, he told someone who told me, we share the same cleaner. My cleaner is from somewhere in Africa and tells me she has maaried her cousin for immigration and tax purposes. Told me the story when she asked me to help her write a letter to the authorities about the case, I am NOT being unfair to anyone. I am offering my advice to the OP. He asked for advice.

venusenvy: I totally agree Jeffy...You should only ever marry for one reason...LOVE!