sammymac: OK, first up I'm not a player, nor am I loser etc but as I got into my mid-20's Ive found its a whole different ball game to late teens/ early 20's. I never used to have problems meeting woman, but these days I just don't seem to be able to do it.
Ive been in a few situations recently when ive been in a pub with my friends and a girl is eyeing me up, but I just seem to freeze and never make the move.
So ladies, your at the other end of the bar, how would you like to be approached considering your checking a guy out? Is it as simple as hello, because its not that simple for us poor guys. Moreover i'm talking about every day life, not just in pubs. In my mind its so simple, but damn girls are scary!
Just ask the barmaid what she is drinking and send her a drink. If she excepts... Go for it... What's so hard about that?
misscherylxocalifornia city, California USA674 posts
misscherylxo: wow is all i can say i have moved on ever since i been on this site you been knocking me down , starting with me, it 's not me who is knocking you down i am not offensive with females who are pretty there are alot of them, there you go again assuming what i think i am house mother who takes good care of my kids you shhouldnt even say that about me none your bussiness what i do with my life these are forums for people who need a advice all you thiink of is trying to start with me i am not a jealous person there few female who like me on here, very few who dont those are the drama type one's have been on few dates , it not about popularity who had more date's un like you it's a popularity contest..if you dont like me why just ignore me why throw in offensive words to start drama
i am done is not worth my energy to argue miles away your the one who argue didnt like my opinion, i will talk how ever i want to on these forums i am not a mean person seems you have a problem with me or you wouldnt dislike my opinions trying to start something see ya
leostartingoverSandton, Gauteng South Africa1,685 posts
deadbutwhy: Sammy, how do you deal with catfights?
Hmmmmm. I think you have to spray em with a hosepipe!!! Come on gals... Far too much fighting happening on these forums lately. Let's not add to it here.
misscherylxocalifornia city, California USA674 posts
jude0076: Buy a girl a pint of Guiness,and you're in! be seeing you.
hey you all i do is write things what i have done they arne' t to be offensive in any way but some feel oh well such as life not on here for arguement lol some people amaze me .
misscherylxo: your right havnt said one mean thing on these forums
if your idea of not being mean by accusing poster intuit on this thread of being '"bi" when you dont even know her yet, then obviously you need to go back and read your posts cherryx
misscherylxocalifornia city, California USA674 posts
jahzah: hate to say but it looks to me like your starting trouble
not starting trouble, if you read the post and scrolled up you would find out who started it. someone dislike what i said, they can't handle the truth i said , if you dont want a date a drinker dont go to bars he was just asking a ? open was starting she didnt like my opinon some are not gonna like what people say on these forums it wasn't meant for arguement ,
deadbutwhyeast, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia1,295 posts
misscherylxo: not starting trouble, if you read the post and scrolled up you would find out who started it. someone dislike what i said, they can't handle the truth i said , if you dont want a date a drinker dont go to bars he was just asking a ? open was starting she didnt like my opinon some are not gonna like what people say on these forums it wasn't meant for arguement ,
Let me ask you... do you smoke the dreaded green stuff?
misscherylxo: hey you all i do is write things what i have done they arne' t to be offensive in any way but some feel oh well such as life not on here for arguement lol some people amaze me .
I have to be honest here, you actually amaze me. I have seen post after post of yours insulting people for NO reason, then you actually say that you never insult people.
If you were a rational person I would suggest that you read your own posts and see the evidence of this for yourself, but your posts do not reflect a person who thinks in a rational way.
I am fully expecting some sort of insult or denial from you in response to this and I actually dont care I just do not feel it is fair that you do the exact thing that you accuse others of doing.
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
jahzah: hate to say but it looks to me like your starting trouble
i agree,looked like a nice thread...funny how some people think they can say crap about someone and then try to twist others words around to make them look bad...play poor,poor me...well if you can't back up a statement don't say it.
demonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA5,654 posts
vonney: I have to be honest here, you actually amaze me. I have seen post after post of yours insulting people for NO reason, then you actually say that you never insult people.
If you were a rational person I would suggest that you read your own posts and see the evidence of this for yourself, but your posts do not reflect a person who thinks in a rational way.
I am fully expecting some sort of insult or denial from you in response to this and I actually dont care I just do not feel it is fair that you do the exact thing that you accuse others of doing.
jahzahHappyfairygoblinland, Victoria Australia2,574 posts
misscherylxo: not starting trouble, if you read the post and scrolled up you would find out who started it. someone dislike what i said, they can't handle the truth i said , if you dont want a date a drinker dont go to bars he was just asking a ? open was starting she didnt like my opinon some are not gonna like what people say on these forums it wasn't meant for arguement ,
misscherylxo: i personally wouldnt be at a bar, they are mostly alcholics , but if that is you then yeah ask her to dance name first or buy her a drink drinks aren't that much 400 dollars
misscherylxocalifornia city, California USA674 posts
demonfairy: i agree,looked like a nice thread...funny how some people think they can say crap about someone and then try to twist others words around to make them look bad...play poor,poor me...well if you can't back up a statement don't say it.
i can back up my words cause i havn't done anything wrong i just was commenting on the poor guy comment but yet you all are against me lol
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hate to say but it looks to me like your starting trouble