Women.. Why is it.... (44)
JAN_is: Based on what the OP has told us I think she is acting as a friend. Forget the male, female stereotype attitudes, The problem seems more to be that the OP wants more than friendship.
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JAN_is: Based on what the OP has told us I think she is acting as a friend. Forget the male, female stereotype attitudes, The problem seems more to be that the OP wants more than friendship.
I thought so too until he said that she would give no reason why he should not go out with the dancer. Why express her opinion and then not explain her reasons??
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opentuit: I thought so too until he said that she would give no reason why he should not go out with the dancer. Why express her opinion and then not explain her reasons??
Maybe she did in all reality but the OP chose to ignore it, and if you read the OP´s post above this you may come to the same conclusion I have. He simply wants more from this than she does and cannot accept only friendship.
Sorry OP, but that´s all I can glean from what you´ve written.
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JAN_is: Maybe she did in all reality but the OP chose to ignore it, and if you read the OP´s post above this you may come to the same conclusion I have. He simply wants more from this than she does and cannot accept only friendship.
Sorry OP, but that´s all I can glean from what you´ve written.
Sorry OP, but that´s all I can glean from what you´ve written.
Yes, perhaps you're right.
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JAN_is: Maybe she did in all reality but the OP chose to ignore it, and if you read the OP´s post above this you may come to the same conclusion I have. He simply wants more from this than she does and cannot accept only friendship.
Sorry OP, but that´s all I can glean from what you´ve written.
Sorry OP, but that´s all I can glean from what you´ve written.
Sorry, I should have said that I asked her numorous times to explain why not, but she had no answer
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JAN_is: Maybe she did in all reality but the OP chose to ignore it, and if you read the OP´s post above this you may come to the same conclusion I have. He simply wants more from this than she does and cannot accept only friendship.
Sorry OP, but that´s all I can glean from what you´ve written.
Agreed..he won't accept just friendship..Sorry OP, but that´s all I can glean from what you´ve written.
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the more I read outside thoughts and opinions, I find that I am the one who is wrong and just need to quit bothering her.
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invinciblemuse: I reckon she wants you to herself, so make yourself a little less available and see what happens... showing the other person that there's competition can help sometimes.
Will walking away get her attention?... or should I run?
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nanners2863: Sometimes a person can't explain why she can't feel more than just friendship..she just does. If I were you..I would try to accept her friendship and expect nothing more..friends are a valuable asset..
I agree, but I dont want to impede her life... so I am taking the advice to walk away and not look back.
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I haven't been available to her in a couple weeks because of friend issues. issues... but she knew that
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deadbutwhy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PDA4lcw8k1g&feature=related
LOL, i like to use this word, as i was impressive to hear my boss to say this word,
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kcuc0574: LOL, i like to use this word, as i was impressive to hear my boss to say this word,
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there is all great advice hear but all I can see is that she is using you as a come do what I wont you to do , sorry hun but ,she wont you to go out with her , but not to dance with other women,like your haveing fun with women, thats not a friend, she is getting all what she wonts, ,I would walk away from her and quickly, and find someone else, you deserve it 
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It be done... I told her that the friendship wouldn't work when I am so in love with her... so we flew off to Vegas last night and got hitched.... I guess I should be figuring a way back home...
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invinciblemuse: Kiss her and see what happens!!! Gotta find the right moment and setting though...
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opentuit: Yeah... marriage... that solves everything!!
Excellent answer... I almost fell out of my chair... thank you
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nanners2863: Uh huh...sure you did Yesterday she didn't want to date you but today..she wants to be your wife....and tomorrow..I'm cartwheeling to the moon..
Ya better bring a coat... I hear it is cold up there
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Hmm. This may be a long shot, but there just may not be the right chemistry between you and them to be more intimate. I have known guys who were good friends, we would hang out and share our problems, but I would not want to be with them either. The feeling towards them was that of a buddy. Nothing wrong with that as many of us are also in the same situation. Give yourself time and the right girl will come along. 
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midnight_angel_1: Hmm. This may be a long shot, but there just may not be the right chemistry between you and them to be more intimate. I have known guys who were good friends, we would hang out and share our problems, but I would not want to be with them either. The feeling towards them was that of a buddy. Nothing wrong with that as many of us are also in the same situation. Give yourself time and the right girl will come along.
if she lost u as a friend..as a person she can talk to whenver she wants too..she might realise how much u mean to her..i know this is kinda playing games but hey..dr pepper..
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